Girls, what is most probably to be the reasons/characters of a guy that make u admire / feel in love / want him to be ur bf?

pls rate 4 each seriously n honestly thx rate as x/10

1. Look/Appearance
2. Height
3. Body shape
4. Financial(rich/poor)
5. His personality(kind/evil)
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla)
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...)
8. What is his career
9. He is clever / stupid
10. How he treat u
11. How much he love u
12. Good at sport
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this)

or u don't really have an explainable reason to feel in love to a guy?

for my opinion....Appearance, body doesnt counts in..Its not im ugly or watever..im pretty...m not showing off my high egoness or watever but m proud of myself..my own beauty,,,who doesnt...=)

Look/Appearance = n/a
2. Height= muz be taller den me as i stands at 166cm not few inches taller but much more...
3. Body shape = n/a
4. Financial(rich/poor) = yes
5. His personality(kind/evil) = yes very important, i observe and analyzed first..
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla) - same goes above answer
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...) = same answer as above
8. What is his career = yes
9. He is clever / stupid = yes very important
10. How he treat u

Above ratings are supposedly 10/10 i knw eryone is not perfect but in terms of behavior, character, personality, attitude...i take it very seriously n i analyzed ppl first b4 i take any action into any deep considerations...

11. How much he love u
12. Good at sport
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this

As for no 11 - same answer...

12 : n/a

13 : n/a


I dun accept guys/mens juz becoz u r rich or good looking..for me is BS..it has nothing to do with it....it doesnt encounter of giving u reasons to add extra recipe into ur considerations love the person...

thx 4 ur opinions

anyway i just found this out

"1) No guys are allowed to open a thread in GC except in the Fashion and Beauty subforum. A suspension of 3 days will be given. You may, however, reply to an existing thread."

OMG! shud i delete this thread now?

I dun think u can delete it.. wat u can do is to lock it.

there is no need for that because the admin will "delete" you completely

Chill out, after all changing gender is just one click away

by this reply, mod oledi know tat the TS is a he..

haha nvm lar just make new account lor, this account i just made 1 oso

1. Look/Appearance - not so important, but plays an role. decent looking will do.

2. Height - at least taller or around my height.

3. Body shape - dun really care abt it much. cuz, body shape is not permanent. it can change over times. maybe initially is fit, but when times go, he might go fat or have a tummy... so r u going to discriminate a guy u like from his body shape? i dun think so... besides, there is a saying, when someone is in love, he/she tends to get fatter..

4. Financial(rich/poor) - average will do, but must have the ability to earn money(meaning can get a job, n not asking money from the gf/family) well, if rich because of the father, it means nothing right...

5. His personality(kind/evil) -
6. His characteristic(always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla)
7. His responsibilityness(to u, family,study, career...)

qs 5-7 : i think those are the most important thing. different ppl attract to different type of personality/characteristic. and if there is a dismatch in this 3 thingy.. a relationship cant last long.

8. What is his career - not rob/steal then shd be ok.

9. He is clever / stupid - sorry if offended anyone here. but i cant tolerate stupid guy, esp those who think they r smart but actually a big no to guy who like to act gaya, got rupa tapi tak guna

10. How he treat u - it is important, both party got to get involve.. not just the guy only

11. How much he love u - it develop from time to time.. so not in the urge to make a decision.

12. Good at sport - will be a bonus

13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this) - as u said, skill, it needs practice and experience. can explore together..


actually, u dun really choose a bf, like the way u choose a car or a shirt... it is more like a good feeling towards somebody at the right place, right time and right person. getting together is just a small matter. whether can maintain/spice up the relationship not is the key.

So, anyone fit into my list?

This post has been edited by wintermelon: Jan 5 2008, 10:18 AM

r u serious bout u like chubby guys? why? isnt it skinny look better? hmm.. i dont mean very skinny lar, but at least not chubby lor.. i feel weird ler coz i really found that some leng lui really have chubby bf.. sry, no offence to chubby guys, it is just my little point of view

It depends on the individual. As for me, skinny guys are definitely out because I'm not a skinny chick. As long as we look balance standing next to each other, then it should be ok. By the way, chubby is just a preference. The most important is the feeling

oh haha, but some skinny + pretty girls i know like chubby guys.. dunno ler haha...

Yea, most of my pretty girlfriends do

so u don't look fatter when both of u take photo rite ? lulz

sense of humour but look don't be too bad

from experience i think personality is very very important, charisma, how u treat a girl, how you make her feel special in some ways(like how she looks great with those tops and so on), sensitive, thoughtful, impressing her parents/friends/relatives, last but not least loving a person without any conditions =)
oh yaa n sex after marriage please hehe =D

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Added on January 6, 2008, 4:35 pmoh yea n girls hate guys who are indecisive hehe sorry to left this out

i learned all this thru experience =)

This post has been edited by scrubiee: Jan 6 2008, 04:35 PM

honest or not de oh all? coz i c many gals like to say bout which guy is handsome n rich like that... dunno how they really choose bf actually...

anyway i thx for all the opinion but can some ppl pls rate? for example, 1/10 or 7/10 or 10/10 for each categories

I cant rate. I dont exactly know what order of importance they are in...but I do know that what I say I want is not what I usually get.

1. Look/Appearance - As long as I don't start puking by looking at him, it's fine. It's a bonus if he looks good. But presentation is more important. How you dress and present yourself will tell a lot about a person, whether he knows how to take care of his image or not.
2. Height - Taller than me, I am short enough, if you are shorter than me I might as well date my younger brother...
3. Body shape - Fit and healthy. Fabulous abs is a plus point
4. Financial(rich/poor) - Stable and growing income. He must be a career-minded person and constantly work to improvise himself.
5. His personality (kind/evil) - Kind is boring LOL In between, it's good to have a balance personality. Too nice or too evil is not very healthy for my brain
6. His characteristic (always serious, funny, cute, cool, talkative... bla bla bla) - Serious when it's necessary and knows how to have fun.
7. His responsibilityness (to u, family,study, career...) - He must be a responsible person. I absolutely refuse to go out with anyone who doesn't know how to take care of his life.
8. What is his career - Anything legal and earns good money with great career growth.
9. He is clever / stupid - Clever please. Stupid is very mind-boggling and too time consuming to entertain.
10. How he treat u - Respect me for who I am and treat me as his other half. Do not control me, I am not his property.
11. How much he love u - Loves me Love is not measurable.
12. Good at sport - Not necessary.
13. His sex skill/ability (sry to ask if u r sensitive to this) -