Your financial issue could be temporarily or long term. Who knows what might happen. It might worsen or better after the baby. If worsen, you or your wife might resent the baby. No one knows for sure. If you both decided to abort, you could still have another planned child in the future.

This is deeply personal and no one will understand what you and your wife is going through right now. What works for others might not work for you. Have a deep discussion with your wife. Hope all goes well.

This post has been edited by kawa_e: Jul 24 2025, 04:19 PM