i level 40.. where i can learn ride? i playing blood elf.. i can ride a wolf?

Go to your race's main city (Silvermoon) and you can look for the mount trainer. To ride the mounts of other races, you have to be exalted with them first. For example, to ride wolves, have to be exalted with Ogrimmar I believe. Easiest way is to reach lvl 51+, play AV, AB and WSG 30 times each (total of 90 times) or till you accumulate 30 medals from each of these BG, and at level 60, learn epic mount riding and buy the AV wolf mount.

If you are a paladin, don't forget to do the quest for a free mount at lv 40.

30medals from AV,WSG n AB are for pvp mount ( black war kodo, black war raptor etc) not av mount

My sentence wasn't clear. It's 2 part; earn 90 medals to buy commander's mount or exalted with frostwolf for av mount. Faster than grinding rep unless you have all the cloth available and done all the quests for that faction.