this one quite ok. u wanna know my mum logic?

I invited my mum for dinner. She say ok. Told her my car only fit 5 people, my fam sudah 4 people including me. cannot fit her and my stepfather. So i told her i will send my driver to pick her up, send her to the makan place, then send her back. She say ok. Night went well, dinner as usual. sudah send home, she rant to my sisters that i send stranger to pick her up. My sister belip her and now all hitam face.

Another one :
For my son birthday, we rented a villa for 2 nights. I flew her from sarawak, then asked my sister to pick her up and terus go villa. everything ok, until we went back. Later she complaint to my sisters my wife jahat, i jahat, we dont want to layan her. Just because my wife asked her to rest while she is cooking. My wife already brought 2 friends to help her to cook. All my mum have to do is sit and play with grandchildren, but she so busy with her phone.

A lot more incident. Also, she favored my son than my daughter. She always complaint to my sisters i did not give her money monthly. Yes true, I did not give her monthly, but i give her huge amount of money during christmas, usually five figure. Much more than my sisters gave her monthly.

She also complaint I am a failure, because i am a contractor while my sister is engineer and another one is a specialist doctor.

She also complaint I have too much tattoo.

She also complaint I am heathen for not donating to her church.

All of these, she never complaint to me but to my sisters. I still meet my mum for the sake of meeting her, maybe once in two months. But it had been years since i met my sisters, because they believe her.

We cant choose our parents, but we can choose to distant ourselves from there.

So in your case, your mum is way better than mine.

Oh also, she failed to mentioned that in her 30s, she gila clubbing and drinking like crazy, I am the one carry her to toilet and hold her hair while she vomitted

She always like that or only happened recently? Early signs of dementia maybe?

Whatever. Just enjoy the moment while parents still around.

It's all your fault! Most women are like that mah.

You don't know meh?

Mother, wife etc...they say one thing...then they wish for another.

It's like they are thinking...you don't know meh?

Still need to ask?

She is tired and hungry, hence emo

Weirdly what TS said reminded me of my own mom, and yes she later on had Alzheimer. TS please love your mom when you still can

edit: eh Salah quote... Trying quote comment about Alzheimer

u bodo, i can understand that ur still young, cant understand wiminz, but ur dad? lol, padan muka.

princess disease works on all age group lol

just buy her food and let it go bro. not worth the headache, trust me. U buy saja food, she eat or dont eat, its her problem now.

I dealt with my mum shenanigan for so long I dont give shit anymore.

This. But buy also might still be a problem.

Bought coffee for mum but I warn her "we are 5mins walk from zoo we going. High chance cannot bring in so need finish before masuk". She say ok.
Reached entrance guard ask to buang, she bitch about it for next 10mins. I just walked fast fast ahead go see cute animal instead of listening to that shit.

Another time ask if ok to walk 10mins to restaurant parking paid here, if not ok we drive over so no need walk. She say ok. After 2mins walking keep bitching about so far.
This was overseas and I wanted to walk to enjoy the weather and surroundings on a fine day.

Those with toxic family members will understand no matter what you do, they will find shit to give you headache about. Just need to grow thick skin and ignore or sendiri will go gila.

Sometimes need to make hard choices for self preservation. If you go gila you might bring your other relationships down the longkang with you.

I found myself getting easily triggered at 1 point (mum fighting cancer years ago), at work and towards gf. Seriously not worth it. Lucky gf pointed out and helped me grow thicker skin.

no matter how crazy she is, you will miss her when she is gone.

Dont ask how unker know.....