mind to share your story?


dear all,
Thx for all the reply.. i do appreciate it a lot.. thx against..



This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 14 2008, 09:13 PM

thx for the concern..

the update is the gal hv show up his true face.. she wan to ruin our relationship n together wif my bf.. n she said to him tat she dun wan to continue tis frenship anymore.. bcoz my bf keep on "protecting me" n she very fed up adi..

as for my bf side, he said he wil not contact her..

i dunno.. juz found out tat she hv blocked me n my bf from her friendster i think.. bcoz she disapper from my fren list.. feel like she is quite childish n throw all the fault on me n saying me doing all those nonsense thing.. some more last time she did scolded me childish.. who she think she is? anyway, what goes around comes around.. the words that she used to scolded me b4 now adi appeared on herself.. thx God..

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Added on January 17, 2008, 11:38 amone of my bf's fren (gal) oso saying the same thing.. she said we cant "fight" wif her, sure lose 1.. so better juz ignore her n let her be..





This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 17 2008, 11:38 AM

Yes, i well known abt it.. tat's y i m stil hving doubt there..

i did.. but stil the same.. from wat i heard from him i think he's always the right 1.. he said he cant control other not to fallen in love wif him.. yes i knew tat but he should know to step on the brake once he feel something amiss.. but in this case he didnt do so.. he continue to step on the pedal harder rather than slow it down.. wat i hate a lot is he is not stopping giving me excuses.. lame excuse..

my bf n tat gal adi stop contacting each other n the gal said she wil end this "frenship" bcoz of my nonsense.. the way she saying tat look like i m the third party.. speechless..

wat i can do now is "watch a step n walk a step".. sorry for lousy translation..

mind to let me know after u hv broke up wif ur ex, do u together wif another gal (tat 1 u said u happier wif)??

Interested to become the male fren??

Last few days, i did sms wif my fren when he is beside me.. n he not dare to ask me who it is (from wat i think la).. bcoz normally he wil ask..

A brave decision i can say.. n really how many of guys can really do tat.. i really doubt tat..

btw dun mind me to ask 1 more question do ur ex know abt ur "relationship" wif other gal?

nope.. i hv been together wif my bf for 4years+.. he n tat gal juz knew for 2months+.. btw my current relationship wif my bf is the 2nd time.. eemm.. i means we broke up b4 for 2 years then get together again after tat.. the 1st relationship juz last for few months only..

yesterday he told me tat he always being good wif gals.. n can until the level tat "very good".. so i asked him wat u mean by "very good".. he didnt answer my question (he did told me tat he hugged a gal, his colleague but for fun/joking only)..

so the conclusion is if i wan to being wif him then i must trust him n cant control him at all in who he like to being good together n how good they r.. i m speechless.. anyway it's all abt "take it" o "leave it"...

This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 19 2008, 10:23 AM

up n down.. thx for the concern..


i dunno.. tat's y i m here to asking is it i m normal.. bcoz i very mind my bf to b very close to other gal.. he said juz fren.. good fren.. then i asked him again wat if i m doing the same thing with other guy, would u angry? n he answered yes.. confusing..

izzit all the guy r like tat?? if yes, i think mayb i wont look for bf adi.. mayb gf?

my main weakness is i m too soft-hearted mayb.. of coz i do hv the sense of respect of myself like wat u mentioned.. everytime when i hv convinced myself to stop giving then sure hv something stopped me.. mayb my mind is not strong enough? i dunno.. i really hope someone/something can really knock on me n let me bcome another totally different from wat i m now..

thx.. i wil try my best no matter wat.. i'm free now.. i will start to search for my own life now.. n live for myself not other..

btw to b frank, ur answer really make me very disappointed wif guys..

This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 20 2008, 02:18 PM

Dear all,

Thx against for all the msg n comments.. i do go n read n repeat it again for few times.. i really appreciate it.. i do think of revenge but i canceled tis plan after one of my strange but at the same time a close (like known for long time ago) fren too hv knocked my head.. so wat i can do now is juz playing my role at the best.. at least if any sh*t happened in coming time i wont regret bcoz i hv done my part.. of coz i wil live for myself.. start to gain weight n my health, back to my job train which i hv missed it for few weeks (sorry to my boss n colleagues), start money saving, start make up n make myself prettier, treating myself better, seek for happier, n etc. My love to myself will increasing from day to day n same to my family too.


Dear feyhime, (hope i didnt type wrongly ur nickname)
thx for your words.. well it is hurt bcoz it is too straight forward but I LOVE IT.. n i understand well ur points.. i always likes to having fren tat can talk "straight forward" rather than bring me round n round.. n of coz i m one of "bad person" too.. always my words hurting others.. ur words hv make my eyes n heart open up widely @.@

Dear paranoid,
the "guys" i meant in my previous post to wtm0325 is mean men.. hope u didnt get wrong my msg.. i always treat everyone here as my good adviser n listener tat's y i always back here to update my stuff.. bcoz i know sure hv someone wil read n might reply to me.. at least someone is reading.. i can feel someone(s) is there for me n i m not alone here..

Dear 7chai & wtm0325,
sorry for putting the gender thing here.. mayb i hv listened to too many bad guy's case.. n take a look at all the guys surrounding me i really "no eyes" to see.. maybe i hvnt meet a good guy yet (Oops beside my bro ) so it make me think bad.. anyway, everyone wil make mistake the most important thing is they will grow from tat mistake.. learn it n keep it as a lesson.. n it's not other way around by keep on thinking the mistake is caused by other o non-stop giving excuses to urself.. so i m here sincerely seeking apologize for the "gender" thing..

7chai: dun worry.. i wont change my taste.. i believe they r still a better guy waiting for me..

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Added on January 21, 2008, 10:07 pmi always believe behind a successful men there is always hv a girl.. n yes every guy should let their gals understand well their ambition n situation if the gals cant cope wif it then she should let go.. n i do agree guys should always make their career their 1st priority.. but at the same time dont forget ur love 1: partner, family n fren.. when u can control well ur own timing then it's the 1st stage of being a successful men..

anyway sometimes gal jus like a little kid wil manja around n try to get ur attention but most of the times hv using the wrong way.. so a gentle remind wil help to solve up this problem..



This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 21 2008, 10:07 PM

it's ok.. it's about sharing..

no need to understand how's a girl's mind work bcoz sometime ourselves also can't answer it.. even girl can't understand girl too.. what u need to know is how much effort you have put in n are you doing your best? if your answer is yes to all this question then u no need to worry anymore because u hv tried ur best n done all u need to do.. it's her lost not urs.. both of u just not meet at the right time..

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Added on January 22, 2008, 3:05 pmDun say tat later others jealous



This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 22 2008, 03:05 PM

Yes, as a partner we always expect to be the 1st one know abt everything happening on him.. but reality is always too cruel.. n i think it depend on personal character.. like me i m not a easy give up person n always wan to know everything in details n deeply.. so it's hard for me not to know it as i knew it's very hurt n cruel but i still prefer do know it..

Yes, i agree wif u.. ur lover can b ur fren but ur fren cant b ur lover..

i dunno.. only them know wat is really happened.. if both of they r not attached, then for sure they can do watever they wan.. but the point here is one side is attached n another side well-known abt it but they r still doing so.. maybe my thinking is too traditional n not open-minded enough to accept this kind of so called friendship.. anyway thx for the comment

i do think of it b4.. but the prob both of them not admit it n keep on saying they r fren only but behind me the so called friendship is more beyond tat.. n one more thing if i really give up then i hv make a most silly decision by giving a good chance to tat girl o them to b together.. i need her to pay back what she hv make.. as we know tat girl hv the intention since early stage..

Yes, but not many of us know to appreciate.. every time when we lost it then we just know to appreciate..

Yes.. but i m single n available

Y not? let's ask all the girl's club girl to attend..

thx..

yes.. but some of girls oso dun mind to hving tis kind of bf n think it's nth.. i dunno.. maybe we r not tat open-minded..

come join us.. 7chai n me.. we together celebrate tis valentine day..

love does exist jus not ur turn yet.. patiently wait for ur love.. it will be a long lasting n true love.. praying now..

but for most of the girls said is easier than done.. at first place she might said dun mind but when time goes by she will be mind too.. n i think only in one condition she wont mind at all is she is tat kind of person too.. like to hang around wif guys n can b very close wif them no matter wat..