I've fell in love with a guy(A) for quite a long time. Lately,I've heard from his best friend that he(A) also felt the same on me but the problem is he's(A) not ready for any relationship and only wants to focus on his studies. He's a straight As,top student in his school...good in sports and academic. And that's what make him popular and famous among his schoolmates. I've heard many girls fell for him too. yeah...he's good looking.

His parents are both teacher and his dad teach in my school and I've went to his place for tuition too. with no doubt,his dad knew I was into his son because the news spread from his school to mine too. making both of us famous. His dad has been very nice to me,fetch me back home, or go anywhere...get my souveniers if he went for any vacation and SMS me alot. Basically I understand more about his dad than him...and he(A) thinks that I'm trying to tackle him with the help of his father but I'm not. We just get along well...but he don't seems to like it and tried to avoid me this recently. We used to SMS quite often but now, he(A) hardly ever reply my message and I was really sad...I don't know what is in his mind...and his dad going to send him to the same college im going to attend in Australia and he seems to be unhappy about this and think that I've brainwashed his dad to make sure he(A) stayed close with me or purposely choose to go to the same college with him.
It wasn't my fault ,right people?


Awww.....I was really sad

I don't think it's your fault being friendly with the person you like dad. Anyway it's the New Year don't think about sad things. Don't seriously take advice from me cause I'm just a 13 year old bored boy.

This post has been edited by TechnoDude94: Jan 2 2008, 03:15 AM

wow... how can u so close with his dad =.=, even sms somemore.. lol
just let things go on naturally .. so think so much....when he ready, he will tell u lol...
by the way, I dont think is good idea to u so close to his dad, better keep some gap...

soon you will date his father lulz

wow u so selfish wor.
he so young better study at overseas mah.
its a great oppurtunity for him.
if both of u have faith no matter how far u will together 1 day.
last time i dun trust tis statement.
do u know my wife and me just know for 1 mths then we far apart.
i onli c her once a year and just use phone and sms to communicate.
fr ur speech i felt tat his dad like love u lah.
u better becareful.hehe.

FATE.. does it really exist?
i wont believe in fate until the day i experienced it.

Aiyo, don't joke on people when the person is sad. Make the person feel even more sad.

U said his bestfren say he also into u, and then later u say he ignoring u and not happy?
Duh..

I think u need to talk with him...

TS, don't worry about it. it is no body's fault. there is still plenty of time.

normal growing experience i shud say..
there's more for u to learn..
juz hold on to wat u r planning now, let go if u feel so..

btw TS,
does he like u?

Yup, TS already mentioned that A's friend said that A likes her but is not ready for relationship.

no respone at all, joke topic?

aiks...me & his dad is just some kind of tutor friend. I'm not saying that I purposely get close with his dad just because of him. We just clicked well and his dad is really friendly.

Oh no...I don't know what he going to think of me now...we'll be going to the same college and will have more akward situation....ouuchhh

Internet is teh seriouz business huh?

Open your mouth and talk to him WTF u come to ask idiots in LYN for?

i second that

fr the way u put it, u n his dad....i dunno la...mayb its just me.

This is like it started with a kiss drama.
Cool you will be Xiang Qin and he(A) will be Zhi Shu. Go to the same college and the guy is a handsome genius.

This post has been edited by hatekiasuppl: Jan 3 2008, 12:07 AM

I suppose that he's still immature in accepting situations around him. If that's the case, forget about him, treat him cool and see how it goes from there. I'm sure there's still hell lot of guys out there. You're still young, enjoy your youth in meeting more people. You might feel surprised at how socializing change your perception on relationships. Take your time.

if everything fails, you can still hit on his dad and become his stepmother and make life difficult for him.

maybe u should explain to him using email or letter...

i trust lor for me.

---

Added on January 3, 2008, 8:43 amu r the idiots.
we gave our own opinion and based on our experience.
bakayaro.
haha.

This post has been edited by ubsacc2004: Jan 3 2008, 08:43 AM

give him a break... you're scaring him.
too aggresive.

in a way.. getting too close with someone's dad when u like him/her..
it does sound a bit scary.. maybe he can't accept it yet..

uhm...maybe you're right ! He keep mentioning im having crush on his dad while his dad and me are just like father and daughther relationship...cant denied we are close !! how silly

Honestly, too young to indulge yourself a serious r/ship. Imagine the age you are now and the ideal age you want to get married. Around 10 years if i'm not mistaken. Not many r/ships can last for so long. Give him a break and let him do anything he wants. Years later, he might come back for you and then, you both will be redi for d r/ship. If not, it jus means that he's not the right guy for you.

At this raw age, i shud say, go out and have fun, meet more ppl, same college doesn't mean you need to be with him all the time. join a gang of frens in your course and chill out together. If he's not responding to your message or conversation, jus leave him alone. Don't show your desperation. There'll b a lot more hot and cute guys out there in Aus

This post has been edited by Blumarooz: Jan 8 2008, 11:41 AM

Seriously, dat is kinda dumb to sms wif his dad quite often...keep a gap lar...aiyoo...common sense

It sounds so wrong when u say u and the father is very close... It's kinda scary u knw... Keep a distance... I'm afraid later u don even know who exactly u're crushing on... And and and u must make sure the guy is really having a crush on u la... What people say may not be true u knw... It may be just a prank... so make sure k... Best wishes to u.