To whom may concern,

I need some useful opinion. Pls help.
If bf wanna break off, how should i do??
I think this is a third time!! Why only me get hurt??
Keep staying, will be continue get hurt??
O just leave to start a new life??

如果我還一直深愛著你...你是否還會待在我身邊?
如果我還一直在乎著你...你是否會再多看我一眼?
是否我已不存在了...你才感覺的到我的離開?
是否我已離開了....你才感覺的到我對你的好?

This post has been edited by moonshine: Dec 5 2007, 12:31 AM

what is the reason of him wanna break up???...must hv a reason

if lame reason, beat him then leave him..

I also dunno the reason. Perhaps he din love me anymore. If not, how come he wanna to break?

just leave. never go back

Not ngam then find another 1 lorr.. It's better to leave now then him pretending to love you but inside him thinking or someone else. Haihh.... it hurts though especially if you still have feelings...

How old r u anyway?
Take the break with a pinch of salt. Life lesson learnt, can't expect first love straight away go for marriage.

I broke relationship 3 times only then I found my wife. Even that oso already 23 yrs old. Sometimes some things are just not destined to be yours. I believe in destiny....so just accept what destiny gave you. One day you'll find your life partner.

ask him why he want to break.. if u cannot accept the reason.. kick him, then leave.. serious..

if he break you up without you knowing reason, you are just a stupid girl who deserves it

go find out what is the reason for it

break!!i support u...anyway,i just break with my gf too....my gf is same with ur bf!!always just say wana break..i fed up!

Hmmm, wrong section for me. But if its the 3rd time already and its clearly not working out, then I think it'd be best to consider parting ways. Should really consider ways to make the relationship go on though, unless he clearly doesn't care at all.

Sometimes the other might be hurt too, just that you can't see it. So don't always jump to conclusions. You would have to decide for yourself if you will still get hurt or not if you stayed, since no one knows the situation you are in. And sometimes a little compromise is needed to keep the relationship going. Just consider the decisions with a clear mind, like: have you been together for a long time? Then you might want to work things out. Is he doing anything to keep the relationship going? If not, then it would obviously be best to part ways. An unwilling partner = bad relationship.

If in the case that you do decide to part ways, then be warned that the beginning can be a little hard. But with some perseverence and support from friends/families, you'll be back on track again ^^.

Hope this helps! Good luck!

break up and go on with ur life ..................

since this is 3rd time he said that , perhaps u should leave him and maybe set a short time limit for him if u really really love him . if some moments after that only he realized ur importance to him and ask u to go back , thts up 2 urself . if he didnt bother anymore after that , why bother him ? go find another better one . u deserved a better one for sure : )

This post has been edited by fir3f0x: Dec 5 2007, 12:55 AM

try date with radar, he love to know ya maybe.. ahaha..

Leave and start a new life.
Do not let others who do not appreciate you, step all over your worthiness.
Remember to give him the middle finger before you step out the door.

agree.. Just leave the boy and come beside me.. (just kidding)

Do u think just left 1 boy in this world? You can find more better than ur ex-boy friend..

If u think you can, u can..

if he doesn't love u anymore...just leave him....there is no point of staying with him anymore
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This post has been edited by MR_alien: Dec 5 2007, 12:28 PM

leave him, if he loves u , he will be back. give ur self a chance to love others n give others a chance to love u. always remember : u deserve a better person who loves u more...

cheer up!!! life goes on...

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Any reason u think u should stay?

So have they come back from the trip already?
Great sex they have there?

the reason is only important if you must know it. often ppl will want to know what went wrong, not to fix it but to avoid the same mistakes next time. he probably didn't explain himself did he? when you and your (ex) got back together the previous time were you just hanging on to the relationship? was it stagnating or sinking?

if this seems the worst thing right now, when you look back a few years you'd feel different about it. take it as part of living. there are no successes without failures. have no fear.

perhaps it is time to move on to, as you put it, a new life.