The irony of it is that there are increasing numbers of Malaysian women who drink, smoke and even gamble and yet they don't wish to date or marry men who indulge in such habits.

well, the person i kinda like smokes on and off, drinks, and used to gamble a lot and some more used to be a womanizer, can

and i never smoke, can hardly drink and only gamble cards during cny, although i have a reputation to break hearts

for me, it doesn't bother me at all as long as

1. he doesn't smoke too much (one cig every blue moon ok what)
2. he doesn't drink until he gets wasted and/or gets into trouble
3. he doesn't gamble over rm1k money away (but he doesn't gamble anymore)

we can pick and dream of our ideal partner, but in the end if we like someone, means like already lah GG as long as his vices aren't excessive, i don't see what the big deal is




for me though he's a good guy, because talking to him, i know he won't hurt me or anyone else on purpose

"A guy who never date other gal before is a good guy" ...
To me, if thr's no dates before, thr's always no improvement on the way he'll b treating u as he might not be as mature as others yet

"A guy who never date other gal before is a good guy"....

sweat.....

then if a guy dated before is a bad guy? this doesnt make sense....

what about the way round...."A girl who pak tor before is a bad girl..."
do you like that? LOL...

btw, i am a girl, so dun say i am on the guy's side bcoz i'm a guy....i'm not on anybody's side, just on the right side....

have a nice day!!