Girls, what is most probably to be the reasons/characters of a guy that make u admire / feel in love / want him to be ur bf?

pls rate 4 each seriously n honestly thx rate as x/10

1. Look/Appearance
2. Height
3. Body shape
4. Financial(rich/poor)
5. His personality(kind/evil)
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla)
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...)
8. What is his career
9. He is clever / stupid
10. How he treat u
11. How much he love u
12. Good at sport
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this)

or u don't really have an explainable reason to feel in love to a guy?

for my opinion....Appearance, body doesnt counts in..Its not im ugly or watever..im pretty...m not showing off my high egoness or watever but m proud of myself..my own beauty,,,who doesnt...=)

Look/Appearance = n/a
2. Height= muz be taller den me as i stands at 166cm not few inches taller but much more...
3. Body shape = n/a
4. Financial(rich/poor) = yes
5. His personality(kind/evil) = yes very important, i observe and analyzed first..
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla) - same goes above answer
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...) = same answer as above
8. What is his career = yes
9. He is clever / stupid = yes very important
10. How he treat u

Above ratings are supposedly 10/10 i knw eryone is not perfect but in terms of behavior, character, personality, attitude...i take it very seriously n i analyzed ppl first b4 i take any action into any deep considerations...

11. How much he love u
12. Good at sport
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this

As for no 11 - same answer...

12 : n/a

13 : n/a


I dun accept guys/mens juz becoz u r rich or good looking..for me is BS..it has nothing to do with it....it doesnt encounter of giving u reasons to add extra recipe into ur considerations love the person...

thx 4 ur opinions

anyway i just found this out

"1) No guys are allowed to open a thread in GC except in the Fashion and Beauty subforum. A suspension of 3 days will be given. You may, however, reply to an existing thread."

OMG! shud i delete this thread now?

I dun think u can delete it.. wat u can do is to lock it.

there is no need for that because the admin will "delete" you completely

Chill out, after all changing gender is just one click away

by this reply, mod oledi know tat the TS is a he..

haha nvm lar just make new account lor, this account i just made 1 oso

1. Look/Appearance - not so important, but plays an role. decent looking will do.

2. Height - at least taller or around my height.

3. Body shape - dun really care abt it much. cuz, body shape is not permanent. it can change over times. maybe initially is fit, but when times go, he might go fat or have a tummy... so r u going to discriminate a guy u like from his body shape? i dun think so... besides, there is a saying, when someone is in love, he/she tends to get fatter..

4. Financial(rich/poor) - average will do, but must have the ability to earn money(meaning can get a job, n not asking money from the gf/family) well, if rich because of the father, it means nothing right...

5. His personality(kind/evil) -
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla)
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...)

qs 5-7 : i think those are the most important thing. different ppl attract to different type of personality/characteristic. and if there is a dismatch in this 3 thingy.. a relationship cant last long.

8. What is his career - not rob/steal then shd be ok.

9. He is clever / stupid - sorry if offended anyone here. but i cant tolerate stupid guy, esp those who think they r smart but actually a big no to guy who like to act gaya, got rupa tapi tak guna

10. How he treat u - it is important, both party got to get involve.. not just the guy only

11. How much he love u - it develop from time to time.. so not in the urge to make a decision.

12. Good at sport - will be a bonus

13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this) - as u said, skill, it needs practice and experience. can explore together..


actually, u dun really choose a bf, like the way u choose a car or a shirt... it is more like a good feeling towards somebody at the right place, right time and right person. getting together is just a small matter. whether can maintain/spice up the relationship not is the key.

So, anyone fit into my list?

This post has been edited by wintermelon: Jan 5 2008, 10:18 AM

r u serious bout u like chubby guys? why? isnt it skinny look better? hmm.. i dont mean very skinny lar, but at least not chubby lor.. i feel weird ler coz i really found that some leng lui really have chubby bf.. sry, no offence to chubby guys, it is just my little point of view

It depends on the individual. As for me, skinny guys are definitely out because I'm not a skinny chick. As long as we look balance standing next to each other, then it should be ok. By the way, chubby is just a preference. The most important is the feeling

oh haha, but some skinny + pretty girls i know like chubby guys.. dunno ler haha...

Yea, most of my pretty girlfriends do

so u don't look fatter when both of u take photo rite ? lulz

sense of humour but look don't be too bad

from experience i think personality is very very important, charisma, how u treat a girl, how you make her feel special in some ways(like how she looks great with those tops and so on), sensitive, thoughtful, impressing her parents/friends/relatives, last but not least loving a person without any conditions =)
oh yaa n sex after marriage please hehe =D

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Added on January 6, 2008, 4:35 pmoh yea n girls hate guys who are indecisive hehe sorry to left this out

i learned all this thru experience =)

This post has been edited by scrubiee: Jan 6 2008, 04:35 PM

honest or not de oh all? coz i c many gals like to say bout which guy is handsome n rich like that... dunno how they really choose bf actually...

anyway i thx for all the opinion but can some ppl pls rate? for example, 1/10 or 7/10 or 10/10 for each categories

I cant rate. I dont exactly know what order of importance they are in...but I do know that what I say I want is not what I usually get.

1. Look/Appearance - As long as I don't start puking by looking at him, it's fine. It's a bonus if he looks good. But presentation is more important. How you dress and present yourself will tell a lot about a person, whether he knows how to take care of his image or not.
2. Height - Taller than me, I am short enough, if you are shorter than me I might as well date my younger brother...
3. Body shape - Fit and healthy. Fabulous abs is a plus point
4. Financial(rich/poor) - Stable and growing income. He must be a career-minded person and constantly work to improvise himself.
5. His personality (kind/evil) - Kind is boring LOL In between, it's good to have a balance personality. Too nice or too evil is not very healthy for my brain
6. His characteristic (always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla) - Serious when it's necessary and knows how to have fun.
7. His responsibilityness (to u, family,study, career...) - He must be a responsible person. I absolutely refuse to go out with anyone who doesn't know how to take care of his life.
8. What is his career - Anything legal and earns good money with great career growth.
9. He is clever / stupid - Clever please. Stupid is very mind-boggling and too time consuming to entertain.
10. How he treat u - Respect me for who I am and treat me as his other half. Do not control me, I am not his property.
11. How much he love u - Loves me Love is not measurable.
12. Good at sport - Not necessary.
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this) -

hmm, girls definitely request for many things

notice what they want and what they're attracted to is usually very different

yeah...but hey..wutever they want oso, v as guys shud treat them wif RESPECT ler.. they have a right to choose guys..its the same as us guys...v choose our gals rite??

True true. Its all about choices.

This post has been edited by pleasuresaurus: Jan 7 2008, 03:03 PM

hmm, until now...i still dunno y my gf choose me
hav time must ask her.. lolz

You asking for trouble if you keep on creating multiple account. Just use your current one. As for now GC has no actual Moderator appointed atm (I think ).

Ermm...I hope no one take offense on what you say dude

Bah today damn tired...try to cheer myself up >.<

This post has been edited by Yukirin: Jan 7 2008, 03:50 PM

i absolutely agree with the height issues. a lot of guys have trouble finding a gf because they are a bit short.

^ thats why tall guys need to leave the really short ones alone y'know. but they just dont listen.

er nobody knows me, and i know almost nobody in here, so it's pretty stupid for people to get angry for just a few word in the internet, i know my limits, dude

melon,

I think I fit into your list....hehe. Want to give it a try.

it's my...

oops....sorry about that, alice.

1. Look/Appearance - 5.5
2. Height - 6
3. Body shape - 7
4. Financial(rich/poor) - 9
5. His personality(kind/evil) - 10
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla) - 9
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...) - 10
8. What is his career - 8
9. He is clever / stupid - 7
10. How he treat u - 10
11. How much he love u - 10
12. Good at sport - 6
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this) - 5.5

well every gal sure go for those whose rich n financially stable... its their by nature in them already cos they wan to be problem free.. cant say dat they're money face or gold diggers.. face it guys.. do u wan urself to be stuck wif gal n be financially unstable or poor to the point u cant even support ur own self?? no one wants to be in dat position..

1. Look/Appearance:decent looking i guess... be your own judge
2. Height: 179cm
3. Body shape :people say i've big bones... meaty at the right place to be hugged...
4. Financial(rich/poor): sufficient enough to give parents, pay bills, petrol, meals and save... a little extra for that little things that make me smile
5. His personality(kind/evil): probably outgoing, generous, and kind?
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla): serious when it comes to serious matters, normally very casual and talkative if i want to be, some say i am pretty fun to be with and trust me... i can be wild and also a quiet person who enjoys a quiet sunday afternoon reading a book while listening to slow musics.
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...): graduated with double major, got a decent job, loves my family and i ONLY make promises i can keep or else i won't bother making the promise.
8. What is his career 8 (career is very important but stil he hv to know to balancing btw job n his personal life) same as number 7 lo... decent job and etc etc...
9. He is clever / stupid 8: consider a quick learner
10. How he treat u :i can treat my girl like there's no tomorrow... (of coz good la: caring, understand, able to tolerate each other, etc)
11. How much he love u: when i fall in love, i fall head over heels...
12. Good at sport: used to play basketball and volleyball for my school
13. His sex skill/ability: not something to brag about

hahahha...
i am being VERY random...
do i fit anyone?

1. Look/Appearance = as long as i'm comfortable with his look...better b smart
2. Height = tall
3. Body shape = fit & healthy...
4. Financial(rich/poor) = as long as hav good career
5. His personality(kind/evil) = sayang me, kind to animal, respect elders, mature thinkin
6. His characteristic = noe when to play & when to b serious
7. His responsibilityness = must got goal in his life...when to married, when to buy house...when to buy car...
8. What is his career = good career....financial stable
9. He is clever / stupid = must b clever/smarter than me..o else how i can depend on him
10. How he treat u = treat me good...dun lie to me...dun control me...i oso wont control him...both oso hav privacy
11. How much he love u = noe how to cherish love.....
12. Good at sport = yes...any sports.....
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this) = hhmm....not too demanding....

sometimes...u jus fall for the guy who is jus the opposite...haha

1. Look/Appearance- doesnt reli matter...
2. Height-hmm as long as his taller than me--1 inch will do
3. Body shape-- jus nice for me...
4. Financial(rich/poor)---no matter what i will be with him... as i have did my dear baby
5. His personality(kind/evil)--both dependin on my mood
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla)--prefer my husband when he is funny and cute.. others also have to except loo.. marry d ma...
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...)---he is very responsible.. thats why i love him
8. What is his career..own business...
9. He is clever / stupid... nt to say clever or stupid.. but MATURE..my husband is...
10. How he treat u---so well till i will neva let him go
11. How much he love u---a alot till i trust that he won let go
12. Good at sport--ya he is...
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this)---hmmmmmmmmmmm.. thats probably somethin only i and he share...

or u don't really have an explainable reason to feel in love to a guy?
[COLOR=purple] for me... love jus occurs.. u will know when u do... it doesnt ask u b4 it comes....[COLOR=purple]

hey sure or not? if that so, we all will have a very good excuse to eat like pig.
i got the same feeling too but why huh? eg. Edison Chan doesn't look chubby but he managed to bed so many beautiful gals?

This post has been edited by quintesson: Mar 9 2008, 04:52 AM

1. Look/Appearance - can bring out see people can liao, if really g tau beng or g par then keep at home lor
2. Height - doesn't matter
3. Body shape - as long as not obese, can enter my house door can already
4. Financial (rich/poor) - doesn't matter, as long as they know how to survive and improve themselves
5. His personality (kind/evil) - I don't care how they treat others, as long as treat me honestly can already
6. His characteristic (always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla) - no preferences
7. His responsibilityness (to u, family, study, career...) - a must
8. What is his career - depends, I don't care
9. He is clever / stupid - it's ok for me, coz I'm stupid
10. How he treat u - I'm not clingy, as long as they are with me then ok already and don't ever betray me
11. How much he love u - Define love?
12. Good at sport - I don't care
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this) - Define ability BANKAI!

1. Look/Appearance: as long as he is ok-looking and not ugly.
2. Height: taller than me in high heels, but not tooooo tall
3. Body shape: not fat! the last thing i need is a guy who will squish me to death...
4. Financial(rich/poor): stable good enough. as long as he earns his own living without debts
5. His personality(kind/evil): must be a good-hearted person
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla): knows how to make me smile n laugh, but can be serious when needed
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...): absolutely must take responsibility in what he does
8. What is his career: as long as it is a legal job that pays fairly well.
9. He is clever/stupid: i don't want a stupid man!!!
10. How he treat u: i don't want him to treat me like a princess (he mustn't spoil me), but i also dun want him to treat me like rubbish (he mustn't control me). just be sweet and sensitive to me without fussing too much.
11. How much he love u: with all his heart ^^
12. Good at sport: doesnt matter
13. His sex skill/ability: respects me on bed and dun treat me like a ex slave to his own needs, thats good enough.

OMG..... 4 gal have already proof that guy must have sex skills ................

So, i give u a link to learn all the skills

www.sexinfo101.com

1. Look/Appearance - Average look is fine. Dont have to be handsome like superstar.
2. Height - 170cm and above to look more manly and protect me.
3. Body shape - Forwarded e-mail always said ROUND IS A SHAPE and INDEED IT IS! I like a man and the body shape is not so important. A bit of belly is fine but not until he cannot see his toes.
4. Financial(rich/poor) - Doesnt matter, I can support myself, just try not to burden me. As long as he's willing to go out and make a living of his own is sufficient. Afterall, even if he's rich, so? Havent anyone realized that even if your bf is rich, his father is still kicking and controlling every cent in the family? By the time the bf dad pass away, the bf also become 50 yrs old already! Hehehe...
5. His personality(kind/evil) - Does not matter as long as he is kind to me.
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla) - Funny, cute and talkative is required. I cannot stand silence.
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...) - A true man must be able to bear the responsibility thrown at him, even if he's poor family. He has to support his old parents and my responsibility to him is to follow and support him.
8. What is his career - As long as legal, is fine. Not like waiter or but demotivated job. Preferably professional
9. He is clever / stupid - Clever of course but not too much until become big headed.
10. How he treat u - very important and must be very good!
11. How much he love u - extremely important.
12. Good at sport - not important at all.
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this) - I would not know unless I bed every men I meet before choosing.

Theory must better than action.......

o_O Coolest mod ever lol!

I think actually there are about 2389723980723 other threads, esp in Cupid's Corner, about this, but since I nbtd...

1. Look/Appearance - There are a lot of people, mostly guys, who say it doesn't matter, even though in the end it really does. In my case, though, it really doesn't matter, I find it superficial. 1/10
2. Height - Taller is nice, I've never met a guy my age who was shorter than me, although I suppose it would be a turn off if there WAS... 2/10
3. Body shape- Doesn't matter la unless he qualifies for sumo wrestling, 1/10
4. Financial(rich/poor) - Of his parents? Doesn't matter. 1/10
5. His personality(kind/evil) - o_O huh?
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla) - Most important, 10/10
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...) - 9/10
8. What is his career - 9/10, would anyone really want to get with someone who's perpetually out of a job or job-hopping every week?
9. He is clever / stupid - 10/10, okay I admit I'm a bit picky about this one. Anyone who cannot keep up a witty conversation, tickle my braincells or speak decent Engreesh is automatically out.
10. How he treat u - 10/10, same for most girls la IMO
11. How much he love u - Redundant
12. Good at sport - Less good better. If too good then he'll drag me to watch him or (God forbid!) participate with him... then I mah die.
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this) - So how are you supposed to know this before you decide to get with him or not? Do test-run first ah?

So TS, how about you post your own self-ratings based on the above questions, and we'll help you decide instead...

I arrange it accordingly to meet my requirement for a guy.

1.Height = Definitely taller thn me. I'm short with the height of 153cm, but I want to have a BF which I reach his chest weight. I like tally
2.Body Shape = Tough but not musculine type.
3.Financial = I'm a shopaholic so it will be better if my BF can hang out with me always.
4.Sex Ability = Hey, this is rather important for a gal to have a better tomorrow
5.Appearance = Normal looking guyz will do. Average will do.
6. His responsibiltiness = Hope to get someone who love me and care for my family as well, cause I am the only daughter from my family.
7.How much he love me = Trust me and loyal to me.
8.His charactheristic = For sure talkative and love gaming as I do
9.His personality = Kind for sure. Kind enough to let me bully
10. What is his carreer = A carrer which have stabil income and place where he can enjoy his work so he need not to bring any anger back for me
11. How he treat you = Freedom and Caring at the right time - when I need him.
12. Clever or smart = Sure la SMART
13. Good at Sport = Less good better

This post has been edited by Peppy: Mar 10 2008, 05:16 PM

Don't really have an explainable reason to fall in love with guy..

1. Look/Appearance - Not that important as long as he looks presentable

2. Height - At least taller than me. I am 5ft 4in

3. Body shape - Prefer chubby type. Tummy for me to rub Actually i don't mind fat also if he is tall enough to carry it off

4. Financial(rich/poor) - Won't say he has to be rich, or will i accept him being poor. Stable should be the word i guess

5. His personality(kind/evil) - Kind of course

6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla) - Witty, not too petty

7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...) - A responsible guy who will own up to his mistakes and not give stupid excuses to save his own ass

8. What is his career - Should be either same level or higher than me. Erm.. i can't handle the inferior issues which will arise due to the man ego for me having a higher position than him and also i need someone who is already there to understand my crazy work schedule

9. He is clever / stupid - I need a smart one to keep me on my toes. Someone who can challenge me and i could challenge back as well. This is the only one which i would rate 10. I melt at the feet of an intelligent man

10. How he treat u - as an equal. But i don't mind entertaining his MCP ego occasionally. I do enjoy being that little woman once in a while

11. How much he love u - Its either as much as i love him or more than i love him.

12. Good at sport - YES! mountain biking is a MUST. LOL

13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this) - I can teach him, its ok. LOL




But then again, i agree with xcutelilgal. Its unexplainable. You just fall in love. You meet someone, click with him, then you are in love. Girls don't go through a list of requirements and tick on each of them to see if the guy is what we are looking for.




This post has been edited by sexyamber: Mar 10 2008, 07:12 PM

1. Look/Appearance = presentable lar of coz...but then if you like a person, no matter how he looked like... you will love it ^^

2. Height = must be taller than me!! around 170cm above

3. Body shape = normal average body size/shape

4. Financial(rich/poor) = average/stable

5. His personality(kind/evil) = who wants an evil bf??? lol. kind la of coz

6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla) = hm... funny^^ so i can laugh a lot when i'm with him, be serious when he needs to or at times, romantic

7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...) = must be there for me when i needed him, then takes care of my family and clicks well with my brother, loves and takecare of his family.

8. What is his career = a career higher than me or same level... as long as its a decent job that is legal..

9. He is clever / stupid = smarter than me, so he can teach me stuff. hehe

10. How he treat u = must love me a lot!!! love me for who i am, be there to protect and support me, pamper me sometimes

11. How much he love u = loves me with all his heart!!!

12. Good at sport = it will be a plus point if he is good at sport

13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this) = well.....must be good la haha

agreed i wonder y..

Personality > looks

let me give you the truth 9/10 the girls here who said that they dont mind bodyshape means that they want hot guys not fat ppl <other words diaf fat ppl> most of the girls who say yes for a guy's responsibility wants him to not cheat on them only...for again about 5/10 couple's bf are cheating/thinking of cheating on their gf

but if all the girls here are as they rated then why the hell cant find you all out there =.=" or taken di....

This post has been edited by Jas2davir: Apr 6 2008, 07:27 AM

choosing gf/bf cannot use words to describe..

it like the sixth feel on each other ...

Taken because you are late

Wah,each of your "request" is so demanding.

I have to work hard adi.

The emperor is with us we shall get the Adeptus Sororitas.

Hell no,im not interested in violent nuns with flame throwers.

sigh....please send me an invitation when a vaccancy opens thanks

guys that are acting like he's cool, i hate the most, and no smoke

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