Big.no, it's alright from time to time give the kids a treat. But there must be a limit.

Ask your kid why does.he need latest iPhone for? To play games? A budget or mid range smart phone will do. To show off? Time to give them a lecture on how.lucky they are & that plenty of less fortunate people can't even feed their family because can't find jobs.

If you give them all the latest high end toys/gadgets without them even making a effort. You are.not.only spoiling them but ruining their adult life.

How are they going survice on a entry level job with average pay when they are so used to the high life?

Just last week got a ktard post in serious kopitiam where 22 year old girl earn 10k working for syndicate. Then try to find legit.job not happy with the salary cause can't meet her monthly commitments. Sure after a while she go back work for the syndicate because addicted to highend lifestyle.

Teach your kid to be grateful & live a moderate lifestyle.even when make it big. Otherwise will become like jamban, never safe money. Spend like there's no tomorrow, now can't even pay Teresa her dues & hide from bailiff plus is a nobody now. Somemore got young kid.

This post has been edited by arkasi: Sep 24 2025, 09:11 PM

Ah, the good old.days where we either study hard or help out with the chores & during birthday get game console considered a big thing. Now kids want i phone pulak,yeesh

I guarantee u bro when the girl reaches late teens the mother that time will no longer say poor daughter suffer but will be cursing her for being charsiew.

My old neighbourhood divorcee the eldest daughter after finish school never further studies or get a job. Whole.day main muzik watch movies & hanging out with the other dropouts. Mother scream at her to get a job & even father also tell her to.

Problem is she is spoiled she wear expensive shoes cost rm1000. Mid 90's entry pay is 1200 i think. At home got maid so where she can tahan 9-5job or get married become housewife. She got horrible attitude also.