Go work in SG bro, I also work in banking / insurance industry in Malaysia, but it's not what it was 10 / 15 years ago. Nowadays working banks and insurance doesn't guarantee anything. I just got put in PDP, and if I fail the PDP, they will have a reason to fire you. Nowadays there is no such thing as loyalty to a company anymore. Just go wherever the money is.

Somemore u have a GF there. It's a no-brainer. I can't go to SG because my wife and kids are in KL. If I'm single, I long time migrate there work already lor.