to me...buy from more reputable forumers...especially opting for postage..
to be frank...most of the time,i prefer to do postage...unless it's bulky n heavy..
postage saves time n petrol...so far so good to me...
for scammers who rush u to pay / send out item...i hv only one conclusion...no money received(selling) / solid conversation and reputation(buying),no talk...hehe