i think before moving in the house together, need to discuss what he's willing to help out in the house (cut the grass? change the lights? take out heavy laundry?) and what you're willing to do (iron clothes? cook and wash?). if he expects you to do all the house chores, then you should discuss it before moving in. vice versa i know this uncle purposely wake up at 5am to do house chores AND cook breakfast for his wife and kids... it doesn't mean she's a bad house wife also, just that her hubby wants to do it for her ma.

more importantly, u need to talk about it! don't even joke about it because it involves each other's time and effort.

that way after you actually marry and move in together, the expectations will be the same.

anyway i'm too young to get married so perhaps this is just an idealistic opinion from a small kid