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 If bf say to break off, should i stay or leave?, I need opinion asap!! Tq.

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vanilasky
post Dec 5 2007, 02:35 PM

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ya, just walk away... dont stay there else he will make use of you only lah
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post Dec 5 2007, 02:57 PM

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all have nice and usefull opinions!!cheers!!! rclxms.gif good luck
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post Dec 5 2007, 04:27 PM

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jus ditch him...ur better off without someone who kinda make u into a lost person...life is all abt new opportunity..wen another door close, theres another door open.
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post Dec 5 2007, 04:47 PM

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QUOTE(moonshine @ Dec 5 2007, 12:33 AM)
I also dunno the reason. Perhaps he din love me anymore. If not, how come he wanna to break?
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i agree with them.....Just break off with him....no point still be together......there is others to be selected........included me(Still single and available) icon_idea.gif
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post Dec 5 2007, 08:28 PM

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QUOTE(moonshine @ Dec 5 2007, 12:20 AM)
To whom may concern,

I need some useful opinion. Pls help.
If bf wanna break off, how should i do??
I think this is a third time!! Why only me get hurt??
Keep staying, will be continue get hurt??
O just leave to start a new life??

如果我還一直深愛著你...你是否還會待在我身邊?
如果我還一直在乎著你...你是否會再多看我一眼?
是否我已不存在了...你才感覺的到我的離開?
是否我已離開了....你才感覺的到我對你的好?
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that is not enough details to describe the situation...
if there's a heat quarrel & he say wanna break up...
i can say you should stay... coz emotion sometime blur the judgement...
but if you both were normal & he just send you this message...
IMHO, dump him.

anyway,
it's better to call him up, meet up, sit down & have a real conversation...
it's really irresponsible for him not telling you the reason behind the break up...
try understanding both his & yours personal values... misunderstandings and conflicts happen when your values conflict with those of others and when expectations are not met.

and please... take away your pride & ego when you talk about the break up...
coz it only end up in argument...
relationships may come and go but your self respect is everlasting...
and remember it is better to be happy than to be right.
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post Dec 5 2007, 11:50 PM

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if stay,you'll get hurt eventually....
leave,its hard for you at first,but when the time passed,you'll know your decision is rite smile.gif
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post Dec 6 2007, 10:36 AM

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10s to all opinions/advices. Really 10s. I will think over them. It's really hard for me to leave due to certain reason.
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post Dec 6 2007, 10:54 AM

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staying for sex is it?
then keep him as fren-buddy for your own future benefit.

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post Dec 6 2007, 11:03 AM

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just walk away dear,,,lots of guys queueing wub.gif
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post Dec 6 2007, 01:19 PM

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如果我還一直深愛著你...你是否還會待在我身邊?
不会,因为我己感到厌倦.

如果我還一直在乎著你...你是否會再多看我一眼?
不会,请你吃自己

是否我已不存在了...你才感覺的到我的離開?
不会,因为我已当你透明.

是否我已離開了....你才感覺的到我對你的好?
不会,因为我会找个比你好十倍.
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post Dec 6 2007, 05:00 PM

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QUOTE(moonshine @ Dec 5 2007, 12:20 AM)
To whom may concern,

I need some useful opinion. Pls help.
If bf wanna break off, how should i do??
I think this is a third time!! Why only me get hurt??
Keep staying, will be continue get hurt??
O just leave to start a new life??

如果我還一直深愛著你...你是否還會待在我身邊?
如果我還一直在乎著你...你是否會再多看我一眼?
是否我已不存在了...你才感覺的到我的離開?
是否我已離開了....你才感覺的到我對你的好?
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There is no rite or wrong, you must ask yourself if he is worth it.
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post Dec 8 2007, 01:32 AM

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u know the answer...just be strong...and 加油!
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post Dec 8 2007, 09:45 AM

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beg him to stay with you.
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post Dec 8 2007, 05:56 PM

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QUOTE(eimir.com @ Dec 6 2007, 10:54 AM)
staying for sex is it?
then keep him as fren-buddy for your own future benefit.
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Haha.. funny la u. Sure u havent gone out with many girls. Their sex drive not like yours la.
To get them stimulated we need to get them into mood by basically talking our heads off for hours. Unlike u and i, tersentuh a bit dat area also can already. haha

Anyway moon sis,
DUMP ur bf. It wont work out. U should only consider strongly if he is ur hubby. But of course if u pregnant then a bit more complicated. But whatever it is better dump him unless u don mind himk having a 2nd wife.
Gd luck

This post has been edited by henryhing: Dec 8 2007, 05:59 PM
evefan1610
post Dec 10 2007, 11:49 AM

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if u still love him...you should stay~^^
i'm always argue with my bf too...
but after said break off...we both also get hurt...
after that we'll try to solve the problem...
now we still together...almost 2 yrs already^^
Good luck to u...
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post Dec 10 2007, 03:04 PM

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just breakup with him if he really wants it.
he'll regret some day [iif u treat him well].
don't be with a guy who don't appreciate or love you. it's not worth.
dinoandi
post Dec 14 2007, 01:04 AM

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Hmm...i do not think that way tho... In fact, he asked for 3 times break up...you should stay! Why? Cuz you stay and REVENGE for what he did to you...take back your pride...dun let your bf bully you in that way..perhaps he has a new girl hiding *no offense* but stay and be the nicest girl ever to him..don't bother anything he does outside...when he realizes that you're his type of girl ...then immediately take your bag and leave, plus *throw* all the things he bought for you hard to his face! Ahahahah!
Good idea? ( just kidding!) Just a cheer you up, gurl smile.gif

Have a good day!
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post Dec 14 2007, 01:08 AM

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mayb..he falled on other..
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post Dec 14 2007, 03:30 AM

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IMHO dont stay and its the 3rd times... enough is enough get a better life better BF like me ^^ (kidding for the last part)

anyway your life still long to go can get another one... he say break off just go... the paint will only be there for awhile, what the use to love a guy that dont love you any more?
anyway love your self come first.
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post Dec 14 2007, 01:56 PM

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well, no point to keep someone who doesn't love u, right? just move on dear smile.gif

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