Trying to get perspective of people around here when it comes to this.
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Anyone seeing a psychiatrist/psychologist here?, I'm just curious since I'm the same.
Anyone seeing a psychiatrist/psychologist here?, I'm just curious since I'm the same.
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Aug 29 2025, 09:13 PM, updated 4 months ago
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Trying to get perspective of people around here when it comes to this.
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Aug 29 2025, 10:16 PM
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QUOTE(nelson969 @ Aug 29 2025, 10:08 PM) wait till they hit u with this question I'm just asking a legit question man. You want to discount their services as money making from asking questions only, then that's up to you.-what do u want ? -what is your goal ? -what do u expect from the result ? then pay money then follow up again x365 days repeat Pubgamesrhard, jimbet1337, and 2 others liked this post
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Aug 30 2025, 07:24 AM
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QUOTE(mini orchard @ Aug 30 2025, 05:21 AM) Brother, I just went last week. I don't have to think when I already know what's bothering me, it's just a matter of having a psychiatrist tell that to my face instead of me deliberating with myself until the day I die. |
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Aug 30 2025, 07:26 AM
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QUOTE(not.a.dupe @ Aug 30 2025, 12:26 AM) How long have you been in therapy and how has it been helping you? Meds are subject to invididual experiences so the effectiveness can vary wildly from person to person.I foresee myself at this for at least a few years. |
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Aug 30 2025, 07:46 AM
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QUOTE(galkelly @ Aug 29 2025, 11:26 PM) https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5537388Even without that, I've already scheduled my appointment with one and went last week. |
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Aug 30 2025, 10:58 AM
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Aug 30 2025, 11:07 AM
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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Aug 30 2025, 10:58 AM) How long in advance to book for sessions? Looking to maximise my coverage this year in case I'm not good enough to be retained next year with all my bungle ups.It's severely crippling my personal life, unable to think critically which resulted in me getting scammed to hell and bearing this guilt on my own. Family members is family members, but I don't want to share anything with my partner until I get something concrete back from the banks. Doesn't help that you are already pointed out as being more useless than trash. I guess if there are people who have it alone, they feel the crushing weight all the same, but at least they don't bother others. |
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Aug 30 2025, 11:09 AM
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QUOTE(redframelowyat @ Aug 30 2025, 11:07 AM) Dear TS, As long as I have this private coverage, I'll use it to the max before I consider gov hospital. Yeah it's affecting my appetite a lot actually.i don't know about other hospital but government hospital shah alam the got psychiatric unit. if money is an issue for you getting treatment, please go this hospital. mental health & stress will affect your body. my colleague even need to early retirement due to kidney failure & need to do dialysis Thanks for letting me know. This post has been edited by TsubakiKira: Aug 30 2025, 11:09 AM |
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Aug 30 2025, 11:40 AM
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QUOTE(Steponlego @ Aug 30 2025, 11:35 AM) Excluding the referral letter you have to bring, probably up to 1 month waiting? Depends on which hospital you went. I think they did quick checkup on you before deciding if you can wait or need immediate attention. I mean if it's 3 patients who are on the same wavelength, can't fault the gov actually. And yes from my experience, gov hospital will reschedule to next month. But same for private also ya.Sometimes the clinic is so jam packed, they put 3 patients in one consultation room. The doctors looked so overworked feels like I'm not the actual patient in the room. This was my experience in large hospital in KL. Just last month I went to the counter thinking I could change appointment date by 1 week on September, they said the earliest date I could move to will be on mid November. Back then I went to smaller district hospital, there was like probably 5 people waiting. |
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Aug 30 2025, 11:43 AM
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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Aug 30 2025, 11:39 AM) go to any nearby Klinik Kesihatan, see any doctor and request for referral letter to Psychiatry dept in a govt hospital Does it work if I get a referral from private hosp for gov hospital?just say you have mental health issues, depression, suicidal thoughts, etc. They will definitely write you a referral letter. Take the letter to your nearest govt hospital but please check if there is any psychiatry dept in that hospital. Bring the letter to that hospital and make an appointment. |
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Aug 30 2025, 12:39 PM
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Aug 30 2025, 12:42 PM
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QUOTE(lovedota88 @ Aug 30 2025, 10:55 AM) i went sunway hospital for psychiatrist consultation, i have anxiety disorder, every session 30 mins or so. I feel bad for you man. Can I DM for more info on this?every session is like rm500 with prescription of lexapro and xanax just ask how u feeling and tell me how i need to overcome this, which i clearly know i need to overcome and less overthinking but that i unable to do so lol. blahblahblah and there goes my rm500 i think i feel more stress paying rm500 every month for this so i stopped going after 2 sessions. |
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Aug 30 2025, 01:43 PM
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QUOTE(contestchris @ Aug 30 2025, 01:38 PM) You just need to conquer your mind, make it your slave. All of us go through ups and downs. Anxiety and depression are completely normal feelings. OCD, ADD, PTSD and ADHD are completely normal behaviors. Everything you said is completely valid, it's just that it's reached the point where I am in the segment of being "dysfunctional enough" to not function in terms of familial and society's expectations. Can't even remember what i was supposed to do 5 mins ago, consistently failing to cultivate tasks, general lack of motivation and so on so forth.Those who go to physiologist and psychiatrist take the easy way out and get stuck in labels. |
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Aug 30 2025, 06:35 PM
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QUOTE(alwy11 @ Aug 30 2025, 03:47 PM) Agree with what Arkasi and Steponlego shared and it's great that you've "man up" to see either a psychiatrist or psychologist for it. Honestly, don't listen to those advice that say you need to be more positive, have a walk and it'll be fine, toughen up yourself and own your mind kind of nonsense. I'm actually tired of being told that I can do it, I'm still young, I can learn, etc. To me it has always been about finding that elusive motivation to actually get anything done. Intrinsic motivation is insanely difficult for me to picture, what more work towards. Everything that I have ever worked for is either tied to money, or dopamine and that is the truth about myself, which makes me suspect of who I truly am as a human being in turn.I've had depression and later on anxiety with it for 4 years and even got admitted to hospital when it got too serious. I did see a few psychiatrist and psychologist along the way, but only felt at best 60% through a lot of different med combinations cos different ppl react differently to the side effects. My goal that time was to always try to cut off medications asap once I get better. Then I switched to another psychiatrist and got diagnosed that it is probably genetics where my brain chemicals cannot generate enough chemicals like the normal person to be happy, manage stress etc so I need meds to boost it to a healthy level. After getting the right combination of meds, I recovered completely in 3 months but I no longer feel the urge to cut my medications off like last time. Cos now I feel as good as I was back in college like as if no worries, I can handle stress and problems much better and with a clearer mind. I just treat the meds like some high cholesterol meds or diabetes medication only. Depression and anxiety have many types of manifestations and causes. The fact that you acknowledge that you need help and are willing to seek for one is the best decision. People who say why are you so weak etc. probably didn't experience actual depression and anxiety before. When they ask you to be positive or conquer your mind, it's like asking a temporarily handicapped person in the wheelchair to stand and walk straight away. They also need physio before they can stand back up on their own. Sometimes it's fine to just admit we need help at some point in our lives. No need to worry about ego so much. Ego cannot feed us also. Just be patient with the medications, it's quite trial and error one. For me, psychiatrist work better than psychologist but that's also because I don't like CBT work. When the medications begin to work, you'll see things a lot differently and easier. Cos you can't walk if you can't stand. Take it one step at a time. From experience, caffeine makes my mind clear up for a bit. With chicken essence it is a few hours. Relating this to my psych, he told me that taking medication would be like switching to another OS altogether. There is always that stigma of having to disclose your psych history to your employers in Malaysia, and unfortunately I was in a damned if I do and damned if I don't thing. I told them, you can see that with structure in place, I can do a lot better. I can actually perform well at work, and keep myself up with the tasks at hand. Let's just hope that is how they choose to see it. I will not discount CBT but I am in a place where I am too far down in terms of self esteem to even think that I can start correcting my own thoughts in that manner, I would rather stick to the grounding methods to prevent myself from spiralling for now. Thank you so much for hearing me out. |
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Aug 30 2025, 06:49 PM
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QUOTE(KekTart @ Aug 30 2025, 04:09 PM) Meeeeeee I’m seeing psychiatrist in public hospital. When I do stop getting the coverage from private, then gov hospital is the only option for me haha. There is a lot of impulsivity and reactionary behaviors from my end that have come across as rude to many people, including my own family. You can say that it really does affect how they perceive you, and in turn how they choose to treat or even acknowledge you. First of all lerh, highly recommend to visit public hospital because psych meds is a long term thing, not something you eat for a day then you feel ‘ok’, so going to public hospital can keep meds cost to minimal. Second, I think meds are beneficial if CBT is not working or you’re experiencing symptoms that are hugely negatively affecting your life. For example, shaky hands, no focus, excessive ruminating etc etc, meds are there to help take the edge off. There’s no shame in taking SSRI. Do you know? SSRI can be used to treat premature ejaculation too! Therefore you shouldn’t think that psych meds are for mental people only, you should see that meds are for treating symptoms, not the illness. And yea this as well ^. Toxic positivity is a thing too. *ps: not medical advice Kek, just from my experience* Any meds are go for me but I'm holding off for personal reasons for now, thanks. Yeah my family is very much in that category but I don't fault them. I can't because it's not in my control. Better to just do what needs to be done. |
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Aug 30 2025, 08:46 PM
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QUOTE(arkasi @ Aug 30 2025, 08:30 PM) Ts, please ignore that fellow advice of it's all in your mind rubbish. He clearly hasn't experience mental health problems before & is the old you are a man so tough it out,.man cannot cry mentality. Bruh I'm a lady and I think we don't give enough credit to ourselves to not admit. Like how women are expected to be 100% experts at juggling tasks, responsibilities, all while remaining fashionable enough to get a guy and so on and so forth. Just like how men are supposed to be stoic without having any emotional outbursts. Otherwise he wouldn't have said going to see a shrink is the easy way out. That is pure bullshit. Fellow clearly doesn't know for quite a number of people it takes a lot of courage to openly admit they need to see a psychiatrist and thededication to make it work. I have ocd & believe me it does not go away over time. If I didn't see a psychiatrist. It would.have spiral out of control. When it started getting worse & I didn't know what was ocd. I thought it's all a matter of.being strong willed & not.controlling it. Believe me it does not work that way. I have to take medication so that I can get it under control. The mind like I said is a complex thing & sometimes you need professional counselling, other times u need medication to help your keep.your brain chemistry in balance. Saying don't need to see a shrink is frankly irresponsible. It's like saying I got a fever but I don't even need panadol even though i have it at.home. Just toughen it out & the fever will subside on its own. Imagine the potential brain damage the.fever can cause.all because want to be macho Sorry for the fact that you have OCD, but thankfully you know how to recognize that you need help. It took a lot of undoing my gaslighting by the people around me that I do have a serious issue. Even more so now, when it is my default to deny that I need help. Patterns are to be established, and support is very much needed (which I know I won't get much of). I mean it is up to the naysayers what they want to preach, all I can do is justify my own path and my own way of dealing, since everyone else is either too busy judging to understand, or too busy for empathy. |
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QUOTE(GalaxyV @ Aug 30 2025, 09:14 PM) I quite liked my psych, haha. Very straightforward and told me that we don't have to sort everything out today. Focused on what exactly are you looking to achieve whether in long or short term. Of course my first suggestion is for you to see a psychologist first, if you're unsure about your symptoms and so on. At least when you see a psychiatrist after this you don't feel as lost.If you're not happy you can always see a psychiatrist but they have the tendency to try and prescribe one med after another to find which suits you best. arkasi liked this post
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Aug 30 2025, 10:50 PM
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QUOTE(alwy11 @ Aug 30 2025, 09:44 PM) Well, you're not wrong entirely as it is always good to tackle the root problem where possible. Counselling however does not come from a psychiatrist, it's provided by either a psychologist or a counselor and it's not really a temporary relief. It all comes down to what type of situation a person is in. The root is always tied to how we develop maladaptive coping mechanisms towards our past experience (I sound like a therapist, fuck) and for myself, definitely genetics (based on observation on how my parents were very much the same, the only difference being that back then there isn't much they can do, except what is expected of them, hence workaholics who were really engrossed in their work). TS, there are many types of treatment aimed at a long term fix in counseling to solve the root problem which can come from CBT, talk therapy, DBT and mindfulness (mbct). These medical professionals are not just temporary solutions but of course, we ourselves need to be receptive and make an effort at recovery. But sometimes, even if we make an effort it might not work due to chemical imbalance such as mine, genetics. Then there's where we need a psychiatrist to help solve the "root cause" or sometimes, we need a temporary relief/ foundation to allow our mind to be a stable/ good state before we tackle the root cause. My trigger is when I start lamenting about how I'm lazy, how I'm useless, and then that spirals and in the end I'm just numb to everything. I was told to look up mindful breathing for when I'm about to react and start from there. Which is why I was told by my psychiatrist to see the psychologist first, and if needed, set another appointment with the psychiatrist. arkasi liked this post
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QUOTE(GalaxyV @ Aug 30 2025, 10:50 PM) How much what exactly? Meds? Sessions? I'm covered, I didn't take note of that. I had arranged for this psych long before my scam case, please. The scam case did make it worse but you make it sound like it was the trigger for me to see the psych. |
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