Dear peoples, I have this tale from a fren(name=Ah Liang) to tell, he would like sum opinion on this from u all:
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Got dis gal, is cuties but very mystery also, a lot thing duwan tell, but is very frenly to me, i call her MYSTERY GAL.

I been talk, sms and also phone chat wif her. Her voice is nice, she young and nice voice, but sound little shy on d phone, but in MSN she more open ... So finally using Captain-Class persuasion, i manage to get her come out for casual meet in public place (one-utama) and watch movie...
She agree on last thursday and as a result for 3 day i was restless, waiting, very excite and have feel around me, i feel so torture yet blissful...

Then sunday finally we meet around 11+ there, at the entrance of d one-utama new wings MPH, i wear the red rose on my poket, as i agree wif her. i tell her, "if u dun find me interesting, pls FFK me . i wear red rose 4 u 2 c..."

After wait a while, she cum into view (she edi sent me foto), and i make sincere smile to her, but inside my heart beat like hummingbird wings...

But she reach me, she on d handfon, talking very serious, i also worry she need to run off due to other commitments, so i put my hand into my poket, cross my finger and repeat "pls dun go, pls dun go"...

Then she stop and greet me, not really 100% smile at me, but casual look oni, i also think - dun simply analyse, ppl come out for casual meeting oni... so we go to lunch, but she not hungry so i take her go snacking at TGIF...cos its more mood there

She a bit reserve loh, compare to the MSN persona, but is ok, she and i chats a few things, so so la, not making her impress also, cos i is just simple guys...

Then after that we go to the cinema, i edi buy the tickets earlier (i got ther eat 10:30 cos i so kan-cheong, excite)... and we went in to watch the movie ... halfway thru d movie i see her rubbing her arms, i ask if cold, she say yes, so i put my hand on hers, cos my hand was warm...

Slowly, i make closer contact, and manage to put arm round her... she nvr reject... and when i speak to her, is soft whisper, and we watch wif head againsts each other, my heart was beat like the techno music edi, so fast... i wonder she can felt it or not ...

Then so soon, the movie over, and then we just like, say goodbye, she dun show any feeling of joy, just, well, normal... so i go back text her, she say she n'joy, but i not sure... i kept wonder ... do i has the chance?



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The thoughts and actions are my fren Ah Liang's, the prose and style is mine, so u may find some similar in style.



This post has been edited by vey99: Mar 6 2008, 12:35 PM

ur heart beats like techno music that wat makes me ZOMGROTFLOL...

anyway, u stand a chance if a girl don reject u (since u had done so far on the 1st meet?? )...

keep it up, my fren

This post has been edited by wwlai87: Mar 3 2008, 01:02 PM

good luck~~~

Wat is FFK ??

wow..i salute ur fren...Keng arr..lei hai tak kehh.....! Is this the 1st time ur fren did this to a gurl in the 1st outing..? place his hand to hers and oso manage to place his arm around her...WTHeck man? wow....this need alot of courage to do it...bravo man.. salute u again..!

I wish i can do it. Sadly to say, i never date with MSN gurl be4...shy shy ma...heheee..! NO wory man, keep in touch with her, i believe they's a 2nd chance for u to date wit her again..! But remember, dun push her too hard,k...

Question...it might hurt ur feeling, k.. !i guesss the gurl hav been go thru this before, if not...y she so easily let ur frend place his hand and his arm to her without any rejection or response.?? mayb she likes ur fren...or mayb she think, this not the first time for her...

keep up the work, ya..

yes, Ah Liang you have chance for...another movie!!!

lol!! techno heart beat!!

anyway, don't wonder, just go ahead and try, life is short, live life without regrets!

Ah Liang ask me to put this lyric to her cos he now sing the song for her...

--== Begin Intermission ==--
你知不知道 - 張學友

你能明白嗎　我的愛人
你就是那個讓我丟了心的人
你能明白我嗎
我就是那個為你迷了心的人

Jacky Cheung - Do You Know

Do you understand, my lover
You are the one who make me lose(?) my heart
Do you understand,
I am the one whose heart you have capture...




--== End Intermission ==--

MYSTERY GAL, This song is I sing to you ...
- Ah Liang

This post has been edited by vey99: Mar 3 2008, 01:48 PM

vey99, come clean now, you are "Ah Liang" rite? the other line are just nibbles...this one is hook, line and sinker...tend to one rod...strike!!!

Why such thing never come my way ?

i told Ah Liang, mebbe she is a bit open minded... mebbe...

Ah Liang says thanx

mebbe she really cold and needs the warm of the man

I am sure he gonna ask her out for another movie. This time check weather whther rainy or not first...

Those were Ah Liang exact words - he sy his heart beat like Techno ... i ask him how many BPM ...

um ... sigh ...
i wish ...

mayb the girl is just being open minded, so far i dont see any problem with it. Towards a friend also not a problem if we giv them a hug.
Well,if the ah liang really fall in love with the girl, should go ahead and do something instead of siting here and think does he has a chance
Anyway, good luck and all the best.

aren't you a tiny bit envious of Ah Liang's conquest of the himalaya?
i mean when was the last time you warm a date's hands in a dark cinema...

tell Ah Liang, that holding hands in a cinema because it was cold isn't the same as holding hands...so expected reactions may not appear.

i'm not suree.....seems lik tat gal may hav good impression on u...
she might jus treat tis as casual dating..........

but u might stand a chance...if u keep in touch with her..........

good luck!

that's a gud sign that she's THAT open minded.. at least she's opening up some space for you ur fren to proceed further..

wat a disappointment story.........gantung half way..........no ending.

he also knows he must follow up quickly while d iron is hot...
juz that, he is rindu, risau, so he ask me open d thread for some idea, comments...

haha thats true ... he mite misread, so he gonna make more time to spend wif her, and see how...

i believe she does have a good impression on me Ah Liang.
as for casual, could be, could be...

see if he can get another date this weekend...
he is working on it ... i also wish him good lucks

The story just begun lar ... so easy meh ... Ah Liang need the advise to go on, to give him courage...



就就讓天知道地知道
你对我有多重要...~~
[Let sky and earth know, how important u r to me]~~

This post has been edited by vey99: Mar 3 2008, 02:29 PM

Ah liang handsome or not 1st?haha...if yes mayb got chance ler...gal 1st impression also c look 1st 1...later only c heart same goes to guys

i object that, not all girls r like that

Another song to be dedicate to the MYSTERY GAL ...

Jacky Cheung - Very want to follow you go away
(只想一生跟你走)



This post has been edited by vey99: Mar 3 2008, 02:39 PM

Most of the gals...if some 1 like pak leong kam u wil consider about it or not on ur 1st date?

i dont see any problem if someone doesnt hav a nice look
as long as the person is not doing anything bad then it will never be a problem

well...u r such a nice gal...

Ah Liang , I assure you, is quite a charming man...

Thats true. I happen to know gals who like me for my charm and wit, not for my dashing looks.

that is exceptional ... but then again, of course, if hemsem is better la

and this should be in the Pretty vs Ugly thread la...

um here i hope to get more suports for Ah Liang to progress, hope he can give me info about the second date also...

just ask ah liang to take it slowly, don't show his desu pirate , cheers

ah liang's i feel jealous to you..! i really wish that romantic moment in the dark cinema happen to me..! yea...brother take it slowly, k..! dun show ur desperado feeling to her...u might scared her away..!bush...bushh...

good luck...

Why this skill seems like I used before wan

hahahah DESU PIRATE ... what hap to that thread. ....

He is pacing himself ok ok i suppose...

hello thar suiteng ... when can WE go cinema for a bit of *ahems*

waaa first date already do these kind of shits. SLUTS.

she is nice gal. she have good feel for him is wrong?

wah loa-eh so emo d, ah liang must be you

haha...i suspect tat earlier....

give ppl face la...later if the project fails also can put blame on ah liang ma...easy to go down the stage

true also...
but wif such achievement on the first date, i really respect vey99 ah liang

i am Vey99, he is my fren, Ah Liang.
Vey99 != Ah Liang

Ah Liang = can lum the gal wif his sincerity, and good manner, and caring...

and the gal is not slut ok! its abt two ppl trust each other ...



This post has been edited by vey99: Mar 3 2008, 03:39 PM

the are u feeling cold in cinema trick i already used 2-3 times all successful

then is ur fren ah liang called wei liang ark? XD

ah liang must be wealthy...snack at tgif

yalor..yalor...Snack at TGIF le..! then 2nd date...WHERE???

I thought you actually got intimate with her based on my first sight of your topic header. Well it seems she's in for a round 2.

i not say its a trick, but somehow i think if she is cold, i also will offer to hold her hand, if she dun mind...

nolah, he is juz "Ah Liang"... xD

TGIF biasalar the hero wings or whatever ... too much fry stuff if u ask me...

he havent secure second date yet ...

i also await his round two...

so far Ah Liang see the response here, it give him d courage to go chat her and ask for moar...

so stay tune as we await his next dating wif d MYSTERY GAL...

Wah~lucky Ah Liang~~~

err...? my music...? i love heavy rock, a lil black metal, alternative rock, hip hop, R&B, some trance, some remix, some rave... all also heavy heartbeat stuff...lolz... but of course i know u guys refer to techno music la... but i don think techno is any faster than trance or rave music...

techno music sample 1...
techno music sample 2...
trance music...


only u don see tat doesn't mean more than 60% of the world doesn't see it like u do... everybody's got a requirement to fulfil...

i didnt say all must see as like i do, heck i was telling that forumer not all people care os much of appearance

what kind of language Ah liang talk to the girl? English,Mandarin or Cantonese??

If Cantonese speaking, 50% chances of holding and hugging them.. Abit sensitive and shy.. If you are able to hold or hug them, means Try Harder..

If Mandarin speaking, i can say they are polite girls.. quiet, shy and humble.. So if you are able to hold her hands, means BINGO..


If English speaking, they will be abit open minded which not really care if you hold her hands or hug her.. To them are very commend.. So if you are able to hold or hug her, means Touch 'N' GO..

i know... i'm juz sadly implying tat more than 60% feel tat looks are important... good luck finding a guy who don care bout ur looks...

This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Mar 3 2008, 10:49 PM

same applies to guy

tat's y i wish her luck...

got chance lah... unless if she is a playgal den u babai adi lor..... does she looks like a playgal??... try ask her out a few more dates and see whats what.... if she treats u like sui yu den also babai for u lor.... if when she talks to u dat time also kancheong kancheong type, but still lets u do what u want (like hold hands, close to each other, deep stares etc), means got chance lor....

good luck ler...

this is madness
call her out again, if yes, got chance, if no, very sorry then

date her come out again, ya im agree with you (the_catacombs)
brother still got chance to go on..
just relax, do yourself!!!

well then im pretty lucky tat guys around me dont care about my look
heck mayb u should go out meet more people



This post has been edited by skysherly: Mar 4 2008, 06:56 AM

There are gals who dun place that much emphasis on looks.
This type gal is good, cos I not exactly a looker myself, so it comes down to a good caring heart...
And its gives me chance also to show them i am capable of giving them the loving they are looking for...

Well i not sure if it really makes a diff, if the gal is having nice feel towards u...
Neway Ah Liang's gal is Engrish speaking one ... but dun automatic means she will be very open ...

I suppose the oni disadvantage he has is his name a bit ... less glamour. But better than he call himself RAIN rite ...

Lots of guy care more about other stuffs also (like me)... looks is, at most, tertiary priority...

reminds me of how Hinata talks to Naruto lolz...

Ah Liang havent confirm wif me yet ... I will chase him today...

cheers bro!

Hi there @skysherly. Nama saya VEY99 ...

Slap 9 you! Don't hamsap my little sherly

huh???

she is under ur protection ka ...

i is not hamsup her, i juz say "hi" oni mar ...

This post has been edited by vey99: Mar 4 2008, 11:45 AM

she's protected d~
so dun pray pray lo~

sigh ... i c i c ... just trying to familiar wif ppl who support my thread ma ...
as TS i also need to mingle wif visitors


i read this somewhere, is deep meaning, i feel sad after reading this:
--== intermission ==--
Slowly I cry, like u slowly change
I try to paint a picture of your true feelings but couldn't,
Promise lead to heartaches, heartaches allow me to love,
Heartache because you are not here, I want to tell you my pain,
...
There's a feeling of helplessness that makes a person want to cry
--== end intermission ==--

Can i bully ur muimui sherly ar......

Hahahaha.........

JIE!!!!!!!!!!!~~~~~~~~~~ u so good

y u copy my siggy n turn it into england?
somemore a bit wrong in ur translation

ko, apa lu mau buat

This post has been edited by skysherly: Mar 4 2008, 02:27 PM

yeah... u r lucky... treasure ur luck...


lolz... i know there are... i'm talking bout preference... not choice... most of the time we happen to end up we some1 who don meet our requirements... tat's y i don really set any requirement for gals... all i ask is for her to be 100% female... tat means no shemales...
no offence to shemales...

Coz you sound too "high" liao



Why sound so sad wan

yim 9 you!

Good towards you nia

Very true. Which is why I have no preferences at all. Whatever you ask me to eat for lunch, I eat. Whatever movie you ask me to watch, I watch. Whatever girl / guy you want me to know, I will intro myself.

It's life wert... who says you'll get the perfect person you want? Maybe you can see imprefections as something which is cute.

thanks jie
tat 1 sad meh? Mayb im used to it d
jie, i nearly die

w00t... all sui teng supporter(s) & sui teng is here too...

Die got use meh
Dun disappoint your parents

Now faster go happy happy with your friends

i aint commit suicide lar
i was sent to ICU cos asthma attack
parents not around, n i miss them so much

sorry my China not so powerful... my level oni

we can't get 100% most of the time, neither can our partner, but as longas good to each other and , can edi

i seldom high one ... i very rational one ...

lol... come come join

thats why i intro myself to her, to help out

oh my , do take care, healthy first ok ...

Thanks
Shouldnt u update us about ur friend? Else this may turn into a chat thread

You sounded like wanna commit suicide ma
Somemore with your sad sad poem

Masuk ICU taruk hydrocot ar?

I also kena before, asthma until liddat.

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Added on March 4, 2008, 3:37 pmOh ya ah liang?

This post has been edited by suiteng: Mar 4 2008, 03:37 PM

I will try call him tonite and update his status... he also trying to comfirm a date wif the gal...

go into cinema

while watching movie

ask her cold or not ...

if yes

blow warm your hand, make your hand hot

hold her hand ...

do it a few times

then hold her hand dont let go

till both of u back to the car

(this tactic is very old but still usable)

I manage find Ah Liang, seems he been busy tonite, finally i caught him and he told me:
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Tonite after werk, I met her again. We met up at d cafe in Subangs... sit in a corner, and have dinner.
She is juz as sweet looking as ever ...
But ... she a bit reserved ... said I ... "kan cheong", nervous ...
and I try make chats wif her, she like ... then she said ... "guys ... always want to rush things", look at me and half-smile ...

Sigh ... I think I too kancheong dy ... summore I ask her, weekend free anot... thats when she said d "rush" thing...

How to proceed ar???

Don't call her that much, just talk to her casually online.Don't initiate outings that much anymore until she show that she's interested.

waa~
which strong wind blew u here? ?

she is giving u hint to slow down the process.... gals enjoy the process being court... she wants to be ur gal, but dont want u to get her too easily.... it makes her look cheap...
continue ur effort... i'm sure things will turn out right for both of u... she might jz want some more excitement in this courtship....

hold hands only, wats the big deal.
nv hold gals' hands b4?

Aiyo.. steady a bit leh ehh..
no need kan cheong 1.. jz talk to her as u talk in MSN lo.. if u can joke, joke more to calm the situation. I can joke to makes ppl feel safe and calm.. but dun make those funny funny face until u know she is ok with it..

And try go for something special for dinner..
dun jz sit and eat..
like go eat something which need standing de..
eat at hot place and not always cold place.. (as she easily cold)
get ur mind out of the box.. then it will makes things interesting and easier to communicate.

and dun say those thing like "I LAP YOU YOU LAP ME" so faz ya.. scare hell out of her..
try steady a bit.. b gentleman a bit.. sure no problem de

This post has been edited by Gamerz_Paradise: Mar 5 2008, 09:32 AM

Ah Liang starting to falter edi...hehe

Thanks Ah Liang will take note ...

Not really

Ok, he will try make better comms wif Mystery Gal

All i can say is well done, haha.
You did your bit, i guess she want to take it really slow.
Its good in away too, as in get to know the person more first, or the person may get to know more about you.
Just go with the flow and after that its up to her. Cheers

who is Ah Liang??..

LOL !!
So funny this ts .. XD

vey99,...1st time date gal some out is it?

siao !
I don't think its first time XD

UPDATE 2
So Ah Liang edi been ask by d gal, dun so "rush"... he realize also, that time at the cinema, she was being a little open, there was no special thing, nothing, NOTHING ...

Ah Liang made his own assumption, now he feels, sad, regret a bit, he thought he want to keep d momentum, ask her out again this week, but no...

She free, but she duwan go out. She feels, uncomfortable when he ask her ... means Ah Liang also, too excite that he forget to pace his words and actions ...

So now, Ah Liang take a breather, also, not text/msn/whatever so much dy ...

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Ah Liang realize, she was being open, and he misread the notion ...

I am posting this thread on behalf of my fren, Ah Liang

Its not Ah Liang's first date, seem he is kan cheong cos he strongly for her

hehehe first time wif her i suppose...



This post has been edited by vey99: Mar 6 2008, 12:35 PM

*sigh*
remind me of my first date...
last time i ask a gal go out watch cinema 2 but not at morning la. Actually i invite 2 gal as both of them so close, so i mah invite them watch movie lo. But unfortunately, one of them cant go cuz got emergency, so i juz go watch wif her alone lo. Everthing went as usual but sudd, (the same thing as TS), she felt colt and i take my hand and hold her tight. I ask her warm or not, she juz nodded.... we hold and close to her till the end of movie... after tat i dunno wat to do so ask her let go home...

At tat night, i sms her wat do she feel and she got some kind of feeling. At the end, we start our relationship but still din last long.

ok vey99. Tell liang.. if girl dowan then dont keep force..

keep it cool and try start everything all over again.. she now start rejecting jor.. means something wrong in between..

if for me i will stop for a moment.. a week or so..
then i will text her.. how are you and wat so ever la..
then try share things on the phone.. dun ask her out for now..
if wan jz go out YC onli la.. dun go too far.. near her house can d..
makes her feel safe..
then slow slow pick up from there..
if push now sure break line de..

Good luck to you

wassup super agree

Ah Liang also said, that time was nice to hold her... he feels so floating. I ask him how was the movie and he said he dunno much really, he as just kinda hold her and half the time enjoy the feel oni...

Thanks for the tip bro. Ah Liang now is cooler a bit dy, when sms also, if she reply, he will leave it for few hours den oni reply her ...