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post Jan 31 2008, 03:25 PM

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QUOTE(ragereaver @ Jan 31 2008, 01:09 PM)
my gf won't mind. i've this girlfriend that is very close to me. i even sleep at her house few times a week, but we keep it clean la. no hanky panky sort of thing. i've known her longer than my gf. biggrin.gif
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how abt ur gf?? she is the same kind like u?? can hang around wif guys too??


Added on January 31, 2008, 3:26 pm
QUOTE(7chai @ Jan 31 2008, 12:56 PM)
those are call open relationship. I been into that once for few months.
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come share a bit here.. wat u n her hv done??



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post Feb 1 2008, 12:30 PM

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QUOTE(paranoid @ Feb 1 2008, 10:30 AM)
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i don't think i can ever be that open minded
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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Feb 1 2008, 10:36 AM)
Actually if i know that gal well too la.. but of coz.. since v r in relation liow so gf/bf do notice ownself la don b very close with others coz i'm sure no matter guys or gals also will jealous de..... for me ar, if i said i don mind , it cannot be la smile.gif
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agree.. same to me too.. but seems like most of the guys disagree wif tat.. they wil think we girl r controlling them.. controlling his freedom to befriend with other.. some even worse, they not allow their girl do so but themselves doing so is ok.. doh.gif


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post Feb 1 2008, 03:52 PM

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QUOTE(wah chai @ Feb 1 2008, 02:00 PM)
i'm married man.i got few very close female friends.our friendstership many years already.if just me and my close female friend go out,my wife won't jealous because that girl are my best and old friend.my wife trust me.only if i just make new female friend or not very close,my wife didn't give me go out with her.she trust me but just a feel that she dislike.
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may i know how close r u to ur female friend?? will meet up/contact each other very frequently? going out on one by one??


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post Mar 19 2008, 03:46 PM

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I was shocked when seeing my thread still alive here.. tongue.gif

QUOTE(jessi_chia @ Mar 18 2008, 08:02 AM)
of coz mind !
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Then wat u wil do??

QUOTE(omnimech @ Mar 18 2008, 08:10 AM)
Honestly, if my gf didnt mind. Id be very scared of my relationship status with her.

Girl need to give their bfs a bit of freedom so that they dun smother him with affection till he feels he is confined.

In my case, I dun reli mind my gf who clings to me half the time. But she gives me my space. Like when I want to go out with the guys to catch up and etc.
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A lovely guy.. wub.gif nowadays hard to find.. tongue.gif

yup.. sometime we need to hv our own time to do our thing..

QUOTE(blackburry @ Mar 18 2008, 08:52 PM)
I din read all comments here, but just concerning, how's you & ur bf doing ?

From my point of view, I think ur bf want both of you. He dont dare to let either 1 of you go. That girl sure have guts. And I'm sorry for what happened to you. Sometimes, its hard for the guy to make decision.  unsure.gif
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We r coupling back again.. n our relationship is stable now.. he treat me quite good after tat incident.. of coz sometime he wil hv his own temper too.. as for me, i still wil think back tat incident n tat gal.. i guess tis incident not tat easy to get out from my mind.. blush.gif but i m trying my best not to think too much n do well my part.. *touchwood* anything happened in the future i wont regret n hope not tat sad/heartbroken.. smile.gif

QUOTE(khoo011 @ Mar 18 2008, 10:48 PM)
your situation almost same with me and my ex-gf last time..before i break with my ex-gf, i will cal her and talk but she always ignore me and say me disturb her or busy but she can talk with her other male friend on that time..but end of this , we break our relationship two month ago..and she got the guy as new bf after two week break with me..

i think your situation now is same with me..kindly think carefully still want continue with him or not? what i hopeful here you don't follow my step..good luck
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Wat a sad ending sad.gif anywhere losting someone/something not must be a bad thing.. it could b a good 1.. try to think positive n wisely.. u r regret for letting her go??

QUOTE(MyKy44 @ Mar 18 2008, 11:45 PM)
Whoa... I kena kau kau for this man.. I'm kinda close to her friend. And er, ya we share lotsa stuffs, i tell her things and vice versa.
My gf told me directly that she is jealous. Well i don't blame her though, i admit i am kinda close to her friend.

There's this time, i took her friend to a debate tourney, and she found the pictures we took. Fuh... kena kau kau wei.

But then again, i'm kinda close to girls wan. There's another time where another girl debater and me went to a tourney in Thailand, and we slept together (as in the SAME ROOM!!). Nay nothing happened. Weird thing is, my gf is able to accept this.

A woman's jealousy is very hard to be defined.... laugh.gif
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Maybe the another girl tat joined u for the Thailand trip is someone tat ur girl trusted? so she not make noisy.. o maybe she hv lost all her trust, interest n tired on u.. so she not care anymore??

anyway, if the case is vise versa ur gf bcome u.. wil u jealousy?

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post Mar 24 2008, 04:18 PM

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thx all for the comments.. hope u guys can share more ur comments n even ur story too.. i love to read n listen to story.. wub.gif


QUOTE(7chai @ Mar 23 2008, 11:17 PM)
no wonder that day I ask u out on valentines day and u got no respons  tongue.gif
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