i kinda have the same problem with TS a years ago.. i'm the only child.. my family is very protective.. i don't need to do housework at all! not even folding my own clothes..

when i was with my ex bf, i did cook.. i actually started liking to cook.. the feeling of waiting for him to come back home after work n eat my home cook food, makes me happy.. after we broke up, i decided not to love anymore.. i wanted to work hard and not depend on anyone..

then i met my husband before i even got myself a new job.. we got married and a year ago, we just moved into our new condo.. previously i stayed with my mum.. so, a year ago was my 1st time ever operating a washing machine! yea, i was 27 =.=

since my husband is working, i took my role as a housewife.. because i love my husband so much, i love the feeling of being a housewife.. to clean the house, pay the bills, cook and etc.. i always make sure the house is clean and comfortable for him.. i'm starting to cook alot too coz i want to cook for the one i love my husband did ask me to learn to cook previously coz he said i need to cook for our future kids.. can't rely on a maid or anyone..

in a way by being a housewife, it's taking care of your husband coz he doesn't need to worry about the bills, food and etc..

now, it's my full time job as a housewife.. i don't have a maid to help me and we're staying in a duplex condo.. like a 2 storey semi D.. all i'm saying is that once u're married, u'd want to do things for your loved ones.. it comes naturally.. i used to hate doing housework but look, i'm a housewife now.. seeing the house clean and tidy puts a smile to my face.. sometimes i spend 6 hours cleaning the entire house.. hehehe..