Depends....for someone who able to live up to 60 years old +++.....children may be most important source for continue survival

there is positive side, negative side
n sometimes, how yuour wife behaves also simply mirror your attitude too. so u kind will see mirror of yourself after married 10 years
i would say most marriage outcome is depends entirely on your leadership too

how woman behave is mainly from social mindset too. So woman behaviour reflect social mindset, morality, etc.
woman are species of social culture. They are easily tied and influence from social expectation. just like aunty that like gossip

thats why our family institution also fall. because we fail to educate woman on their role as woman. pergi sekolah, but we teach them the world of man. they also becomes confuse of what is expected from man

this is different than malay. becvause in islam, husband is a door or gate to heaven. in a way, they look husband as medium to as salvation and so they react submission to husband