Chinese saying: Mountains and valleys may change but characters are hard to change.

I don't like to stereotype but if you want to judge a person fast:

1. Always check with a few reliable people about the person. His friends may tell you more about him than he will. Ask his friends. Some truthful ones will tell you more than you need to know, especially when drunk.

2. Observe his friends. The same kind always flock together.

3. Check his history. Ask about his old girlfriends. Ask his friends about his ex girlfriends. Don't listen to what he has to say.. listen to how he says it. Does he talk bad about them? Does he give excuses about how it didn't work out? Are they very short relationships?

I am a guy. I have friends who have deceived so many girls by the things they say and they do. These girls are so gullible and stupid. Get real girls. You believe things that you want to hear and you are ignoring everything else!

LOL... Let me give my 2 cents...

A guy who sacrifice for you - KNOWS that he has to make an EFFORT to tc of someone else, not only himself.
Hwv, I strongly disagree with the 2nd part... The guy MUST TC of himself well b4 he is capable of caring for another.. if he cares for u more, means he is a possesive person... very scary one.. and can be too sensitive...
Virgin is a good guy.. He knows moral values, cares for himself n his gf... wat if they break up, then the gal will regret giving her 1st to him? lol
guy who never date b4... well depends on how old he is la... if young then okla.. if old d not yet paktor then beware.. hahaha
save money is not cheapskate... hehehe

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Added on February 12, 2008, 9:18 pmand YES, i totally agree with this post... taking into account all these, i found my very adorable Angelicious guy also, take time to learn abt the guy... nothing to rush about...

This post has been edited by shecapricorn: Feb 12 2008, 09:18 PM

Swt, i am 26, never paktor before..... coz i dun want simply find my princess

I dont try try in love de...

lol...are you a good guy then?

Never scold or hit a gal before consider good guy or not.

Never treat a gal like slave consider good guy or not

Always buy cute cute doll for gal consider good guy or not

Very hard to tell... cuz Girl A might be good when in relationship with Guy A but not good when in relationship with Guy B... So all depends on issue... As people say... love has no formula... So I agree with others saying "Time will tell"...

Also, I think the loss would be lesser than the girl if he got the wrong partner... Like I have seen this girl kena "hit" by her bf (domestic violent) after being with this girl for A YEAR...

You also cannot tell if the guy is good or bad what from the start... But I do pray for happiness for all the couples on earth...

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Added on June 17, 2008, 11:51 pmNever scold or hit a gal before, Never treat a gal like slave, Always buy cute cute doll for gal but not being responsible and give time for the girl, the guy is good or not?

This post has been edited by rotigal: Jun 17 2008, 11:51 PM

My definition of a good guy:
1. Never smoke, gamble and drink.
2. Not selfish and willing to help those who needed help.
3. A person who love and care for his family
4. Honest and reliable.
5. Understanding and caring.

agree dude..but ask back urself...nowadayz hard 2 find a guy good like dat lolz...

I've found one hahaha......

u cant judge sum1 whose smokin or drinkin..
don b such a doink

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Added on June 18, 2008, 3:03 pmim one of them XD *wink winK*

This post has been edited by vioxmonsta: Jun 18 2008, 03:03 PM

"Never smoke, gamble and drink."

How many girls say this...ultimately end up with a man who does the above.

Edit/continue:

...and reject/ignore/want-to-be-friends-only a guy who avoids those 3 vices.

This post has been edited by prozac: Jun 18 2008, 10:31 PM

prozac -> livin on fluoxetine ain't such a good thing after all......

Still got this kind of guy in this world? i think he is the one last good guy here..

never drink can die oh. well anyway there are but it's really rare to come by people who don't smoke leh. and gamble.

but smoking, gambling and drinking doesn't make a person bad. you can be non-smoker/non-drinker/non-gambler and still be a bad person.

A "non-to-all" can be a playboy too.. play with your feeling n "heart".. up n down.. if so i rather choose the one who "yes-to-all" but he is loyal n honest.. bcoz those habit can b changed but character/attitude hard to change o maybe impossible at all..

good for you.

it's actually good to not smoke, it's good for the couple. you're not killing your wife and your kids too. it's not a healthy thing.

gambling and drinking are considered unhealthy practices as well. affecting finance and health.

while it doesn't make a person good, not doing those things do improve quality of life. which is why don't drink/smoke/gamble.

My father is one of the good guy in this world.. he quit smoking once my mum is pregnant n having us..

Anyway, a honest, reliable n responsible guy just a good guy..

a good guy must owez protect themselves,

their good nature can easily be abused by gals.

effective way to see if a chick is using a guy is to test them n play dumb at the same time.

This post has been edited by olman: Jun 19 2008, 12:56 PM

haha!! i found one also.. lol!! very very RARE!!!!

den good luck 2 u den...find de "good" one..haha