Anyone here knows how to handle domestic Violence? Right now am bringing my sister to meet inspector at IPD so she can build a case. My sister wants to aim for divorce (Malay muslim family). Also they have a dotter together.

She kena pukul before but we don't have concrete evidence. This time she got punched right in front of my mom in our home. I was at work.

Anyone pernah experience or know about this how to handle it, etc. I may not reply since lately I forgot about Lowyat but this time I need more input to successfully get what we want out of this mishap.

Already went to get clinical report.

Am taking note. We went to private dulu tadi. Oo... Govt punya letter has more power to it, didn't think it applies to police case as well. Ty for the input!

Last time it already happens but no evidence even to us we can't really say since orang luar. This time happen in front of my mom's eyes. There is no more chance or sangka baik to give. As for photo I am trying to get her to snap photos. Last time she probably got convinced by the dude to delete it...

Sister wants to aim for divorce and I want it to go this way. The dude already is brave enough to punch my sister info front of my mom in our home. I was at work. Dude's a coward as a coward can be. If can send him to jail is good enough. I am planning to get my sister to ask for restraining order so he can't make excuse to see his child. His punch almost had the child fall down.

I have no word to say to him since he already leeches at our home and not contribute anything. Me and my mom contribute to take care of the baby. All that's left is rage to be converted to proper legal action to rid of him from our life.


Picture tryna working on it. Susah deal with people kena DV. I hope this one case can get us as much as possible to build a strong case to cut him off.

Okay. I will take note. Hope we can get to there.


Dude is so poor I don't think he knows what EPF is. His wealth doesn't really matter. If we can get it, it's a plus. Our family safety comes first.

Thank you all for the support you shown. Most of the advice you guys gave are solid. Honestly I can give input to my sis and try to push her to the correct path. Now she is making report at IPD. I am waiting for her. I will surely update later.

Damn. This is another sound advice. This is one of thing I scared will happen. It becomes u say I say he say kinda thing.

Kan. Punching in front of my mom... Really dare to do it.

Thanks, man. Hopefully this will go well.

Not sure you are here to help or cari pasal. Thank you but whatever I post in kopitiam is not in discussion in this serious kopitiam.

Yeah, me too. I take suka wife beater. I wanted to do it for a while but always delay due to being busy with work. Quite sien on my part.

He will just deflect and say my sister is crazy. He's done this before when we talked to him last time. I don't want to talk to someone who I don't like. He didn't marry my sister properly is the issue. Marry in Thailand. Of course he doesn't get the respect a normal person gets when married into the family.

The dude is a whoremonger. They fight because of this. Hopefully won't reach level of death. Violence already ada. Tryna break the cycle here.

Update 1: We done with making a police report. It takes so long at the IPD. The police said for us to go the guys house and get my sister's document and the dude said "go ahead, I'm not at home tonight". This sounds very suspicious and could be a trap since we do not know what he is capable of. So I'm thinking of getting a police escort to ransack the house and get my sister's documents. The bastard's house is in the middle of some old perkampungan and his house is quite hidden from others. Not a safe place to be at at night, knowing that he is a hostile unit now.

Thing is they fought because my sister caught him chatting with a woman on phone then he wanted to use her car to go find that woman. At least that's what I heard.

They got married in Thailand. We don't even know who is his family. It's this kind of thing u see in family drama this one sibling keep giving problem. If my sister insist on being in this situation, I will rid of her from my house.

Geran rumah can be replaced? She bought a house back then and the document is there too.