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 Dear Ktards, Is marriage a misfortune for men?

Dear Ktards, Is marriage a misfortune for men?
 
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TSheinlein
post Jul 29 2025, 11:29 AM

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QUOTE(Flaming_lion @ Jul 29 2025, 11:22 AM)
Its 2025, and still got men wanna get married and settle down. There is no such thing as love. It is purely a business transaction. If you get married, and marriage fails, that's on the guy. Once you get into a relationship, it is only about her and her only. Nothing else matters. Your needs, wants and desires as a man, will not be on the list. Even your kids and parents will come after your wife.
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That counts misfortune right? If it is business transaction, what does the man get in return? Just family and kids? but that will be broken if divorce right?
Skylinestar
post Jul 29 2025, 11:40 AM

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QUOTE(JoeK @ Jul 25 2025, 08:49 PM)
90% marriage more bahagia because Ada wang

Wang can solve 99% marriage problems
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what if dead bedroom?
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:21 PM

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QUOTE(Flaming_lion @ Jul 29 2025, 11:22 AM)
It is purely a business transaction.
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what does the man get? what does the woman get?

This post has been edited by Skylinestar: Jul 29 2025, 12:21 PM
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:25 PM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Jul 29 2025, 12:21 PM)
what does the man get? what does the woman get?
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women get inifinite milking of money til you broke, men I oso want to know
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:34 PM

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QUOTE(heinlein @ Jul 29 2025, 12:25 PM)
women get inifinite milking of money til you broke, men I oso want to know
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Siham if you are lucky in the early years of the marriage

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post Jul 29 2025, 12:37 PM

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QUOTE(cfa28 @ Jul 29 2025, 12:34 PM)
Siham if you are lucky in the early years of the marriage
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Overpriced siham
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:40 PM

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QUOTE(Current Events guy @ Jul 27 2025, 11:40 AM)
Men simple creature

Just want piap

If get piap in marriage sure happy

If don't get piap then will not have good things to say about marriage

If men want to have good marriage, men must get piap

If men must get piap then men need to look at what is in his control to get piap

Already got cheat code, ada Wang ada amoi

Therefor men need to have Wang to have happy marriage

So spend the rest of your days looking at what is in your control to make more Wang

I can tell you that it is going to suck because got to give up other things like hobby to focus on making money
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TLDR men sacrifice hobby to get piap?
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:40 PM

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QUOTE(heinlein @ Jul 29 2025, 11:29 AM)
That counts misfortune right? If it is business transaction, what does the man get in return? Just family and kids? but that will be broken if divorce right?
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It is misfortune. Man gets the feeling that he's fulfilled his obligation of having his own family, wife and kids. That whole dream. Unfortunately, it is a hollow dream. It is about her and her only.

If divorce, its even more painful, because as a dad, you don't want your kids to go through a divorced/broken family sort of an environment, unless you are one of those a-holes type of men.

QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Jul 29 2025, 12:21 PM)
what does the man get? what does the woman get?
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Man gets to tell the world he is married, she gets to milk money and blame him for anything that goes wrong.

He works hard for money, wife say neglected.

He spends time with wife and kids, wife say not working hard enough.

He goes out with friends, wife say he cares only about his friends.

He stays home, wife say no social life.

He does house work, everything is wrong and it is weaponized incompetence.

He doesn't do house work, lazy useless good for nothing bum.

He buys chicken soup when she sick, she say you stupid because soup doesn't cure her.

He becomes sick, he get scolded because he dramatizing his flu.

He wants sex, wife say too tired.

He don't want sex, wife say he neglected my needs, so need to find FWB.

You cheat, its your fault. She cheats, its also your fault.

No matter what, you don't get any appreciation. Just mental and psychological abuse. Everything is your fault.

But sorry Stacy, what housework were you referring to? You were binge watching Grey's Anatomy.
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:43 PM

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QUOTE(Flaming_lion @ Jul 29 2025, 12:40 PM)
Man gets to tell the world he is married
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how is this business transaction?
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:44 PM

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QUOTE(Flaming_lion @ Jul 29 2025, 12:40 PM)
It is misfortune. Man gets the feeling that he's fulfilled his obligation of having his own family, wife and kids. That whole dream. Unfortunately, it is a hollow dream. It is about her and her only.

If divorce, its even more painful, because as a dad, you don't want your kids to go through a divorced/broken family sort of an environment, unless you are one of those a-holes type of men.
Man gets to tell the world he is married, she gets to milk money and blame him for anything that goes wrong.

He works hard for money, wife say neglected.

He spends time with wife and kids, wife say not working hard enough.

He goes out with friends, wife say he cares only about his friends.

He stays home, wife say no social life.

He does house work, everything is wrong and it is weaponized incompetence.

He doesn't do house work, lazy useless good for nothing bum.

He buys chicken soup when she sick, she say you stupid because soup doesn't cure her.

He becomes sick, he get scolded because he dramatizing his flu.

He wants sex, wife say too tired.

He don't want sex, wife say he neglected my needs, so need to find FWB.

You cheat, its your fault. She cheats, its also your fault.

No matter what, you don't get any appreciation. Just mental and psychological abuse. Everything is your fault.

But sorry Stacy, what housework were you referring to? You were binge watching Grey's Anatomy.
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well said, no matter what happened, it's always the men fault

TSheinlein
post Jul 29 2025, 12:44 PM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Jul 29 2025, 12:40 PM)
TLDR men sacrifice hobby to get piap?
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with current society, should legalize prostitution and just let men piap happily

QUOTE(Flaming_lion @ Jul 29 2025, 12:40 PM)
It is misfortune. Man gets the feeling that he's fulfilled his obligation of having his own family, wife and kids. That whole dream. Unfortunately, it is a hollow dream. It is about her and her only.

If divorce, its even more painful, because as a dad, you don't want your kids to go through a divorced/broken family sort of an environment, unless you are one of those a-holes type of men.
Man gets to tell the world he is married, she gets to milk money and blame him for anything that goes wrong.

He works hard for money, wife say neglected.

He spends time with wife and kids, wife say not working hard enough.

He goes out with friends, wife say he cares only about his friends.

He stays home, wife say no social life.

He does house work, everything is wrong and it is weaponized incompetence.

He doesn't do house work, lazy useless good for nothing bum.

He buys chicken soup when she sick, she say you stupid because soup doesn't cure her.

He becomes sick, he get scolded because he dramatizing his flu.

He wants sex, wife say too tired.

He don't want sex, wife say he neglected my needs, so need to find FWB.

You cheat, its your fault. She cheats, its also your fault.

No matter what, you don't get any appreciation. Just mental and psychological abuse. Everything is your fault.

But sorry Stacy, what housework were you referring to? You were binge watching Grey's Anatomy.
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That a big red flag for men, ayam shud cukur ayam foreveralone
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:45 PM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Jul 29 2025, 12:43 PM)
how is this business transaction?
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It is business transaction. You get to "fulfill" your shallow dreams of having aa wife, and in turn she can tell her family she's married, don't kacau. There's no such thing as love. Its always a trade.
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:46 PM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Jul 29 2025, 12:43 PM)
how is this business transaction?
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This is business rugi wei
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post Jul 29 2025, 12:59 PM

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QUOTE(Flaming_lion @ Jul 29 2025, 12:45 PM)
It is business transaction. You get to "fulfill" your shallow dreams of having aa wife, and in turn she can tell her family she's married, don't kacau. There's no such thing as love. Its always a trade.
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sounds like man with big ego issue.
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post Jul 29 2025, 01:03 PM

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QUOTE(heinlein @ Jul 29 2025, 12:37 PM)
Overpriced siham
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Siham
Maid
Cook
Nurse

In one package
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post Jul 29 2025, 01:04 PM

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Some girls buy men -

1) all the toys they want

2) all the food they want

3) all the clothes they want

- best point suck all their sperm dry.

There are woman out there who are like this

Pls don’t discredit woman like this.

Not their fault - men can’t find them.


Also marrige is suppose to empower both side / misfortune are losers talk.


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post Jul 29 2025, 01:13 PM

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QUOTE(badmilk @ Jul 29 2025, 01:04 PM)
Some girls buy men -

1) all the toys they want

2) all the food they want

3) all the clothes they want

- best point suck all their sperm dry.

There are woman out there who are like this

Pls don’t discredit woman like this.

Not their fault - men can’t find them.
Also marrige is suppose to empower both side / misfortune are losers talk.
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Wait ktards with such experience to come out share their real setori. Agreed marriage suppose to be both side
Also wait ktards amoi come out admit she is the men ideal woman that did the above 3 things you mentioned

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post Jul 29 2025, 01:51 PM

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QUOTE(Flaming_lion @ Jul 29 2025, 12:40 PM)
It is misfortune. Man gets the feeling that he's fulfilled his obligation of having his own family, wife and kids. That whole dream. Unfortunately, it is a hollow dream. It is about her and her only.

If divorce, its even more painful, because as a dad, you don't want your kids to go through a divorced/broken family sort of an environment, unless you are one of those a-holes type of men.
Man gets to tell the world he is married, she gets to milk money and blame him for anything that goes wrong.

He works hard for money, wife say neglected.

He spends time with wife and kids, wife say not working hard enough.

He goes out with friends, wife say he cares only about his friends.

He stays home, wife say no social life.

He does house work, everything is wrong and it is weaponized incompetence.

He doesn't do house work, lazy useless good for nothing bum.

He buys chicken soup when she sick, she say you stupid because soup doesn't cure her.

He becomes sick, he get scolded because he dramatizing his flu.

He wants sex, wife say too tired.

He don't want sex, wife say he neglected my needs, so need to find FWB.

You cheat, its your fault. She cheats, its also your fault.

No matter what, you don't get any appreciation. Just mental and psychological abuse. Everything is your fault.

But sorry Stacy, what housework were you referring to? You were binge watching Grey's Anatomy.
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This may be the fruit of a Bazi misalignment — the quiet warning Heaven once whispered, but you laughed off as superstition. Sometimes, what we call misfortune is simply prevention unpaid.


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post Jul 29 2025, 04:42 PM

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theres 2 type of men in this world
the one who is successfull
and the one who is distracted and having a shitty wife will
most certainly pull you down.
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post Jul 29 2025, 04:44 PM

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QUOTE(ralfvi @ Jul 29 2025, 04:42 PM)
theres 2 type of men in this world
the one who is successfull
and the one who is distracted and having a shitty wife will
most certainly pull you down.
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and another one foreveralone

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