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 How to become a good newly housewife?

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invisiblegal
post May 8 2009, 10:38 AM

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QUOTE(ginos83 @ Dec 21 2007, 12:54 PM)
This question all in a sudden pop up in my mind. Coz i know someday i will be someone's wife. How to make my future hubby happy with me coz i'm working office lady from 9am to 5pm (mon & fri) & 9am-1pm(sat). Sometime i will be working longer then i need to work due to work load heavy. Don't expect me to cook after work as i will be home very late. I don't do household as i'm leaving with my mummy. She will do everything for me. I dunno how to cook & clean and i don't like either. Please advice...  cry.gif
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dear cute ginos83.

financial planning is a must as well as good and thorough communication.
1) u need to share financial burden with him, eg 1/3 of the expenses or 50% if u r willing to.

2) u must get a maid/part time maid/any elders in either family to look after the houseworks and kids. Dont ever let chores/kids/MIL issues disturb your marriage, cos IT WILL and it will be destructive. Be careful.

3) enjoy the marriage, enjoy the 2's world, find quiet private quality time,

4) same equally goes to your kids and MIL/mother who helps u, therefore u r going to be a very busy lady who have a perfect life.

good luck

invisiblegal
post May 11 2009, 01:41 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_nic81 @ May 8 2009, 06:50 PM)
i kinda have the same problem with TS a years ago.. i'm the only child.. my family is very protective.. i don't need to do housework at all! not even folding my own clothes..
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Dear Cute Nichole

Your sharing remind me of the young me, a submissive wife. I hope there wont be such a day that u wake up like me, realizing u r being submissive and lost urself. Although you have every reason to do what u r doing right now that u love him, or u ve no other better job to do, or u r doing for future kids, or... I just hope u r truly happy bfore too late.


 

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