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 Dear Ktards, Is marriage a misfortune for men?

Dear Ktards, Is marriage a misfortune for men?
 
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keyibukeyi
post Jul 28 2025, 06:15 PM

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QUOTE(heinlein @ Jul 28 2025, 05:59 PM)
You found one ady? My friend last time sing in pub met one but he rejected her becuase he has gf ady
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B40 & M40. Last time got T20 girl, but i kenot, i still got rindu because the girl got minat b4 sampai she and all her frens accompany her to have look at me real life instead of photos, and also they organize a party so we can know each other naturally, that time i still blur blur what was going on. And i told the matchmaker she is older than me 3 years.
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post Jul 28 2025, 06:22 PM

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QUOTE(heinlein @ Jul 28 2025, 04:48 PM)
wei why you so free can watch whole movie? I so tired from working, later balik sure tired til ko on my own bed
not married yet but so far all women I met kind of toxic so I ask how other ktards marriage is, more interested in type c marriage cuz I think type c and type m marriage cultural very big difference
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how woman behave is mainly from social mindset too. So woman behaviour reflect social mindset, morality, etc.
woman are species of social culture. They are easily tied and influence from social expectation. just like aunty that like gossip

thats why our family institution also fall. because we fail to educate woman on their role as woman. pergi sekolah, but we teach them the world of man. they also becomes confuse of what is expected from man
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post Jul 28 2025, 06:23 PM

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this is different than malay. becvause in islam, husband is a door or gate to heaven. in a way, they look husband as medium to as salvation and so they react submission to husband
TSheinlein
post Jul 28 2025, 06:42 PM

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QUOTE(keyibukeyi @ Jul 28 2025, 06:15 PM)
B40 & M40. Last time got T20 girl, but i kenot, i still got rindu because the girl got minat b4 sampai she and all her frens accompany her to have look at me real life instead of photos, and also they organize a party so we can know each other naturally, that time i still blur blur what was going on. And i told the matchmaker she is older than me 3 years.
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Why you let her go hahaha, not a lot of chance t20 girl rikes you leh. If her attitude good, really Shud go for it leh

QUOTE(bani_prime @ Jul 28 2025, 06:22 PM)
how woman behave is mainly from social mindset too. So woman behaviour reflect social mindset, morality, etc.
woman are species of social culture. They are easily tied and influence from social expectation. just like aunty that like gossip

thats why our family institution also fall. because we fail to educate woman on their role as woman. pergi sekolah, but we teach them the world of man. they also becomes confuse of what is expected from man
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If type c society, there is a belief that daughter Shud be raise rich (富养)and son should be raise poor (穷养),ayam really not surprised that type c women are mostly very princess syndrome either they are pretty or fugly. That's why sometimes I even consider masuk Islam and married malay girl. Malay girl not tat toxic right. You really need to see the type c women pua men how useless and no value men are, really will get depression


QUOTE(bani_prime @ Jul 28 2025, 06:23 PM)
this is different than malay. becvause in islam, husband is a door or gate to heaven. in a way, they look husband as medium to as salvation and so they react submission to husband
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I think type c women are more feminist and look down on men who are not rich or successful, it doesn't matter if you are honest or sincere person
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post Jul 28 2025, 07:19 PM

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QUOTE(heinlein @ Jul 28 2025, 02:40 PM)
No waifu
You type C or type M?
Cuz rich ada wang ada amoi, they can change it, most ppl stuck with only 1 for the rest of their life
That is exactly what I thought
At what price? Permanent becomes ATM to milk them? can you guarantee one day you cannot milk them, they will not leave you?
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post Jul 28 2025, 07:24 PM

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QUOTE(nothomobutsuper @ Jul 28 2025, 07:19 PM)
Type M
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I really almost nv seen type m waifu has problem at all
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post Jul 28 2025, 07:41 PM

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QUOTE(heinlein @ Jul 28 2025, 07:24 PM)
I really almost nv seen type m waifu has problem at all
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Nowadays most of them problem also .. high maintenance one .
No car can bye2 laa ... mine one is rare breed already .
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post Jul 28 2025, 07:43 PM

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QUOTE(nothomobutsuper @ Jul 28 2025, 07:41 PM)
Nowadays most of them problem also .. high maintenance one .
No car can bye2 laa ... mine one is rare breed already .
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type c rare breed also tarak, seriously. already extinct
poco loco
post Jul 29 2025, 03:02 AM

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QUOTE(heinlein @ Jul 28 2025, 04:48 PM)
wei why you so free can watch whole movie? I so tired from working, later balik sure tired til ko on my own bed
not married yet but so far all women I met kind of toxic so I ask how other ktards marriage is, more interested in type c marriage cuz I think type c and type m marriage cultural very big difference
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zero debt
low overhead
fak work
#playmorethenwork #sudden die also no ragrat
thats y

This post has been edited by poco loco: Jul 29 2025, 03:04 AM
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post Jul 29 2025, 04:25 AM

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Marriage is for the plebs. You don't need money or a car or your own place at least not those that are in their prime age. The only girls who demand marriage are near or over 30 to their orbiters while they sleep with the guy who makes their hearts flutter skip a beat and dream about and it cannot be helped because it is in their nature deep down between these beautiful beings whether they are attached or not they cannot stop themselves from stealing that lustful glance when you walk their way and it is that glance that tells you all you need to know...

This post has been edited by Inc. 100: Jul 29 2025, 04:27 AM
SUSw19
post Jul 29 2025, 04:36 AM

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My experience let me know "CHARACTER" of the person is very important!

Its 101% not about brain, as my wife is STPM, UM Degree (Honours), UM Master (Honours), UM PhD (First Class Honours) if she summit the research paper n she will be top student for that year graduate + stand on the stage to giving speech. Last, she didnt complete the research because she having affair with another student (Married Man) in class. They have nude photo, sex video, plan to run away from house n more.....She feel shame after thing burst so she decide not to continue......

She is study + work. Top management (A step away to "C" level). T20 income.

The problem is she has character problem.

Her first love is Mistress for Dato.

She call this Dato uncle because they are distant relative.

Age gap: 12 years. Work with Dato + Stay with Dato + xxx with Dato on the bed of Dato & Datin sleep on.

Until now she say Dato is her true love!!! OMG!!!

She like to take care male friend n colleague.......Especially other BF & Husband........

Hold hand, Cuddle, Kissing n so on with normal male friend she is open accepted.

Even we are in relationship, she still out with guy (Couple Trip / Few Trip). She let me know its group trip.

She let me know after we have big fight....

Beside that, most of her friend are like that......

Some of her friend who are married few time + Divorce few time + Few children with different father......

My apologies I cant accept all this.

I did discuss n let her know what she doing is wrong after I know her but its will end up big fight.

On other hand, I did ask Chen Fong about this relationship, answer is she will change.

Now I know Chen Fong scam me!!!

Serious, I really love & treat her very well. Money (Min RM100k pa) + Trip (Not those 2, 3, 4, days trip).

This is just small part about her......She still have ton of ill problem....

May I know why she like to be easy girl please!? Crazy!? Itching!? Low self-esteem (Normal outlook / 168cm + 65kg)!?

Once you know a person but you dont like some of character then you better off.

If not, please dont complaint about it.

As you choose to accept it.

Please dont be stupid thinking after into relationship or married, the person will change.

History will only repeat again n again.

Its like a time bomb, you didnt know when its will blast!

Smoker = Smoker

Gambler = Gambler

Playboy = Playboy

Mistress = Mistress

Lazy = Lazy

Scammer = Scammer

This post has been edited by w19: Jul 29 2025, 04:48 AM
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QUOTE(w19 @ Jul 29 2025, 05:36 AM)
My experience let me know "CHARACTER" of the person is very important!

Its 101% not about brain, as my wife is STPM, UM Degree (Honours), UM Master (Honours), UM PhD (First Class Honours) if she summit the research paper n she will be top student for that year graduate + stand on the stage to giving speech. Last, she didnt complete the research because she having affair with another student (Married Man) in class. They have nude photo, sex video, plan to run away from house n more.....She feel shame after thing burst so she decide not to continue......

She is study + work. Top management (A step away to "C" level). T20 income.

The problem is she has character problem.

Her first love is Mistress for Dato.

She call this Dato uncle because they are distant relative.

Age gap: 12 years. Work with Dato + Stay with Dato + xxx with Dato on the bed of Dato & Datin sleep on.

Until now she say Dato is her true love!!! OMG!!!

She like to take care male friend n colleague.......Especially other BF & Husband........

Hold hand, Cuddle, Kissing n so on with normal male friend she is open accepted.

Even we are in relationship, she still out with guy (Couple Trip / Few Trip). She let me know its group trip.

She let me know after we have big fight....

Beside that, most of her friend are like that......

Some of her friend who are married few time + Divorce few time + Few children with different father......

My apologies I cant accept all this.

I did discuss n let her know what she doing is wrong after I know her but its will end up big fight.

On other hand, I did ask Chen Fong about this relationship, answer is she will change.

Now I know Chen Fong scam me!!!

Serious, I really love & treat her very well. Money (Min RM100k pa) + Trip (Not those 2, 3, 4, days trip).

This is just small part about her......She still have ton of ill problem....

May I know why she like to be easy girl please!? Crazy!? Itching!? Low self-esteem (Normal outlook / 168cm + 65kg)!?

Once you know a person but you dont like some of character then you better off.

If not, please dont complaint about it.

As you choose to accept it.

Please dont be stupid thinking after into relationship or married, the person will change.

History will only repeat again n again.

Its like a time bomb, you didnt know when its will blast!

Smoker = Smoker

Gambler = Gambler

Playboy = Playboy

Mistress = Mistress

Lazy = Lazy

Scammer = Scammer
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When men have money, they will be naughty.

When women becomes naughty, she will have money.

Is human nature.
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post Jul 29 2025, 09:13 AM

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QUOTE(poco loco @ Jul 29 2025, 03:02 AM)
zero debt
low overhead
fak work
#playmorethenwork #sudden die also no ragrat
thats y
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Single man like unker is very low maintenance, altho low income still can save some money, if no need work i also want leh, but still need money to survive. You no need work meh?

QUOTE(w19 @ Jul 29 2025, 04:36 AM)
My experience let me know "CHARACTER" of the person is very important!

Its 101% not about brain, as my wife is STPM, UM Degree (Honours), UM Master (Honours), UM PhD (First Class Honours) if she summit the research paper n she will be top student for that year graduate + stand on the stage to giving speech. Last, she didnt complete the research because she having affair with another student (Married Man) in class. They have nude photo, sex video, plan to run away from house n more.....She feel shame after thing burst so she decide not to continue......

She is study + work. Top management (A step away to "C" level). T20 income.

The problem is she has character problem.

Her first love is Mistress for Dato.

She call this Dato uncle because they are distant relative.

Age gap: 12 years. Work with Dato + Stay with Dato + xxx with Dato on the bed of Dato & Datin sleep on.

Until now she say Dato is her true love!!! OMG!!!

She like to take care male friend n colleague.......Especially other BF & Husband........

Hold hand, Cuddle, Kissing n so on with normal male friend she is open accepted.

Even we are in relationship, she still out with guy (Couple Trip / Few Trip). She let me know its group trip.

She let me know after we have big fight....

Beside that, most of her friend are like that......

Some of her friend who are married few time + Divorce few time + Few children with different father......

My apologies I cant accept all this.

I did discuss n let her know what she doing is wrong after I know her but its will end up big fight.

On other hand, I did ask Chen Fong about this relationship, answer is she will change.

Now I know Chen Fong scam me!!!

Serious, I really love & treat her very well. Money (Min RM100k pa) + Trip (Not those 2, 3, 4, days trip).

This is just small part about her......She still have ton of ill problem....

May I know why she like to be easy girl please!? Crazy!? Itching!? Low self-esteem (Normal outlook / 168cm + 65kg)!?

Once you know a person but you dont like some of character then you better off.

If not, please dont complaint about it.

As you choose to accept it.

Please dont be stupid thinking after into relationship or married, the person will change.

History will only repeat again n again.

Its like a time bomb, you didnt know when its will blast!

Smoker = Smoker

Gambler = Gambler

Playboy = Playboy

Mistress = Mistress

Lazy = Lazy

Scammer = Scammer
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Similar to my first love also, she also sleep and has affair with lot of guys til I found out and break up with her, now if anyone cheat me with another guy, instant bye bye. People dun change, that's a fact for sure.
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post Jul 29 2025, 09:14 AM

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If wrong person , hell yes, you are as good as dead..or actually the sufferings worst than death..

Wrong moves, u screw her, she screw others, with kids , judges by her side, u can’t win. Lolx

Oh wait , if she has to screw others means your ‘kung fu’ sucks..lolx



This post has been edited by swanlover: Jul 29 2025, 09:19 AM
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post Jul 29 2025, 09:15 AM

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QUOTE(heinlein @ Jul 25 2025, 09:01 PM)
what religion has happier marriage? can enlighten unker?
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Religion of peace is happier
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post Jul 29 2025, 09:24 AM

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QUOTE(swanlover @ Jul 29 2025, 09:14 AM)
If wrong person , hell yes, you are as good as dead..or actually the sufferings worst than death..

Wrong moves, u screw her, she screw others, with kids , judges by her side, u can’t win. Lolx

Oh wait , if she has to screw others means your ‘kung fu’ sucks..lolx
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ada wang ada attractive

QUOTE(asx26365 @ Jul 29 2025, 09:15 AM)
Religion of peace is happier
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Which? Islam? Buddha?
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post Jul 29 2025, 10:56 AM

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QUOTE(w19 @ Jul 29 2025, 04:36 AM)
My experience let me know "CHARACTER" of the person is very important!

Its 101% not about brain, as my wife is STPM, UM Degree (Honours), UM Master (Honours), UM PhD (First Class Honours) if she summit the research paper n she will be top student for that year graduate + stand on the stage to giving speech. Last, she didnt complete the research because she having affair with another student (Married Man) in class. They have nude photo, sex video, plan to run away from house n more.....She feel shame after thing burst so she decide not to continue......

She is study + work. Top management (A step away to "C" level). T20 income.

The problem is she has character problem.

Her first love is Mistress for Dato.

She call this Dato uncle because they are distant relative.

Age gap: 12 years. Work with Dato + Stay with Dato + xxx with Dato on the bed of Dato & Datin sleep on.

Until now she say Dato is her true love!!! OMG!!!

She like to take care male friend n colleague.......Especially other BF & Husband........

Hold hand, Cuddle, Kissing n so on with normal male friend she is open accepted.

Even we are in relationship, she still out with guy (Couple Trip / Few Trip). She let me know its group trip.

She let me know after we have big fight....

Beside that, most of her friend are like that......

Some of her friend who are married few time + Divorce few time + Few children with different father......

My apologies I cant accept all this.

I did discuss n let her know what she doing is wrong after I know her but its will end up big fight.

On other hand, I did ask Chen Fong about this relationship, answer is she will change.

Now I know Chen Fong scam me!!!

Serious, I really love & treat her very well. Money (Min RM100k pa) + Trip (Not those 2, 3, 4, days trip).

This is just small part about her......She still have ton of ill problem....

May I know why she like to be easy girl please!? Crazy!? Itching!? Low self-esteem (Normal outlook / 168cm + 65kg)!?

Once you know a person but you dont like some of character then you better off.

If not, please dont complaint about it.

As you choose to accept it.

Please dont be stupid thinking after into relationship or married, the person will change.

History will only repeat again n again.

Its like a time bomb, you didnt know when its will blast!

Smoker = Smoker

Gambler = Gambler

Playboy = Playboy

Mistress = Mistress

Lazy = Lazy

Scammer = Scammer
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Learning does not equal virtue. Status does not guarantee morality.

A person’s past is like a well - if the water is poisoned, it takes deep effort and honest repentance to purify it.
But if they drink from it daily without remorse, it is no longer a well. It is a pit.

Choose a partner who already lives with integrity, because marriage doesn’t create character - it reveals it.

Your willingness to share this as a warning to others is righteous. TQ

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QUOTE(heinlein @ Jul 29 2025, 09:24 AM)
ada wang ada attractive
Which? Islam? Buddha?
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post Jul 29 2025, 11:14 AM

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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Jul 29 2025, 11:12 AM)
The self proclaimed one
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QUOTE(heinlein @ Jul 25 2025, 08:46 PM)
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Its 2025, and still got men wanna get married and settle down. There is no such thing as love. It is purely a business transaction. If you get married, and marriage fails, that's on the guy. Once you get into a relationship, it is only about her and her only. Nothing else matters. Your needs, wants and desires as a man, will not be on the list. Even your kids and parents will come after your wife.

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