I'm a Chinese guy, I'm not going after a Malay girl (or any girl for the matter), I asked this out of curiosity.

I find them rather shy and feminine when I talk to them. Is it because they are brought up to be soft-spoken or cos they're not used to talking to Chinese guys? But overall I think they are well-mannered and some of my friends say they can do housework and cook well, which the modern Chinese girl can't do nowadays. My Mamak friend says they're aggressive and hard to go after.

It's impossible to generalize but what are the traits that are common to most Malay girls? What do you all think?

No racist comments please

seriously, which kampung are you from?

Some attractive, some don't even look like Malay. If not from conservative family, they tend to dress like others. No tudung or something.

if you're the type of guy who thinks a good wife = a girl who can do housework and cook and obey and be submissive to you 100%, and don't go to work, you disgust me.

Totally agree wit u. They varies a lot nowadays especially city girl.

Malay girls lebih ayu berbanding dengan girls from other races. Most don't really look whether you have a car or not.

There was no mention of that in my post, was there? Another case of someone jumping to conclusions.

Pls be serious and give your comments. If you want to flame...you'll burn yourself =D

Are you disgusted by the fact that we men admire the quality in a woman who can cook and take good care of the house? Nothing wrong with us guys looking for this kind of women for companion. By the way, he only mentioned about well mannered, can cook and do housework....the other things you say are only your words.

Whoever is easily offended, please do not read the following comment.

Read at your own risk


FYI, I'm Chinese.

Isn't this reflected on how her current bf treating her now?

This post has been edited by Belphegor: Dec 30 2007, 07:09 PM

some malay girls are hot leh. f***ing sexy also

Chinese girls nowadays are too demanding. Susah mahu layan them. (OK! go ahead and flame me)

yea... the prettier ones are less likely to cover up

0.o



it's true!

Nahh...you're right. In other words, high maintenance. Although some Malays are quite high maintenance too, especially those super emotional ones.

this proven that u're not a malay and u cant cook sh1t for your bf (if u ever have one)....
also may never clean up your room/house yourself...

my gf is a malay muslim and she's for me.
and yes...i choose malay coz of their keayuan, learn how to cook, do housework, and willingness to become submissive to the husband...
being submissive to the husband is part of the duty of being a wife in muslim, mind u.

of coz, we as a husband, in return must treat them well and wif respect as well.

This post has been edited by karwaidotnet: Dec 30 2007, 07:18 PM

i feel that malay girls is more easy to handle and well mannered other than other races girls. no offense but i think diff culture other than malay not really need a girl to be soft spoken and well mannered...this is a girl is.....and on the other hand..chinese girl mostly have small boobs...

NO OFFENSE!!!

it doesnt matter if its malay, chinese or wutever race the girl is..
alot of ppl nowadays arent that interested in doing housechores anymore..

if the person is brought up with good manners, they'll tend to be well-mannered to u of coz..
And being the multi-cultured bolehland, when one talks to another ppl from other race, we tend to be more polite as not to offend the other.

IMHO, there's no point in trying to generalize the common traits as everybody regardless of race are unique by themselves.

FYI, my female chinese frens can cook very well and able to do housework even tho they are from the city and they do parties alot..

btw, i'm not siding on any race tho.. i'm not even chinese

cheers

Surely guys would like someone who can cook for them. But hey, if girls can be demanding, why can't the guys be demanding also? Anyway, with Malay girls you have to support her emotionally. And by I mean support, I mean a lot. They tends to get jealous sometimes. Hyper jealous.

thr are good and bad malay girls .. there are also good and bad chinese girls .. same thing, there are good and bad indian girls.

PLEASE DO NOT GENERALISED!!! ^#$!$*!%@#$

MALAYS GIRLS ARE AWESOME MAN!!

Seriously, PS:Im not malay, but these are the girls that make the club rock.

My goodness, malay chicks shake it like there's no tommorow


any local chinese/indian?

This post has been edited by syyang85: Dec 30 2007, 07:33 PM

1)Malay girls have better eyes than chinese gals..
2)they are less stylish and abide those muslims rules that we chinese are not willing to.. (depends on which)
3)they tend to be more loyal to husband and dont play guys (depends also)

But Chinese girls have tight asses. >_>

honestly i find that TOTALLY UNTRUE . i've seen chinese chicks with super uber awesome bewbs and looks excellent too

back to topic :

i love malay chicks . much easier to talk to and approach as they tend to be more open minded actually . confessed my feelings to one , but got rejected sadly . lotsa malay guys would like to get her as GF tho , tons of competition

i feel ya mon, seriously

some malay chicks really hotter than chinese

Mister ssyang85, this is not malay. It has been flowing around youtube and being clarified as the dancing lady is someone from South America.

totally agree wit wat u write in spoiler

Personally, i find Malay girls more attractive physically and emotionally compared to any other race of girls. They've got a very sweet demeanour and they're not too held back. In terms of looks, minus the 'tudung', they look gorgeous. I wouldn't mind dating one but the thought of leaving some of my habits behind and being deemed a Muslim is something i just can't comprehand.

once u tasted rendang , you will know

LOL!!!!!!!!!!

i guess they're shy only towards u dude..... maybe the way u approch them scares them..

damn..tight a$$! but i dont think this is a malay girl..malay girl cant shake the butt like that..its not in the blood..

no diff... I've dated chinese and malay girls and I'm a chinese.

Malay girls always had a "nearly same" look for my, which is like to wear tight t-shirt (other than baju kurong??)

baju kurung not tight ?

you must be looking at the wrong malay girls then . most of them look awesome in baju kurung . heck , even the usual malay girl style of t-shirt and track bottoms is amazing

QUOTE

malay girl style of t-shirt and track bottoms is amazing

We have the same taste mon. Kinda nice. Yup yup nice.

a lot of malay girls want to have chinese boy friend, they feel higher class. can show off to their friend.

" boyfriend aku cine tau, banyak duit"

Seriously, I have the same thought.

100% agree....but however,it is very hard to find good girls who can do house chores...if bad girls,everywhere can find...Malay also sama...Chinese also sama...Indian also sama...

Im malay, and I definetly not go for other races except malay to be my gf or wife.
Malay girls, they are moree honest, they dont play guys. But depends la. If girls like those bohsia you sendiri mau ingat la..
But majority average malay girls are like that.
And also, malay girls I can say compared to other races they more 'suci' la. I mean, I cay most of average malay girls they dont do sex before marriage. Worse come to worse they could do probably oral sex only la. If other races, in ur dream la. Awal2 lagi dah longgar.
Heheh.
And they are not money-oriented like other races especially chinese girls. Chinese gilrs oh man... I think they only think about money and their appearance, new clothes, all d time.
But some malay girls can be very rude until you fell really wanna give a slap to their faces.
India girls, hmm.. some of them really hot, but what I really cannot tahan is, most of them I know really likes to 'kelentong' peoples. Talk nice2 infront and stab at d back.

I have quite a number of friends that is still tight. In your dreams lah longgar.

You sure malay girls know how to cook nowadays?I'm from Kelantan and I can assure you I cant find a girl in Kelantan who knows how to cook nowadays.. Maybe cook from the shop but frying an egg is not considered cooking for me.. dont know that many girls who can cook anyway nowadays hehe..as for ayu?hmm..I like them wild though..flame if you disgree haha

Relax la beb, just my opinion wokeh..

Each race have their pros and cons. But I still prefer Malays. But heck, some of the Malay girls I knew they had sexual intercourse before. Again, depends on individual opinion.

i have no idea where this is headed but I give full support to Malay gals
All gals I support as long as not lansi-type...

No need knows how to cook, their mom/grandma can make good food can edi...

Malay girls at my work place are quite open minded, you can talk anything with them. Don't really have many malay friends so i can only tell u this

Lol. In my previous school there were a lot of stories of girls (mostly Malays) having sex in school. Yes in school. Mostly the afternoon sessions ones (form1 and 2). They would use the empty classrooms.

Not all of the Malay girls at my school are like that though. One of my good friends is Muslim, mom's Chinese. She's pretty nice. But one thing that makes it a little bit erm...awkward for us when chatting with Malay girls is that some of them are so well-mannered, polite, religious that we have to choose our topics when talking. Like we can't share a satirical or dirty joke because they might think it's mean. =/

Malay girl rocks

feminist pig detected..

Belum cuba belum tahu

man,you should check out JAIS's videos.
you'd be amazed at how "curious" our malay/muslims brothers and sisters are

ROFLMAO!!!

is she in your friendster...?

btw,this thread really made me ROFLMAOLOL!

GOD i already love you..my long lost twin. lol

mr ts, spend less time infront of ur pc n go out more often...
malay girls are not so different from girls of other races...

This post has been edited by mumuz: Dec 31 2007, 03:41 AM

1 word in response to those i bolded... bullshit.

im malay.... and im speaking from experience. malay girls these days (at least the ones i know) are so full of shit that ive gotten totally turned off by them. heck...i even rejected the idea of being in a relationship with another malay girl a few years ago and started hanging out with non-malay girls. i find them much better..more honest and more direct. open minded etc...

and the kind of malay girls i love to hate.... tudung girls. most ive met are 2-faced, backstabbing, and pretty much a disgrace to the tudung they wear. theyre totally opposite of what they try to potray. bunch of hypocrites. take note ive never dated nor had feelings for a tudung girl...these are just those i know through out my life.

BUT...i am in relationship with a malay girl right now (3+ years)... doesnt wear a tudung of course. but she is totally different than other malay girls i know. very open. very cool. shares quite alot of the same views i do (rare for a malay girl)... diamond in the rough this one.

This post has been edited by mADmAN: Dec 31 2007, 04:07 AM

I grew up with malay, I mean at pimary skul.. Some malay girl do melt my heart with their soft voice

lol....malays gurl recommendation thread....??
haha....if no need to convert to muslim i will go afta them too

i think malay girls they do not care v have car or motorcycle, as long as v got transport and able to fetch her to here n there.
most of the chinese gals, lol... NO CAR NO TALK!

Yeah, i know what it feels like to know a girl who looks innocent and clean, then suddenly out of nowhere you find out she's a b*tch, but honestly you cant simply judge a person by her tudung and dont even start generalizing either.

What matters the most is the heart, as long as its pure and clean, she'll be clean on the outside too.

cheers

i pretty much grown up along malays although i'm not.
there are three kind of malay girls i can categorize into,imho.

1st is the shy and conservative malay girl. they mostly have good religious education background, hold strong to the religion principle , very nice manner though.

2nd is the open minded malay girl. most of them are well educated, some of them don't really hold on to the the religion rules (no offence here), easy to get along.

3rd is the crazy kampung b*tch. mostly uneducated, mixes wif rempits, talk like an auntie. they sucks

This post has been edited by fx_53_xt: Dec 31 2007, 06:32 AM

this thread seems like recommending a malay girl..
well man Malaysia main religon is Islam..
u cant complaint bout that..

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Added on December 31, 2007, 7:37 amwhich 1 you will choose?
all 3 types that u state is true..

This post has been edited by xsan: Dec 31 2007, 07:37 AM

in my opinion, all girls are the same..

u can see some malay girls are good, some are bad..
same with other race as well.. some chinese@indian@etc girls are good, some are bad..

u cant really generalize them.. for me it uncomparable.. i dun mind dating a malay, chinese or indian.. its an experience to gain..

suara ayu

wahahha yea... 50% of tudung wearers in my skol are crap..
when theres an informal meeting or function, they appear to b tudungless,make up to the max and some behave like 'gangsterz' ... but still topic is subjective. imo malay gals are still the purest as majority makes them.

actually i find quite a number of malay girls attractive.. too bad about the religion bit lol

the main reason why you see so many pure , suci or whatever you call them malay girls is because ......

for every 100 malay girls , you'll maybe see like 20 chinese girls and like 10 indian . so if you count it based on a ratio that 50% of the girls are "nice"
you'll see 50 nice malay girls to every 10 nice chinese girls and 5 nice indian girls .

therefore , the "most probable" reason why everyone is saying that malay girls are better is because its so much easier to find a malay girl as compared to a chinese or an indian girl

*good luck understanding *

They are wild......

This post has been edited by ed0gawa: Dec 31 2007, 10:42 AM

i dun usually approach guys,for the record.

malay gals more honest? pls take ur b-sh1t elsewhr. every gal out thr irregardless of race got the same opportunity to play the guys. n wat dun do sex before marriage? crap, go to those secluded parks in the mid of the night n scream "JAIS!"...c how many of ur nice 'suci' malay gals running out.

not money oriented? then why some of them r willign to be mistress of those rich datuks? n wat is so wrong abt us girls thinking abt our money since u jacka$$es r too poor to take care of us? n just because u look utterly hideous ungroomed, doesnt mean we need to follow suit. backstabbing happens no matter if u r chinese,malay or indian.


again, depending on which location u come fr. i hate having to be the chauffeur on dates since i usually split the bill. if u r gonna pay, then oklor

siaogurl i wanna date u!

and as for malay girls better than other girls?? thats BS imho all girls are the same, just that u are not around to see them in their evil modes

come come

i tink depending on which malay gal u r referring to,some can b 'suci' but usually those urbanized ones dont differ much fr their chinese counterparts

i think in this current generation.. how suci is suci la? lol

enough of this inferior talks

korean and japanese girls > indian,malay and chinese girl combined

I'd hit it too.

Owning

But depends the girl from which part

i'm seriously not ready to let go what i am today.
so no choosing for me

Fuyoo some people are so emotional. I wonder why..
Bwahahhaha!
Sorry la auntie, it just my opinion and based on my experience wokey. No offense.
But still I stick to my opinion and you can stick to yours.
Even if theres no malay girls I could find, 2nd choice I will go for Indian girls or arab girls. Thats it.
Chinese girls... hmm sorry la, never think about it. They cant even be my last choice.
Mwahahahaha!
No offense guys.. Just my opinion only wokeh...

This post has been edited by castelloz: Dec 31 2007, 02:33 PM

because i hate idiots who generalise ppl.

or maybe its because chinese chicks dont dig u so u opt for malays eh?

Seconded.

Malay girls.................. not my cuppa.
I shall refrain from posting racist remarks.

Correction:

Japanese > Taiwan > Msian Chinese > indian + malay > Korean

IN THAT ORDER.


Korean = Fake.

siowsiow add me msn laaaaaa

No. Seriously, I find that Malay girls are more easier to approach compare to Chinese. Approach them as a friend. Mostly Chinese girl would think that "wtf you want". But again, there's always an exception. Maybe I hasn't found the girl who are open-minded enough.

yes, u haven't.

Chinese girl's heart too hard to catch. Hard to estimate. Sad sad..

i find all girls easy to approach.. its how u weave urself into their hearts

yes, chineeze chicks are harder.... more demanding.

Just throw some money, they gonna chase after you like crazy..
Heheh.

DO U KNOW THOSE KOREAN CELEBRITIES NEVER HAD ANY SURGERY AND THEY ARE 100% REAL

Yeah, aged 18 parents give them a free double eyelid surgery or face lift and this seems to be the norm.

Fake eyes, fake boobs and i wonder what else is fake

my pov..y do u think chinese girls are more demanding and money minded? it's becoz the way they were brought up, as always, chinese people are very business oriented (always looking for more ways to generate income, etc etc) and everything spells money. wat's more, when these girls are constantly surrounded by people and the influenced by the society that designers stuff are much better than the no branded ones, also play a part in this. in fact, it's becoming more obvious in other races nowadays as well.

i say, if u cant handle the demands from these girls, dont date them. better still, dont get into any relationship becoz, one thing's for sure, if u cant handle the demand now, you cant handle it in future, when the demand from the family, the in laws, the wife, the kids are far more than the one you're going thru right now.

cheerz

I think she says "other than baju kurung". yes they always dress up the small t-shirt like superman lol but have to say, small shirt and low pank, you can always see thing inbetween them is... ( | ) ... well I didn't say anything yet


too many drama drive them like miss 1000 golds. as we can see malay girls can simply follow their bf everywhere, chinese? no way, only if you can fetch her

i cant see any much different between Chinese and malays girls, both hot, nice, sweet, they just human, physically most of malay girls have bigger boobs bigger nice assessss and most Chinese don't but I saw some rare lol.. Chinese some are really cute make my nose bleed most of them have very nice body shape 8 hehe and really2 nice hair . I don't mind malay or Chinese hahah MIX better ,bottom line if u happy shes happy it good enough.

Lol! rock on modern girls!

if guys today still wanna look for the 'guai guai wife' means as long as can cook, do housework, stay at home jaga kids, don't need to be ambitious or go to work, 100% submissive and listen to him, and stay at home just wait for him to come home to have sex, girls like these type, very rare in modern society already la

good luck to all guys who search for such stereotype. for i can tell you, i have so many girl friends and have not met one who would say 'my ambition is to be a housewife, cook, clean, take care of my kids and husband, and just to serve my husband at home and wait for him come home to have sex'. good luck guys!

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Added on December 31, 2007, 4:26 pmthe glory of modernism!

This post has been edited by h0tchick: Dec 31 2007, 04:26 PM

home and wait for him come home to have sex... WOW
now i know why guys always rushing home maybe his wife says "i give u 5 min or got noting" hahaha

malay chicks are hot...n they have hot bodies

Yeah!!!

Sire, you forgot the swarm of China Mainland's Papayas. I bet they have better deals than the taiwanese