omg brother.. your are totally wrong here. you said u cannot style and hold your hard hair i think its because of your experience in hair styling (maybe bcoz u often stay at home din style your hair) and also the wax,mud or gel u using. the fact is that the softer the hair.. the harder to hold the shape or make some style. harder hair/rough-er hair are easier to give it a style and can hold longer. why i know because myself has a softer hair. i found it hard to give it a shape. even the hair stylist told me my hair is soft and hard to style