Straightaway dispute him on ebay, high chance Ebay will refund ur money, only if u are paying according to ebay's terms and conditions, they'd either charge him off his credit card, or merely dont pay him if he holds an account with Ebay.

Well im not so sure honey, but my cousin who ordered some seiko watches all the way from australia from ebay malaysia apparently got his refund after disputing. He got so angry he threw the watches away after he got his refund and the company was like harrassing him to send the watches back to them, he didint, well, there must be something going on in between plus he's an assholes with ways to get what he wants, just suggesting...too bad it didint work for u...