was in your situation last year.
already have 3 (f,f,m) and both of us busy working schedule, our bed activity is very limited, due to youngest baby sleep with us. 1 year can count with 1 hand. wife had to take care of kids + work, while i need to work late night.

one fine day, we were both wfh and kids at daycare.. suddenly dunno why got mood, we did it at my working desk, it was sudden, we never use protection cos its so rare and unprepared... i think that was the only sex we had that year..and voila.. came home 1 day wife ask me check the item on my table.. i had a look it's ultrasound of a twin baby...

then wife ask the hard question, keep or abort? it's a twin... hardest decision.. 2 lives there... we dare not face it... for the next few weeks wife go checkup as normal and we kinda avoid talking about it.. until 1 day wife ask me seriously, must make decision already. i said keep it. she presented all the realities and ask me am i ready... i had no choice, i said yes.

so in the few months to come, we started planning, bought a MPV, bought a landed house, a semi-D (just recently moved in2 months ago), hired a maid, etc. both me and my wife, we are T20... but now we can feel the financial struggle la.. maid and the 2 babies we sent to daycare cos worry maid cannot jaga... so 5 kids expenses, food, clothing, daycare, everything.... lifestyle also change... we had to cancel our japan trip this year, last year before wife deliver, 5 of us went to korea and UK trip. this year? next year? most likely stay at home.. because it's hard to travel with 5 kids, with 2 twin babies + 1 boy toddler. the girls are ok.. they are helpful and listen to us. but the boy....

my wife would sometime complain and went berserk and hysteria mode.. due to the stress with the 2 babies, and change of lifestyle, etc. so yeah it's affecting her greatly... myself too... at night cannot sleep, 1 cry the other will cry...

did i regret? no, but it could've been prevented if i didnt take things for granted. i only worry my wife. i'll be travelling to middle east for few weeks, i worry if my wife can handle 5 kids.

but let's look at the positive side.. i will make sure all 5 of them have good education, good family values, and when they are grown up, situation will be better. thinking of the benefits of having large family. for now, have to work hard and sacrifice a bit. another good thing is, wife deliver via C section so we asked doctor to ikat for her... so no more worries about any unwanted pregnancies again in future..

my wife have a twin brother