My experience let me know "CHARACTER" of the person is very important!

Its 101% not about brain, as my wife is STPM, UM Degree (Honours), UM Master (Honours), UM PhD (First Class Honours) if she summit the research paper n she will be top student for that year graduate + stand on the stage to giving speech. Last, she didnt complete the research because she having affair with another student (Married Man) in class. They have nude photo, sex video, plan to run away from house n more.....She feel shame after thing burst so she decide not to continue......

She is study + work. Top management (A step away to "C" level). T20 income.

The problem is she has character problem.

Her first love is Mistress for Dato.

She call this Dato uncle because they are distant relative.

Age gap: 12 years. Work with Dato + Stay with Dato + xxx with Dato on the bed of Dato & Datin sleep on.

Until now she say Dato is her true love!!! OMG!!!

She like to take care male friend n colleague.......Especially other BF & Husband........

Hold hand, Cuddle, Kissing n so on with normal male friend she is open accepted.

Even we are in relationship, she still out with guy (Couple Trip / Few Trip). She let me know its group trip.

She let me know after we have big fight....

Beside that, most of her friend are like that......

Some of her friend who are married few time + Divorce few time + Few children with different father......

My apologies I cant accept all this.

I did discuss n let her know what she doing is wrong after I know her but its will end up big fight.

On other hand, I did ask Chen Fong about this relationship, answer is she will change.

Now I know Chen Fong scam me!!!

Serious, I really love & treat her very well. Money (Min RM100k pa) + Trip (Not those 2, 3, 4, days trip).

This is just small part about her......She still have ton of ill problem....

May I know why she like to be easy girl please!? Crazy!? Itching!? Low self-esteem (Normal outlook / 168cm + 65kg)!?

Once you know a person but you dont like some of character then you better off.

If not, please dont complaint about it.

As you choose to accept it.

Please dont be stupid thinking after into relationship or married, the person will change.

History will only repeat again n again.

Its like a time bomb, you didnt know when its will blast!

Smoker = Smoker

Gambler = Gambler

Playboy = Playboy

Mistress = Mistress

Lazy = Lazy

Scammer = Scammer

It is misfortune. Man gets the feeling that he's fulfilled his obligation of having his own family, wife and kids. That whole dream. Unfortunately, it is a hollow dream. It is about her and her only.

If divorce, its even more painful, because as a dad, you don't want your kids to go through a divorced/broken family sort of an environment, unless you are one of those a-holes type of men.
Man gets to tell the world he is married, she gets to milk money and blame him for anything that goes wrong.

He works hard for money, wife say neglected.

He spends time with wife and kids, wife say not working hard enough.

He goes out with friends, wife say he cares only about his friends.

He stays home, wife say no social life.

He does house work, everything is wrong and it is weaponized incompetence.

He doesn't do house work, lazy useless good for nothing bum.

He buys chicken soup when she sick, she say you stupid because soup doesn't cure her.

He becomes sick, he get scolded because he dramatizing his flu.

He wants sex, wife say too tired.

He don't want sex, wife say he neglected my needs, so need to find FWB.

You cheat, its your fault. She cheats, its also your fault.

No matter what, you don't get any appreciation. Just mental and psychological abuse. Everything is your fault.

But sorry Stacy, what housework were you referring to? You were binge watching Grey's Anatomy.