Check this situation out...what do you think.

If you have been going out with this guy a long time, relationship with him wasn't going along well for the last couple of weeks/months/years. At the same time he found someone else.

Will you give him up or still fight for it, eventhough you know for sure 'HE DOESN"T LOVE YOU ANYMORE".

i would force him to love me back , annoy him , stalk him and harass him

Not worth it, move on.
Trust me,relationship feuds, fight over men/women are so not worth it.
Plenty more where that came from.

move on..coz he din't love u anymore.it's something else if he still deeply in love with u

just pull out, find brand new and freshie

Move on, dear.
Perhaps this guy is not yours.

There are more guyz out there for you to choose.

All the best in your life

i think not worth to be wit him anymore since he is no longer love u, i was jus break wit my ex last 2 weeks, and i tot i can pull him back, but wat i've to accept now is he had changed, he changed to another person ... he changed until his family do not know wat is happening now and even his ex who has known him well.... if some1 not love u any, he will be very cruel de..... so move on with the better relations. this is wat i realised and my friends all are pulling back from the blinded relation wit him....

well, it's not worth to love him anymore. since he dont love you anymore....
you wont get the love that you want even if he's with you....

there wont be the feeling if he dont love you.....
let him be.... at least, CURSE HIM!!!!

If I were you++++++++++say good bye.. Find another one that is much-much better then him..Good Luck to You

Saying move on to another is easy as ABC because we are not the one thats in love or in the pain. But after checking out the situation, you should move on since you are already sure that he no longer loves you.

the answer to the question lies within you.

how much is your dignity worth? how much is your time worth? how much is he worth? therein lies your answer.

Knowing he don't love you and he has another woman in his life, why still stick to him? This would only cause him to hate you and find you irritating... just let go... be the ultra woman so that he'll regret letting you go... and by that time he regret, u also found someone that deserves you.. and that is the ultimate revenge...

I know coz it happened to me... once he dun love you, he dun at that time... but as you become a better person (either inside or outside) and he realise you were the best, too late... u alr found someone else and u dun love him alr... but he wanna crawl back to u... now... dats something to look forward to...

move on, whats the point of forcing each other?
well, then the argument will be more frequent and even worse.

move on...
still got many better guys for u out there.

the answer is pretty obvious girl..
move on.. you're wasting ur time on him and it's not worth your time.

let it go...
wats the meaning of loving someone who don't love u anymore?
is kinda wasted.. but at least u shuould know, u need someone to love u then u could be loved...

think wise..

ya, just let it go if he doesnt like you anymore. i got a friend who always treat her bf very good but the guy play play nia. when the guy want to break with her, she bought roses and few things to "tam" the guy.zzz...

This post has been edited by Winnie_sia87: Mar 4 2008, 09:07 PM

I know it's easy to say move on than to do it. I've been in the same situation before, except for 'he found someone else'. If there's no love and both of you think there's no future together, with all the fights, etc, why stay together again? It will only make things more complicated and maybe you'll end up hating each other.

Don't waste your time on him if you are sure that he doesn't love you anymore. I believe, you'll find someone better who loves you and deserved you I know it's hard to let go, but trust me, by the end of the day, you'll feel how relieved you're to leave this relationship behind!

Good luck!

It's time for you to find someone else.

Move on. Why wanna get involved somemore when the relationship is considered ended?

But I'm in so deep. You know I'm such a fool for you.
You got me wrapped around your finger, ah, ha, ha.
Do you have to let it linger? Do you have to, do you have to,
Do you have to let it linger?

let him go...
forcing in da relationship does not makes hapiness..
u can meet sumwan better in future...

It all depends on how much you love him, girl. You dont need the Lowyat forum to give you an answer for this.

Just see if you have tried your best and there is nothing more you can do, then move on. There might be someone waiting for you to meet and know. The one will be the one staying with you no matter what happens. It could be hard at the beginning, but slowly you would understand. It is only a phase in everyone's live.

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Added on March 23, 2008, 6:34 pmTry thinking things for yourself. Not for you both. Loving yourself more somehow makes you see how much he mistreated you and you deserve a better one. It's just a way to let him go la. Don't keep remembering that. After you have recover, you'll forget everything he did to you and he will be another normal friend or another stranger to you.

This post has been edited by @nnie: Mar 23 2008, 06:34 PM

come on..he doesn't love u anymore... need any more answers ka?

just let him go... find sumone who loves u more that u loves him.... good luck aite....

but wat if de guy stil says he love you alot..but everyone around you is going against it..including his best fren who asked him to break up wif you..n oso ask u to break up wif him??but things stil feel so real wen he tells you he loves me??wud things stil work out if it continues??

hmm since you already know he don't love you anymore like you just mentioned earlier.... WHY CLING TO HIM LIKE A LEECH? dump him first before he dump you.

yeah@@. he's FOUND SOMEONE ELSE AT THE SAME TIME, like what u said. is a guy like that worth having? ><

just move one and find your new life..no worth to fight for a man or a girl..outside still got lots of good choice for you..no need keep it as a "bao bei"

let him go, it is not worth too.. for sure, you already know that he doesn't like you anymore..
somehow lot of nice guys outside where better than him..
is not even worth to feel sad if break up with him..

dump him la of course! the most important thing is to make urself happy ma~ dump = freedom = more chances to know someone who deserves u more clinging on the relationship = waste time = watse ur youth..

no use keep it on when one has no more feelings. the more u push it , the more it loosen

hahaha!!!so funny!!!hahaha!!tis wil oni make him hate u more if u force,annoy n stalk him,hahaha!!!like those horror movie, scary movie..hahahaha!!!

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Added on April 23, 2008, 5:38 pmif u think your relationship is not going wel..den u should think..wat made it go so wrong in the 1st place...mayb if u can..u jus try talkin 2 him..in a calm situation..not shouting or saying annoying words...mayb jus ask him whether he n the "someone else" rely 2geta or wat..if he rely doesnt love u anymore den jus let go of him...it sure wil be painful at 1st..but later on u wil find it better...previously i aso loved my ex very very much (handsome 2) hahaha!!!but he broke off wit me..suffer 4 1 month i think... den found a new 1...hehehe!!!the most funny n comfortable fren n bf he could be..taught me a lot of things..thats my experience..i think u wil be goin on fine without him..sumore find another gal wen u r stil wit him...@$$h0l3


This post has been edited by gracechew: Apr 23 2008, 05:38 PM

It depends, if he cheated on me,
i will make him to love me back in any tricks, then when he is in love with me, i dump him HARD.

if he just dun love me and explain it well, there is nothing i can do edi. No love then what for be togeter? After marriage fight fight then divorce then break family up, for what?

move on ...
why waste time on someone who doesn't love u?
find a new target keke
jia you!

i think the thread starter knows well enough what decision to make...maybe just confused, still unable to let go of the lover...
sometimes letting go him/her..its also another way to love that person..set urself free, and also the other half..might be good solution to everything..no point forcing as u wont be happy anyway...
hope u can settle it and find ur own happiness soon..good luck

to help urself move on better, face the cruel reality.
whenever u miss him, tell urself this, he's happily hugging n kissing another gal, why sld i be here all alone miserably missing him?crying for him?
this may help ....

when teh fire has died, you keep on fanning it, all you get is ash in your face, and tears in your heart.

You can choose if you still want to love him or not but don't you think its pretty pointless to keep such a relationship? How can you have a bf who doesn't love you? What makes it worse is that you are already certain that he doesn't love you anymore.

Its like having a hairdryer that wont blow your hair, a fan with blades that don't turn or a speaker that does not protrude any sound. Whats it the point?

Move on.

ohh if he doesnt love me, no point for me to stay..

save your dignity and walk away =)

never ever do stupid things like threatening him. that's way childish =)

i didnt say u did it kay.. just advice you dnt ever think of it...

^^

no use fighting to get back together as he doesnt love you anymore and he has found someone else.

he wont love you anymore even he back to your side, his heart still will be someone else.

the sorrow will back to you, not him.


Move on...

I will leave him

give up cos if he dun love u
no orth fiting
ur goin to make urself go thru so much pain

better to let go

but if he love u then fite... but in ur case no

for me is .. when a guy change heart is better thorw out of ur life then keep the rotten heart by ur side..

it's not worth fighting, if he doesn't love u anymore.
He's not even worth it

yes. move on. im in the same situation as u now.
my boyfriend did the same thing. but im still in the relationship with him now cos i want him to suffer the way i suffered.
i'll get my revenge on him. fark u mens. lol

dump the loser (rotten apple) coz there are plenty of fresh apples in the basket don't let one rotten apple holds you back or even crying over it....

not worth fighting for. tepuk tangan sebelah tak akan berbunyi.

if he don't love you anymore. you get him back. but not his heart. what's the point



This post has been edited by cottonkandy: Dec 5 2008, 12:00 AM

just leave him...find sum1 worth...

go out more often with your gal frens, enjoy urself , forget abt tht guy