This. But buy also might still be a problem.

Bought coffee for mum but I warn her "we are 5mins walk from zoo we going. High chance cannot bring in so need finish before masuk". She say ok.
Reached entrance guard ask to buang, she bitch about it for next 10mins. I just walked fast fast ahead go see cute animal instead of listening to that shit.

Another time ask if ok to walk 10mins to restaurant parking paid here, if not ok we drive over so no need walk. She say ok. After 2mins walking keep bitching about so far.
This was overseas and I wanted to walk to enjoy the weather and surroundings on a fine day.

Those with toxic family members will understand no matter what you do, they will find shit to give you headache about. Just need to grow thick skin and ignore or sendiri will go gila.

Yes they do. 100%. I am always the black sheep since last time. My exam grade not as good as theirs, I am not active as them, I dont have any scholarship, just PTPTN. So whatever shit my mum say about me, it aligned with their expectation of me.

At this point I just dont care. I even put distance between my family (wife and kids) with them. No point being close to people that are toxic, even own family.