yaya i agree wit u..nowadays many young ladies make-up getting pretty wit all those cosmetics products in order 2 impress a rich kid or guy or uncle!!!!so that they will have nice car 2 sit in and good + expensive restaurant 2 have food!! ppl r very materialistic already...got money got HONEY (sexy ladies)
earning 10k is a lot for me..im stil studying thou..hahaha!

Not at all, most of we ladies have decent job with decent pay, we can afford ourselves to sit in a nice car, to eat in a nice restaurant but doesn't mean that we'll stop looking for a compatible significant other, or stop persuading a better life

Haih....her car-rm800,her study fee-rm800 ady lo~not include going out yet...she din spend much on clothes lar..less than rm100 per month..but when birthday each year she will ask for a handbag lo...around rm1200++ range..

Haha just like me! I like collecting designer's bags too but I'll shower my loved one with his gadgets too (PS3, hp etc)

aiyo...y like dat r??now 21years old only aim for rm1k-1.5k designe's bag....when 25???haih....yalor....give n take,both side oso happy...

To those women who expect their bf to earn > 5k every month by the time he is 30, be prepared to be dissappointed. LOL.

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Added on April 25, 2008, 6:22 pmDude, don't be fooled. These women aren't single, they have bfs. When they work in the corporate world, they will tell your they are single because 1) they want to keep their options open, 2) better chances of promotion.

This post has been edited by spanker: Apr 25 2008, 06:22 PM

LOL i can't stress on how true this situation is in real life conditions..

average pay nowadays i think girls also should know what.. not a significant difference to what girls are getting.. that's the average guy = no cable, no shoeshine for boss, no amazing lucky opportunities.. but it also depends on which field.. usually business field is the easiest to fluctuate.. if u're lucky it fluctuates in your terms loh..
mind you, the trend i'm seeing right now is the cars they drive are usually what their parents bought em for.. so, usually : rich parents -> rich kids.. "son, when u start working, i'll buy you a car".. "owh cool daddy, u're the greatest!" -end-

IMHO, I think majority guys <30 in KL town below earn about RM 3k - Rm 5K position level Exec or Sn Exec.

Marriage is a commitment by 2 person. The expenses are for both of them.. eg.. House, cars, children etcs..
If the wife can help, it will be good.

Some girls just look for rich guy and expect to be pampered and enjoy life w/o working anymore. Marry datuk, rich man's son, high pay Managers etcs
Just spent the money while the husband working. I think its very selfish and lazy attitude for girl to think like tat... marry for $ 1st... love 2nd.

The guys has no rights to say the girl dumps him for a richer guy? Maybe he should blame himself coz choose that "High Maintenance" girl at the 1st place.

Maybe some guys think he should shoulder the whole financial responsibility and let his wife just enjoy life. If he got big income than its okla.

gurls nowadays are materialistic....peace...hehe

Welcome to the real world. Anyway guys shouldn't worry so much as if you don't have the means to provide her the lifestyle she wants, she just won't pick you. She'll just pick those that can provide the lifestyle that she wants.

However if a girl can "pick" a guy based on material/wealth standards a guy too can dump a girl based on her beauty standards. I believe that's fair.

So if a girl marries a guy because he's rich, grows old , no longer pretty and a guy dumps her for a prettier one, seriously I have no pity for the girl.

Yeah.. those girls tat goes for guys with "big earnining" should read tis oso.

http://crystalxue.blogspot.com/2008/...-alan-koh.html

http://prince8.blogspot.com/

Ya.. i know some pretty girl till now also no bf coz she said haven't find the rite one yet....maybe she look for those with big pocket guys.
Another girl i know, she got alot of guys fren working as Lawyer, engineer, Dr. well paid also but just friend only.. lol... she said she getting old liao. 26 lar.. etcs still no bf. She wants to buy Coach bag la.. Caldina car etcs.. but wants her bf buy for her..lol.

Later suddenly she got bf after her family intro a guy working with Offshore Oil company to her. Salary >10K la for sure.
One girl KL and tat guy in Sarawak.. only come visit her like every 2-3 months when got holiday... lol.
Later less than 1 year she quit her job and got married liao.
She moved to Sarawak staying in big Banglo, big car and a big dog to accompany/play wit her while her husband go to work..lol.

Now she starts to complaint her husband monthly salary now less bcoz US currency drops.
She also complaint coz her husband gave alot pocket money to his own parents & brothers n and got less money for her to use.



Cheers,
v_viper88



This post has been edited by viper88: Apr 29 2008, 12:29 PM

seriously, you should look for another guy with 30k income per month. so you won't have a miserable life after married.

it's ok not to know how much ur bf is earning per month.. at least u need to know wat job he is in n the job scope.. anyway, as a gal doing saving for ur own is very important..

for me after marry i wil choose to continue to work/go after my dream.. at least i wont bcome "yellow face lady" tat soon.. n i dun wan fully depend on my husband on tat.. as i mentioned above, saving is important.. so wat i earn at least i can keep it n buy watever i like rather than waiting for him to buy for me.. n touchwood.. if get divorced at least i hv the capable to continue survive n for my children too.. n i dun wan to get free publishing in newspaper asking help for money to continue my life..

skill n knowledge is important for gal nowadays too not only for guys.. we as a gal hv to b smart n intelligent too.. not everything oso hv to depend on guys.. we hv our own hand, leg n brain to do it..

Don't need to bother them so much. If one day when their husband dumps them for a prettier, younger and girls with a more perky boobs, well you can just say "Too Bad" to them.

My previous post explained all, hopefully its enough to awake them

Hmm, actually I know one place where you can hope to find rather wealthy guys.


Go to accounting firms, particularly auditors.. If they stayed in the firm for 5-8 years, their pay should be around 6-10k. I've known a few fellas who were fast-tracked in PWC, earning probably 15-20k a month, at 30! Fantastic really. But you must accept that these accountants probably aren't cute and probably are very stingy by nature XD

And likely they ain't that cute.

Dear Alice,

Thank you^^

his job scope, i know he was a lecturer, then since he is the only son, he has to take over his dad company... He's really really smart, like my walking encyclopedia~!!!

daddy never let me work, whenever i talk about it, he will give me credit card... the only working experience was working in my family doctor's clinic with mum's permission, as a nurse and as teacher in my aunt's kindergarten FOC.

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Added on April 30, 2008, 1:01 amJust avoid going for clubbing or bar... it will increase the probabilty of meeting guys with bad intentions. I am not so sure, cause i have never been clubbing before. It was forbidden by my dad. That's the reason given.

Caring and home-loving guys, they normally won't go clubbing... they usually stick at home when free, care for parents, love their pets... maybe bring your pet for a jog(i mean if your pet is a dog), you will meet these kind of guys, or go library:p
me n my bf started our first conversation thru pets... or regarding PhD thesis writing... either one... can't quite remember. (I wasn't interested in him, furthermore, was trying to avoid him caused i did something embarrass and caught by him)

how to meet rich guy... erm, i don't know...

regarding bout the blog... to avoid being cheated, if that guy said he is what manager or know what VIP, then ask him to bring you to one of the function or dinner, since "you" were his gf. My bf brought me to most of his functions if they didn't clash with my dance or orchestra practises or exam period... really stressed with all Datuk, lawyers, doctor, sometimes embassy ppl and politicians there... although during daddy's function, i have to sit with Datuk n Datin.... but it was totally different.

Opps... sorry, back to topic. I found out how much my bf earns ... he told me last time, i forgot, i mistaken as 3.8k... he said i am 'shotshot', it is 38k. i can't believe he can earns more than my dad! i think nobody will believe me... cause i can't believe him. i told him that he is lying... he let me check his payslip, his bank account...
If he is a director of a company, he can fake his own payslip... can he?
his company is there i am pretty sure, cause i send him sweets, cards and letters(i know it's old fashion, but it feels warmer than receiving emails, he did the same too, he send me a pink mechanic pencil and whole box of my favorite sweets, and graph paper with darken boxes-our secret code ). his company was the one handling my dad's hotel design & (building<<<not so sure) bout 20 years back.

This post has been edited by SakuraSnow: Apr 30 2008, 04:32 PM

Hope your BF stay loyal 2 u.
Some rich guys or those earn big bux tends to have affair outside..
got mistress, china wfe, thailand wife.. etcs.

38K is alot for guy <30 yrs old.
Can support how many mistress/wife and children also beside big house and cars.

Cheers,
v_viper88

wah both sakurasnow and the bf both got rich parents... rich + rich = even richer

Hi SakuraSnow,

I m envy n jealous of u.. hving a rich n yet a good bf.. do ur bf hv any brother??

Since u r from a rich family too, i think u no need to worry too much.. anyway, we should b more independent n stand on our feet.. learn some skill n get more knowledge did help a lot.. we wont know wat is our future wil b.. even how is day for tomolo we oso cant predict it.. so we juz "prepare for an umbrella b4 raining"..