Oh wait, if you have been together with 7 years and still hasn't communicated properly, you have part of the responsibilities..

being married will not solve the entire problem if you and her is not aligned with core values

If she's insecure, it's either her trauma hasn't been released and it's not your entire responsibility to solve her issue. But you can guide her by being more open about your communication

If you keep dragging or refused to do so, then you're likely to be traumatized also

Seek professional helps if both of you still refuse to engage with this matter

we as forummers cannot give you an exact answer. Because we are not you, and only yourself is aware with your past experiences, belief system and emotions

there are people who just instant "ignite" flame when facing a very small matter. My parent is still having this issue eventhough they're already in their 60s

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Oct 7 2025, 03:15 PM