i need to seek advice from everyone here... my bf b'day is another 2 week to go.. i wanna give him a surprise & memorable b'day as is he turning 30 this year... but still have no idea what to do.... Last year, we went movie & treat him nice Japaneses buffet. Previously year i treat him to spa, and have romantic candle light dinner... I really need everyone help here..plz

diamond ring.give it to him...then he know what to do

buy him a condom n he will be happy n know what to do

My budget is just rm1k. rm1k diamond is so small.


condom? he have alot of them..........

give him a night that he cannot forget.

buy him a replica of a sports car key n he will be happy n know what to do

other then that??

where to get?

I need serious advice..please..not much time left. Im sure all ur gf demand for a wonderful & wonderful bday. But i think guyz need one too.. tat's why i need everyone advice here... please also recommend what to buy, what to eat & where to celebrate.. Thanks ya...

Men are more simple. Wat is your budget? Does he likes gadgets?

I know men are simple, but i really hope to surprise him on his bday.
My budget is about rm1k.
He have alot gadget oledi. I know he wanted to buy mobile gadget, but is over my budget as he is looking for high end PDA phone...

Present doesn't only comes in term of physical things.
You can take him out to have fun whole day, or maybe a vacation to somewhere for 1-2 days.

If you insist to buy something or give him something for surprises, let it be come from your heart.

Anyway, you as his gf should know what he likes more than us. Buy something that he likes.

Take him to the seaside, spend time there

boys like things that show that u care bout their life ,
like stuff like football jersey, games, sneakers etc...
depend on wat u bf likes lo...
show him that u care bout him and his lifestyle and u r being supportive...I'm sure he will be touched.
cheers

bake some love cookies to him

pay for an photographer for an outdoor photoshoot together with him = priceless moment of exposure !

1) Buy both of u a vacation to Langkawi. 1k budget is good for 3days 2 nites trip, including flying there with Airasia.

2) Buy scale models ... is he a fan of Star Wars, cars, plane scale model F1 or anything? A guy will never b too old for such things but funny thing, a mature guy will almost never spend on it.

3) An electric shaver if he has none yet.

4) Watch? A watch lover will not mind adding another watch to their collection.

5) iPhone ... but since u said its out of ur budget. Lets drop it for now.

6) PC stuff's like webcam, wireless mouse and things like tht (if he's a PC nerd ... ) But tht also depends on what he has and not.

7) Subscribing 1 yr Maxim UK?

8) His fav football team's jersey or kit?

9) Bake him a cake if u know how.

Guys are easy. V love cars, football, gadgets and girls and most of all ... v are easily satisfied especially when it comes to gifts (Thats y v hardly understand when it comes to buying gift for girls). U know his hobby or interest best.

I'm facing similar prob too ... now tell me what girl would want for their birthday ...

No expensive jewelery and perfume pls, cant afford it at the moment and luckily bought those before.

As a girl, what would u like if its ur birthday?

IMHO, a good gift is always dependent on one's personality. one man's poison is another man's meat. very true and always will be

in relationship, we will face this prob.. too many expensive thing that u given befor will drive u to not have any better idea..

so u make the mistake here.. so to make ur relationship is more wonderful u must know how to win his heart by using ur own heart.. put behind the 1K money.. but put infront for the love n effort.. u must show him what u got to love him so much.. let spend onli rm100, n make the value more attractive.. i suggest to DIY sumting to impress him, bring to the romantic place, n have that days with happy feeling...

me myself.. dont like my gf to buy the expensive stuff.. for me it just waste.. but what make me feel so terharu is, she make the diary on my birthday.. 1 year she make it, n onli give me on the next birthday.. in that book, full with my pic n her, explanation, the date that we've been together, dinner place..romantic place.. sad story , happy story.. n full with cartoon sticker.. a lot of colourful pen she used.. n it make the book so attractive..

i really appreciate it.. it show how much she love me, n i will never forget to love her until i dead..


This post has been edited by xixo_12: Feb 25 2008, 07:15 PM

Diamond ring is guy buy for gal.... not gal buy for guy....

Maybe buy a couple ring with ur name carved....

hmm...a nice samsonite laptop bag?

if me, i want tat RM1k

then i can do watever i wan with it

just IMO....

a watch (if he hvn't hv 1, since he's dy 30 u might get a better brand for him. ) and then bake something or cook for him for a candle light dinner at home. it would be memorable enough. if u wan it to be more memorable, blindfold him n bring him to some place u wud hv dinner wif him.

i have tot of tat in my mind..but he jz have long break during CNy. now he is busy with work. So can't take extra leave to go holiday.

BUt i dun mind if it can be a day trip coz we can celebrate ealier during sunday

He dun really like seaside, anyway here in M'sia all nice beach is far from KL city


He dun really enjoy games.. all i know he like to play snookers only..

Cookies? Good idea.. but his house still have alot CNY cookies.. i plan to make a cake, but he dun eat cake

He dun like to take picture!!!!!!!! But i do


Thanks for the list... he dun have electronic shaver, i have suggest to buy 1 for him, but he say he prefer the normal type coz it cleans better.
Watch? He jz bought a new one in Jan...

What gal like? As for me, i want to spend a whole good day quality time with him enjoying the moment. Little surprise + candle light dinner.

IMHo??

Well, i do hope with RM100 can make everything more valuable and attractive, any idea?

So envy u have a creative idea gf. Wish to learn more from her...

Couple ring? Bought one before.... he dun like, end up he jz keep in his drawer.

He seldom brings his laptop out from his house...........

in my humble opinion = imho

Thanks nokia2003

treat him a gal with big (.)(.).....
it was a big suprise then....

Since u said he like snooker very much....just buy him a nice snooker stick. Cheerz

i will try to upload the pic of the book( present in my birthday) if not buzy la..

but honestly ginos83, i always preferred a hand made gift. mind you that i am quite a material orientated person. i dont deny that i do frown if my friends (not my gf) give me a 'lousy' gift.

get him a super big monitor screen for his computer!

He just got one himself last 2 month...a BIG one

buy super sexy lingerie and wear that night!
then ask him to slowly open his present!

He like snooker, just buy a nice snooker cue...

I would love this present

how about cooking something delicious for him by ur own ?
giving him an unforgettable memory..
he might feel rather touching..~

for me..i feel that a hand made present is more meaningful ..
u can try 2 make a diary 4 u two..wif photos n description..

then along wif a present loh~

here some tips..

if you could do something that will make him happy instead of using even 1 cents of that rm1k of yours, then that would be the best birthday present he will ever get =)

Hmmm... Buying stuffs for guys is one of the most difficult task

If for B day, the objective is to make it a memorable one. As some suggested here, make sweet tender love to him.

Do u cook? As said, the way to a man's heart is thru his stomach. Maybe cook up something nice for him.

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Added on March 28, 2008, 10:16 amOMG that's super sweet!!!

This post has been edited by MyKy44: Mar 28 2008, 10:16 AM

Look for a nice couple watch maybe? Do your bf like public display of affection? If he doesn't then don't buy this. But chinese think buying watch is bad luck. I don't believe so.

Man should have

1. A watch

2. Neat tiddy wallet

3. Nice belt

4. Nice shoes

Ya, i think hand made is better as well.
Jimat also

You can make it simple.

Cook him a nice meal.

But make sure you know how to cook ya.... if not....

help him buy a car n u help him pay the deposit.1k ngam ngam hou...

What I gave my bf last time just before I went away to China to work was I made 365 paper hearts and inside each heart, I wrote a message like "I love you", "You're the sexiest man on earth" etc etc. Then tell him that each day when he wakes up, he should open up one heart and read the msg inside to start off his day. Of coz some msgs are repeated coz I couldn't think up that many different msgs. I think he was pretty smacked by that

buy me a dinner will do.