w0w... strange.. If i hvnt followed ur story, i thought u would be 'her'.. lolz..

Same thing happen except it wasnt me; it was between my fiance & his crazynurse-ex-gf.. (like freaking creepy..)
He is Buddhist, she's catholic.. So they both were forcing each other to convert.. hahaha.. Anyways, they dated for bout 3 yrs then split just like that bcuz of religion.. Then 1 yr later, he meet me.. 2 yrs on, we're now getting married this year. I'm a free thinker who believes in Christian and Buddhist.. So i don't care too much when he stop me from converting to christianity, i seldom pray anyways..

Conclusion? Follow ur brain and not ur heart.. I know u dated very long and its good and all, but if either of u cannot accept that to each keep own religion.. this will be getting u nowhere.. unless both of u and ur families can managed to see that its okay to be of mixed marriage.. or who knows wat the future holds? You might end up meeting someone who deserves u.. who wont force u to do things u dont wanna do? Do u really want that in a husband?

Don't be influenced of what he say leave country and all that.. that's call emotional blackmail so dont bend to tat.. well, good luck.. it's ur life decision, nobody can stop u from what u want.. it's ur call