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amgh
post Dec 16 2025, 12:10 PM

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Yes, pure friendship between a male and female can and does exist. I have a few women who are my best friends.
No other intimate thoughts come to our minds. Pure friendship. We even help to each other with our separate love interest during college years. One of my girlfriend's lover at that time even trusted me to take care of her at the college. They were having long distance relationship, and she came to study from another province. Even her parents were relieved that I as a friend able to watch over her smile.gif

Just like best friends amongst guys or girls.

Of course, such relationship can only exist with open-minded people. Narrow minded ones can't accept or unable to accept such a situation.
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post Dec 16 2025, 12:14 PM

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QUOTE(amgh @ Dec 16 2025, 12:10 PM)
Yes, pure friendship between a male and female can and does exist. I have a few women who are my best friends.
No other intimate thoughts come to our minds. Pure friendship. We even help to each other with our separate love interest during college years. One of my girlfriend's lover at that time even trusted me to take care of her at the college. They were having long distance relationship, and she came to study from another province. Even her parents were relieved that I as a friend able to watch over her smile.gif

Just like best friends amongst guys or girls.

Of course, such relationship can only exist with open-minded people. Narrow minded ones can't accept or unable to accept such a situation.
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Province? U study in china? She from china?

Maybe she's not your type that's why.
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post Dec 16 2025, 12:16 PM

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Yes, until they puck each other. party.gif
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post Dec 16 2025, 12:17 PM

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QUOTE(Ukeke @ Dec 16 2025, 12:36 PM)
Are u guys still friend after that
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Before got married become fake buddy

After I got married no
TSUkeke
post Dec 16 2025, 12:26 PM

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QUOTE(cuddlybubblyteddy @ Dec 16 2025, 12:17 PM)
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Before got married become fake buddy

After I got married no
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I also same like u, but we not married. We never in contact for 5 years. Now she married but im still available.

I really want to ask her out but dont dare to try
soul78
post Dec 16 2025, 12:31 PM

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the difference lettew...

Amoi: I hope I can be friend with you

Ukeke: I hope I can be friend with your sihamz...
incubus_skj
post Dec 16 2025, 12:33 PM

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Ada. Best buddies. In the end married her
TSUkeke
post Dec 16 2025, 01:09 PM

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QUOTE(incubus_skj @ Dec 16 2025, 12:33 PM)
Ada. Best buddies. In the end married her
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Im asking pure friendship between guy and lady. Your answer is both get married.
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post Dec 16 2025, 01:17 PM

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QUOTE(Ukeke @ Dec 16 2025, 01:26 PM)
I also same like u, but we not married. We never in contact for 5 years. Now she married but im still available.

I really want to ask her out but dont dare to try
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Insaflah. If single can la, sudah berpunya balak, jgn bro
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post Dec 16 2025, 01:25 PM

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QUOTE(cuddlybubblyteddy @ Dec 16 2025, 01:17 PM)
Insaflah. If single can la, sudah berpunya balak, jgn bro
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U now married not even once makan luar?
SUSEfalex
post Dec 16 2025, 01:39 PM

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As FB, yes....
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post Dec 16 2025, 01:51 PM

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very much possible. BUT. theres a lot of "depends".

it really is dependent on the people involved. fwb exists for one level higher. but it definitely IS possible to be just friends.

tho if one side is horny/loves more, then it could be a consolation prize to that friend. i've seen it happen to both sides. its sad but whichever party that wants more knows they cant have more, and have to just accept whatever they can get.

people are selfish and people have ego. sometimes they appear fine and say theyre fine but they could be having strong feelings of longing on the inside but repress it. then again, many people do that. it is normal. a ton of guys like chaewon but they know they are practically non existent to her.

if you have a friend (opposite sex) that wants to be a friend and you're ok with it. just accept. all this "hidden feelings" are the opposite side's to bear. you should not worry about it. IF the other side cant bear it. they will find ways to break the relationship or stay a part. and if they dont. its on them.

i have many friends of opposite gender i would bang but am fine with being friends with them. i know some friends of opposite gender that wanna bang me but i m not into them. it works both ways. as long as no one crosses the line. be friends with everyone you dont mind being friends with. dont over think things.
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post Dec 16 2025, 01:51 PM

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QUOTE(Efalex @ Dec 16 2025, 01:39 PM)
As FB, yes....
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Fb meaning got involves sex. This is not friendship
amgh
post Dec 16 2025, 01:54 PM

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QUOTE(Ukeke @ Dec 16 2025, 12:14 PM)
Province? U study in china? She from china?

Maybe she's not your type that's why.
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This is what I meant by open-minded. We didn't get together to become lovers in the first place. So, type doesn't come in here. We were and always wanted to be friends just from the beginning. We both have our own lives now, but we're still best friends.
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post Dec 16 2025, 04:32 PM

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QUOTE(Ukeke @ Dec 16 2025, 02:25 PM)
U now married not even once makan luar?
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Never

I use brain, not dick to think
TSUkeke
post Dec 16 2025, 10:47 PM

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QUOTE(cuddlybubblyteddy @ Dec 16 2025, 04:32 PM)
Never

I use brain, not dick to think
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