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Coz men age like fine wine and women age like milk.

Dont need to be super rich.

Financially stable, yes. Maybe T20 income, but super rich is not necessary.

The guy overall need to be well put together. Mature, confident, successful. The physical.aspect is also important like well groomed, healthy.

Women are attracted to these things regardless of age.

And dating a much younger woman is one thing. Thats the easier part. Keeping is probably the more challenging part.
Coz men age like fine wine and women age like milk.

actually can keep

if you don't want kids, no issue lah

but if you want kids, imagine you retire at 60 your wife still 40

u expect her to take care of whole family with her pay?

unless you are businessman or can work after 60

I read the other thread about dating younger men.

I am 40 this year and as most of you might know, I am divorced.

I do get attracted mainly to women in 20s and early 30s.

However my peers are calling me weird.

My mom keep asking if I and a 24 year old girl can be compatible or not.

My best friend keep telling me it is an anomaly to have a 20+ girl date a 40 year old guy.

I don't find my whole taste a problem but seems like my peers are making me doubt my choices.

Why can't a 40 year old man date 20+ women?

TS

There is in a big difference between early 20s and early 30s women. The target market you are looking at.

Early 20s women tend to want to have more fun. If they are dating a 40s guy, its to fund their fun lifestyle because their income is very low. In other words, they want a sugardaddy if dating a 40s guy.

Early 30s women tend to be more ready to settle down. They already had their fun life. Their income now is better than 5 to 10 years before, so they are more financially independent. If they date a 40 yo guy, its less likely expecting a sugardaddy but still will.like a provider guy.
Now there are still early 30s girls who looks a sugardaddy but these probably go to a 50s or even older guy.

I think for a 40 yo like TS, the sweet spot is late 20s.