Have some dignity girl! No point crying over spilt milk. If he does not appreciate you, find someone who will!

Yeah, good point. no need to cry & no need to be sad just because he wants to break off. yeah I know it's easier said than done (I've been through this) but try to overcome it. Overtime maybe you'll feel better.

One thing though, after he broke off with you, try to avoid seeing him whether intentionally or not. your wound & sadness will probably hard to heal if this happens.

break up definitely!!!!!!!!don't waste your time, if he wanna break up so badly, then leave him. 3 times asking for break up proved that he doesn't love u anymore............(because i tried it before)

if the word asking more than 5times???? but asking among few year once
We have been togeter for 7years...
and i cant believe he still asking me............

am i to stuupid or my patient is good enough
feel tired liao...
intention to DUMP him liao
huh.......

This post has been edited by Lena314: Feb 7 2008, 08:58 PM

What's the point to stay if he say break off??
Is a funny question!

Somemore he say break off for 3 times??

sometime ... its sad to hear this, i think, cherish the moments wif partner... and find way to make bond stronger

1.) Meet him FACE to FACE...
2.) Ask him for an reason / explaination for breaking up...
3.) Depend on the reason he give lor...
4.) If he hurts u with the reason..just SLAP him n walk off...u will feel better..

LEAVE him lah..not worth to cry n be sad for that guy...

i think its no use to continue a relationship if either party has no more feelings towards his spouse...it would be a waste of time
so make sure that he's serious about it (not because he's angry over certain small matter) and just let go...
there are plenty of opportunities out there

when one of the couple says need a break..then that's not a good sign..break..but not leave..not exactly stay..but take this break time to think what u urself really want..if he never comes back..move on..if he does and u still love him..then continue..but if u realise not worth it..it's time to find new bf

that 2 words will be very very hurtful..if he really says tat,just leave him and move on..cz it indicates THE END of yr relationship right..

short break? its just a less harsh way of saying u wanna break up and end the relationship

When a guy say break up, better dun beg him back. Move forward. No point crying and begging as he will never appreciate you again in the future.

Talk is cheap

Please don't simply say "break up", it is easy to say, when real thing happen, you know the pain. I never say this since we already 11 years.

if lame excuses,
break!
jia you!
ladies recently dont rely on guys anymore.
or maybe show him u're better off w/o him!

hi, i have same experience with u.
my ex asked to break off more than 2 times, but i m rejected. but, things went wrong after start yelling break off.
he no longer take initiative to call me, sms me. even chatting in the phone oso sound like so boring and not interested to entertain u.
when times went by, i start became to let him go.
cz i knew that he no longer love u, no more care u. the sweet moment will be a memory.

jz dun tink that u only get hurt. it will leads u to more hurt feeling.
so think positively, your life wont become dull and grey after losing him.

cz now i hav a bf who is really sayang me n love me.

hope u can pass through tis moment. n start a new life. ^^

u bored him ..........

Since last yr's thread, shud be break off dy gua? @.@

haha..we wait TS to come and clafiry..who knows she already change few bf dee..

Ermmmmmmmmmmm.......
Break better....
Since he ask for it for 3 times,
its look like he very serious jor!
Dun ask the reason bcoz every reason u ask oso useless....
sure he will not tell u the true reason......
if he tell u the true oso u will be hurt again..
so no reason u wan to knw.........
leave him like that and start a new life.......
sure he will have a scar in his heart.....
And keep asking...... Y my gf does not ask the reason???????
And leave me like that? Make him thinking of u all the way although break...
Its a punishment for him oso.......