I do notice that girl in social media like in Facebook cari jodoh even already reach 30+ (which is late already for women) but still criteria like guy 180cm, provider, stable etc.

Wow.
Now so hard lerh.

Last time my parent when married got nothing.
Slowly climb up together in their marriage life untill finally have comfortable and financially stable life.

But now some girl I see want find partner must financial stable first also must 180cm above.

No wonder many not married yet.
Men scare if they cant fulfill women expectations.
Women want to find men that can tick all the box like k drama.

I do feel jealous with people in 70s , 80s , 90s where people get married and hustle together.