catpig, let me try to shed some light on your dilemma.

Assuming that the "guy" you're mentioning is a religious person, he doesn't want you to convert to another religion just becuz of him. You see, to be in a religion... you have to believe in it yourself. Don't just get into it just becuz he is in it. That's not right in a religion point of view and I think that's why he is feeling this way.

In other words, using terms like "I did so-and-so-blah-blah just FOR YOU" ain't exactly touching in reality. It's actually very suffocating when the other party is not ready to carry that responsibility.

I hope I have explain stuff to you from another perspective. I hope things will turn out well for you. Good luck.