Easiest thing to do is move out and learn to be independent.

Ask your future bf or husband to do that too.

Why? Because you guys / girls will learn that it takes a lot of effort to live on your own.

2nd most of the stuff where you think a 'proper' woman should do or a 'proper' man should do will not come in mind.

Because in the end both of you would have to contribute some housework.

Especially when you start having kids.

If you can't even take care of yourself, please don't try to raise a kid.

Marriage or relationship isn't a contract nor a agreement, IT IS A PARTNERSHIP, if either of you screw up that means both your lads screwed up.

Capish?