Frugal partner
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 Jul 22 2025, 03:03 PM
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sorry to say this
i find that usually chinese ed girls are like that. They believe that men must pay for everything, every single damn thing. Because they grew up in an environment where there is a traditional gender separated roles in their family values. And this coupled with the money mentality which is very strong among the traditional chinese family. This post has been edited by Blofeld: Jul 22 2025, 03:06 PM |
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Jul 27 2025, 08:52 AM
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QUOTE(abelyap @ Jul 25 2025, 03:36 PM) I been thinking how should i guide my sons to find the right wife in future..... So maybe share here:- u need to hv regular dinner talks with your son teaching him how to court women.1) Mother education would significantly impact next generation IQ. X chromosome is related to IQ which provided by mother for both daughter and son. Meanwhile Y chromosome is from father. Daughter == XX while Son == XY. --> to get highly educated wife, make sure study hard to get into the circled 2) Dating a period for both to know each other beyond surface level. Does the partner would take initiative to spend money from time to time? If no, move along. The girl is not for u 3) Find a responsible and right valued girl. Marriage cannot be sustain with love alone. Life is not bed of roses but full of up and down. The right one will to stick with u through it all and resolve issues at hand 4) Hope for a girl that love u more than u love her. U will hv a blessed life  usually such things, parents dont teach their child parents should also caution their children not to simply find partner from a different religion. This one at least my parents did make me aware about this from a young age. From there, I go read around on religion. From reading /k, i can sense that many ppl are not aware of the repercussions, the impact and the heartache it causes on their own family members. Some still give comments like all religions are the same when they are not the same at all. Parents with daughters especially, need to have regular dinner talks, because women tend to make relationship decisions, emotionally, without thinking of the repercussions. |
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Aug 6 2025, 03:59 PM
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that's why i have said before
these money mentality mindset comes from the parents themselves and peers also some guys like to complain why girls behave like that but actually...ownself cultivate such mindset onto the children |
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