I'm having a foreign bf who are going back to his home very soon and may not be coming back. Im really sad.
Anyone can tell me what to do?
To keep long distance relationship or just let him go?

To be honest i'm not ready to let him go, but another problem we are having now are different religion and culture which our parents will not allow us to be together. And we have been together for quite some time but never tell our parents.

I'm having a really hard time now thinkin about all this things. Don't know what to do except crying all the time.
Someone please help!!

he's muslim and i am achinese.
Not a problem for me but for both of our parents.

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Added on November 20, 2007, 12:25 amHe can't work here, there is not future prospect for him to be working here.
His family needs him to go back, and he has brothers n sis to takecare, which is their culture there.

i can't just ignore my parents, not letting them know and going with him, but i can't imagine how sad they areif they know this. They are very traditional minded and do not accept all this.

This post has been edited by alwaz4va: Nov 20 2007, 12:25 AM

everyone is telling me to give up. i know it is for my good, but its really hard for me just to say bye and forget everything, especially for me this is not because we argued or not we both get freak up about each other, its because others perception that we have to face if we do not do so, which made me not willing to accept all this.

this is really sad. how you get through everything after that?

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Added on December 5, 2007, 7:33 pmu know im having the same thinking of you initially while all my friends tell me not to even start this kind of relationship. But at last i tell them i'll be regret if i didnt even start and just give up. why i have to care what other people think after all? if that is so, i have to marry to the person who others agree or think it is what called 'Normal'

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Added on December 5, 2007, 7:34 pmthank you

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Added on December 5, 2007, 7:35 pmdump her?? hello i'm a girl and that is my bf..

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Added on December 5, 2007, 7:36 pmwhy you can be so sure even before you try it out?

This post has been edited by alwaz4va: Dec 5 2007, 07:36 PM

sometimes i think i shd follow what i want, sometimes i think i shd not be that selfish not to care that my parents will be really hurt deeply. That make things become more complicated.
I didnt tell much about this to him actually, but i have decided to ask him out to make everything clear the day before he leave. I hope everything will be really fine.

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Added on December 6, 2007, 1:27 pmYa even though i know at last, highly possible that we will just end up like that when he left, but at least i do not regret. That is what i used to tell myself (I hope this is what people always say that i am just lying to myself to the truth) beause i dont actually think i can forget everything easily. So my friends think that im stupid, since im suffering myself.

But since at last i will still be the one who follow what my parents want, so sometimes i allow myself to be a little selfish . Maybe in between love and parents, i choose the latter.

This post has been edited by alwaz4va: Dec 6 2007, 01:27 PM

What is the relevance of whether he is rich or not?