Recently saw 4 of my friends married and pregnant summore, 3 marries viet mois, 1 thai moi.
Feel very strange when going out with them sometimes, totally can't communicate as they are uneducated (suspect they knew them from some bars probably).

Also 1 of the vietmoi suddenly random throw tantrum cause other girls in group (including my own wife) don't want to speak to them since nothing to speak about. So the vietmoi thought we all looking down on her and want to prove her point by trying to pay for lunch for all. Damn what a scene, like some farmer kampung gal.

The thai moi more caring, when go clubbing and i drank too much, da thai moi will pat2 my back help me puke and even take tissues and all. Not too bad.

They all running not bad businesses and i don't see how these mois can contribute anything to their lives.
I also used to frequent some places like Mexico, ktvs etc and have a lot of mois but all these is for banging je. They try ask me go out eat with their friends (maybe want to waterfish or show off i dont know), but never go since i also know they kenot even be on friends level, only suitable bring nearby hotel bang je.

So, why these people marries these random mois ah? i also dont dare to ask ma friends so asking /k.
Sekian.

This post has been edited by babykon101: Dec 9 2025, 09:57 AM

got these meh? i see my friends around no indomoi and chinamoi as gf/ waifu

Finding thai/viet mois are the worst for emotional support lol. Like my post above, because the class between us and those working mois far too much, hence anything you say they won't understand. E.g. say work very stress, or have this issue at work etc, they won't be able to help or advise lol cause they never work corporate oso.

hmm, i know how much they profiting roughly from their business.
Don't think they will have issue finding local mois nor nobody ask them find those high-maintenance ones.

Just think they could have done so much better in both life and career if they have a local moi that can help to understand and help with their burden.

I think if you are dating a local gf, she would probably help boost your life satisfaction / career as she can help to understand and help with any of your burdens. Imagine if you saw some health articles and talk to her about eh medical advances, cells, she probaly won't be able to relate with you.

So, not being able to relate is quite a big disadvantage i would list. But that's my POV la.

if Taiwan moi diff story - most would be educated and will be able to relate.
Russian/Ukraine not sure - probably won't relate as well as culture is too far apart.

true, but i like to discuss things

i think not true. it comes with age. When i was early-20s yes impossible to discuss problems with GFs. But late-20s not an issue and can talk until very deep and serious topics since approaching marrying age at 30, like investments, schools for kids, medical advances, reits / stocks.

Maybe i haven't dated any foreign mois post 30 la, not sure if any post 30s foreign mois still childish or can talk serious topics like investments and stuff.

don't think this is an issue. All graduated university and 1 in MNC, so it's very strange. usually i see my other colleagues all have normal wife/ gf.

These are the exceptions. If can speak mandarin and do business they are probably normal educated Thai women like I also have Thai colleagues in my company's Thailand branch rather than thaimois already. One of the top scorers in my uni is also a Thai person.

Excuse me but perhaps i should clarified - thai mois meaning those they get from ktv/ bars/ etc.

This post has been edited by babykon101: Dec 9 2025, 01:04 PM

Wah my wife did all that in the first paragraph, did they all learn it from XHS or Sth. But 2nd paragraph haven’t happened yet. Luckily.

You can but you choose not to. Mois is kenot.

All da bes bro.

Bro that one is not vietmoi already. It’s like normal viets, I also have one uni-mate last time from Vietnam, damn good at coding end up joining Facebook as fresh grad.

Bro that one is not vietmoi already. It’s like normal viets, I also have one uni-mate last time from Vietnam, damn good at coding end up joining Facebook as fresh grad.

Cause normally M doesn’t find these thaimois and all. Usually only Type C je.

Actually I’ve never seen any of my M friends / colleagues either vietmois or thaimois.

But you will dream of your beh2 crying and calling out for you.

Nice perspective. Kinda ma thought. Maybe want to play piano to the cow.

World is indeed infinite possibilities. Also have friends also bring thai/ viet to clubs before. All classmates from Sunway/ Taylor though. The way that our classmates looks at those gals are not of jealously but like....

Good on you. The highest scorer back in my uni time is a viet. End up working for Facebook as a fresh grad, so far that's the only person i've known throughout my long career that ever worked for FB as a programmer.

This post has been edited by babykon101: Yesterday, 03:02 PM