How to become a good newly housewife?
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 Dec 21 2007, 12:00 PM
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thn if u got marry...u still live with your mummy meh
dn't know do household....somehow gotta learn as well but if you're very lucky(pray alot)..u might be married to a guy that does all the household for u and maybe the cooking(cooking dn't hope so much) and u wanna make him happy....please him more...dn't make him angry and stressup all the time...flirt with him...he'll do some for u!!! |
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Dec 21 2007, 12:02 PM
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from some ppl's angle (mostly chinese)...cannot cook and clean is not perfect in marriage...yes
but it's u 2 are open minded man...and your man understand u...that won't be a matter thn learn at least how to clean from your current man...........cook maybe he'll do it for u!!...haha try him! This post has been edited by MR_alien: Dec 21 2007, 12:05 PM |
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Dec 21 2007, 12:07 PM
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QUOTE(ginos83 @ Dec 21 2007, 12:04 PM) I try my best to please him.. but somehow due to stress from works & traffic we end up we argue on simple things... try think home is home ..work is work...when is working think like work....but when reach home..think of what he has done for u at HOME today!!...this may help u and arguing on simple thing is bad for your realtionship as well...try to aviod that....either u stop or he stop when start arguing |
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Dec 21 2007, 02:20 PM
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Dec 21 2007, 01:32 PM) If man can cook and clean better than girls what will left for girls ? getting pregenant yeah ...maybe it's that...cuz that's the one that only man cannot do... ?but very pity that many girls now dn't like to get pregnant.... haizzzz....no more next generation!!! |
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Dec 21 2007, 03:22 PM
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QUOTE(Reuben @ Dec 21 2007, 03:20 PM) I find this question a bit saddening as it reinforces the stereotypes of what a man and woman's roles are. learn how to operate that washing machine of yours...which means u never used it be4??This seems to imply that guys like girls that stay in the home and cook nice food etc etc...Well sure I like it but is it a requirement? Not for me at least. Be comfortable with who you are, learn how to cook a few simple dishes and it's not a problem to get your other half to join in as well. Cooking need not be a chore and everyone can help out. You cook, he washes or vice versa. The old model of MAN MAKE MONEY COME HOME WIFE MUST SERVE should be obsolete now. If your husband or husband to be enforces that...then perhaps what he needs is a maid and not a wife. But once again I think EVERYONE should be able to do a bit of house work regardless of being male or female. It's part of being a complete person. in fact i probably should learn how to operate that washing machine of mine.... |
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Dec 21 2007, 05:57 PM
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QUOTE(Reuben @ Dec 21 2007, 03:54 PM) Means i have not used this particular one b4 lolx!!.... This post has been edited by MR_alien: Dec 21 2007, 05:58 PM |
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Dec 24 2007, 04:52 PM
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QUOTE(PeeNut @ Dec 24 2007, 09:49 AM) For my thinking, I dun mind my gf not cooking or housewife or anything. As long as she love me and I love her. Most important is she can tolerate with me and have some sex when we are free or I might needed. thn you're a good husband!!!I use to cook for my gf few times, and I'm happy with it. I use to take care of my gf, clean her room, fix her pc, fold and keep her cloth, cook for her, wash the plate and bowl sometimes, pamper her, help her carry stuff, and lots more. |
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