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 Dear Ktards, Is marriage a misfortune for men?

Dear Ktards, Is marriage a misfortune for men?
 
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TSheinlein
post Jul 28 2025, 04:48 PM

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QUOTE(poco loco @ Jul 28 2025, 04:37 PM)
just finish watching the whole movie...
but i cant find this movie
papa 2024 got actor sean lau,so hard to find ni
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wei why you so free can watch whole movie? I so tired from working, later balik sure tired til ko on my own bed

QUOTE(bani_prime @ Jul 28 2025, 04:44 PM)
there is positive side, negative side
n sometimes, how yuour wife behaves also simply mirror your attitude too. so u kind will see mirror of yourself after married 10 years
i would say most marriage outcome is depends entirely on your leadership too
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not married yet but so far all women I met kind of toxic so I ask how other ktards marriage is, more interested in type c marriage cuz I think type c and type m marriage cultural very big difference
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post Jul 28 2025, 04:51 PM

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QUOTE(Blackscreamerz @ Jul 28 2025, 04:47 PM)
It is a misfortune to both genders if they dont understand what is marriage.
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Women expect men to change after marriage, men expect women not to change after marriage, does this count? If after marriage only man contribute financially til stress gila, then waifu only splash cold water and scold only, how? I wish to know if any ktards experience this and how they overcome it

QUOTE(Autocountstick @ Jul 28 2025, 04:47 PM)
some bankrupt and become super rich
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Ada setori to back up your claims, too vague

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post Jul 28 2025, 05:02 PM

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QUOTE(God Grid @ Jul 28 2025, 05:00 PM)
when no ambition and no stress, earning just enough, kena complain why earn so little, ppl all get to travel, we dont get to travel. everyone buying big house and big car. everyone get branded handbags

when more ambitious and earning more, higher level, more stress, more work. but kena complain also, why always works, why no spend more time together, why cannot come back more often.

really topkek, do die, dont do also die.... hahahahahahahaha
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Is this your personal experience or you see from people around you? Sounds legit also
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post Jul 28 2025, 05:41 PM

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QUOTE(loui @ Jul 28 2025, 05:39 PM)
try seperate the poll to

Married Man = Yes
Married Man = No
Single Man = Yes
Single Man = No
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Once created, kenot edit the poll liao
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post Jul 28 2025, 05:59 PM

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QUOTE(keyibukeyi @ Jul 28 2025, 05:54 PM)
as a kais pagi makan pagi /ktard, find rich wife and provide monthly satisfying piap & up coming birthdays, anniversary > All
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You found one ady? My friend last time sing in pub met one but he rejected her becuase he has gf ady
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post Jul 28 2025, 06:42 PM

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QUOTE(keyibukeyi @ Jul 28 2025, 06:15 PM)
B40 & M40. Last time got T20 girl, but i kenot, i still got rindu because the girl got minat b4 sampai she and all her frens accompany her to have look at me real life instead of photos, and also they organize a party so we can know each other naturally, that time i still blur blur what was going on. And i told the matchmaker she is older than me 3 years.
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Why you let her go hahaha, not a lot of chance t20 girl rikes you leh. If her attitude good, really Shud go for it leh

QUOTE(bani_prime @ Jul 28 2025, 06:22 PM)
how woman behave is mainly from social mindset too. So woman behaviour reflect social mindset, morality, etc.
woman are species of social culture. They are easily tied and influence from social expectation. just like aunty that like gossip

thats why our family institution also fall. because we fail to educate woman on their role as woman. pergi sekolah, but we teach them the world of man. they also becomes confuse of what is expected from man
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If type c society, there is a belief that daughter Shud be raise rich (富养)and son should be raise poor (穷养),ayam really not surprised that type c women are mostly very princess syndrome either they are pretty or fugly. That's why sometimes I even consider masuk Islam and married malay girl. Malay girl not tat toxic right. You really need to see the type c women pua men how useless and no value men are, really will get depression


QUOTE(bani_prime @ Jul 28 2025, 06:23 PM)
this is different than malay. becvause in islam, husband is a door or gate to heaven. in a way, they look husband as medium to as salvation and so they react submission to husband
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I think type c women are more feminist and look down on men who are not rich or successful, it doesn't matter if you are honest or sincere person
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post Jul 28 2025, 07:24 PM

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QUOTE(nothomobutsuper @ Jul 28 2025, 07:19 PM)
Type M
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I really almost nv seen type m waifu has problem at all
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post Jul 28 2025, 07:43 PM

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QUOTE(nothomobutsuper @ Jul 28 2025, 07:41 PM)
Nowadays most of them problem also .. high maintenance one .
No car can bye2 laa ... mine one is rare breed already .
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type c rare breed also tarak, seriously. already extinct
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post Jul 29 2025, 09:13 AM

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QUOTE(poco loco @ Jul 29 2025, 03:02 AM)
zero debt
low overhead
fak work
#playmorethenwork #sudden die also no ragrat
thats y
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Single man like unker is very low maintenance, altho low income still can save some money, if no need work i also want leh, but still need money to survive. You no need work meh?

QUOTE(w19 @ Jul 29 2025, 04:36 AM)
My experience let me know "CHARACTER" of the person is very important!

Its 101% not about brain, as my wife is STPM, UM Degree (Honours), UM Master (Honours), UM PhD (First Class Honours) if she summit the research paper n she will be top student for that year graduate + stand on the stage to giving speech. Last, she didnt complete the research because she having affair with another student (Married Man) in class. They have nude photo, sex video, plan to run away from house n more.....She feel shame after thing burst so she decide not to continue......

She is study + work. Top management (A step away to "C" level). T20 income.

The problem is she has character problem.

Her first love is Mistress for Dato.

She call this Dato uncle because they are distant relative.

Age gap: 12 years. Work with Dato + Stay with Dato + xxx with Dato on the bed of Dato & Datin sleep on.

Until now she say Dato is her true love!!! OMG!!!

She like to take care male friend n colleague.......Especially other BF & Husband........

Hold hand, Cuddle, Kissing n so on with normal male friend she is open accepted.

Even we are in relationship, she still out with guy (Couple Trip / Few Trip). She let me know its group trip.

She let me know after we have big fight....

Beside that, most of her friend are like that......

Some of her friend who are married few time + Divorce few time + Few children with different father......

My apologies I cant accept all this.

I did discuss n let her know what she doing is wrong after I know her but its will end up big fight.

On other hand, I did ask Chen Fong about this relationship, answer is she will change.

Now I know Chen Fong scam me!!!

Serious, I really love & treat her very well. Money (Min RM100k pa) + Trip (Not those 2, 3, 4, days trip).

This is just small part about her......She still have ton of ill problem....

May I know why she like to be easy girl please!? Crazy!? Itching!? Low self-esteem (Normal outlook / 168cm + 65kg)!?

Once you know a person but you dont like some of character then you better off.

If not, please dont complaint about it.

As you choose to accept it.

Please dont be stupid thinking after into relationship or married, the person will change.

History will only repeat again n again.

Its like a time bomb, you didnt know when its will blast!

Smoker = Smoker

Gambler = Gambler

Playboy = Playboy

Mistress = Mistress

Lazy = Lazy

Scammer = Scammer
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Similar to my first love also, she also sleep and has affair with lot of guys til I found out and break up with her, now if anyone cheat me with another guy, instant bye bye. People dun change, that's a fact for sure.
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post Jul 29 2025, 09:24 AM

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QUOTE(swanlover @ Jul 29 2025, 09:14 AM)
If wrong person , hell yes, you are as good as dead..or actually the sufferings worst than death..

Wrong moves, u screw her, she screw others, with kids , judges by her side, u can’t win. Lolx

Oh wait , if she has to screw others means your ‘kung fu’ sucks..lolx
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ada wang ada attractive

QUOTE(asx26365 @ Jul 29 2025, 09:15 AM)
Religion of peace is happier
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Which? Islam? Buddha?
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post Jul 29 2025, 11:14 AM

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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Jul 29 2025, 11:12 AM)
The self proclaimed one
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Oh, the find own inner peace
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post Jul 29 2025, 11:29 AM

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QUOTE(Flaming_lion @ Jul 29 2025, 11:22 AM)
Its 2025, and still got men wanna get married and settle down. There is no such thing as love. It is purely a business transaction. If you get married, and marriage fails, that's on the guy. Once you get into a relationship, it is only about her and her only. Nothing else matters. Your needs, wants and desires as a man, will not be on the list. Even your kids and parents will come after your wife.
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That counts misfortune right? If it is business transaction, what does the man get in return? Just family and kids? but that will be broken if divorce right?
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:25 PM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Jul 29 2025, 12:21 PM)
what does the man get? what does the woman get?
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women get inifinite milking of money til you broke, men I oso want to know
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:37 PM

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QUOTE(cfa28 @ Jul 29 2025, 12:34 PM)
Siham if you are lucky in the early years of the marriage
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Overpriced siham
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:44 PM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Jul 29 2025, 12:40 PM)
TLDR men sacrifice hobby to get piap?
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with current society, should legalize prostitution and just let men piap happily

QUOTE(Flaming_lion @ Jul 29 2025, 12:40 PM)
It is misfortune. Man gets the feeling that he's fulfilled his obligation of having his own family, wife and kids. That whole dream. Unfortunately, it is a hollow dream. It is about her and her only.

If divorce, its even more painful, because as a dad, you don't want your kids to go through a divorced/broken family sort of an environment, unless you are one of those a-holes type of men.
Man gets to tell the world he is married, she gets to milk money and blame him for anything that goes wrong.

He works hard for money, wife say neglected.

He spends time with wife and kids, wife say not working hard enough.

He goes out with friends, wife say he cares only about his friends.

He stays home, wife say no social life.

He does house work, everything is wrong and it is weaponized incompetence.

He doesn't do house work, lazy useless good for nothing bum.

He buys chicken soup when she sick, she say you stupid because soup doesn't cure her.

He becomes sick, he get scolded because he dramatizing his flu.

He wants sex, wife say too tired.

He don't want sex, wife say he neglected my needs, so need to find FWB.

You cheat, its your fault. She cheats, its also your fault.

No matter what, you don't get any appreciation. Just mental and psychological abuse. Everything is your fault.

But sorry Stacy, what housework were you referring to? You were binge watching Grey's Anatomy.
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That a big red flag for men, ayam shud cukur ayam foreveralone
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:46 PM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Jul 29 2025, 12:43 PM)
how is this business transaction?
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This is business rugi wei
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post Jul 29 2025, 01:13 PM

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QUOTE(badmilk @ Jul 29 2025, 01:04 PM)
Some girls buy men -

1) all the toys they want

2) all the food they want

3) all the clothes they want

- best point suck all their sperm dry.

There are woman out there who are like this

Pls don’t discredit woman like this.

Not their fault - men can’t find them.
Also marrige is suppose to empower both side / misfortune are losers talk.
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Wait ktards with such experience to come out share their real setori. Agreed marriage suppose to be both side
Also wait ktards amoi come out admit she is the men ideal woman that did the above 3 things you mentioned

This post has been edited by heinlein: Jul 29 2025, 01:14 PM
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post Jul 29 2025, 04:44 PM

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QUOTE(ralfvi @ Jul 29 2025, 04:42 PM)
theres 2 type of men in this world
the one who is successfull
and the one who is distracted and having a shitty wife will
most certainly pull you down.
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and another one foreveralone
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post Jul 30 2025, 08:02 AM

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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Jul 29 2025, 01:03 PM)
Siham
Maid
Cook
Nurse

In one package
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Many women now can't cook, nurse dun harap, but if say want someone to scold you 24/7, tat is mostly what we get
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post Sep 10 2025, 11:50 PM

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QUOTE(JimbeamofNRT @ Sep 10 2025, 11:44 PM)
Indeed
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suddenly feel unker is blessing in disguise for being foreveralone

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