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Advice Wanted Life after my divorce, New chapter
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redracer2004
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Jun 30 2025, 02:51 PM
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I have a contradictory point here since I am a divorcee 3 years ago so I know.
Some girls like the "challenge" of trying to get other women's husband. Not to say she is entirely that kind of girl but they exist. Once you totally exit a marriage, they see you as a failed person in relationships. Why? Because they assume that you did not do your part well enough to maintain a marriage. On the other hand, if a married man who is struggling with his wife, he still is in a marriage and has better chance to hit on other girls.
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redracer2004
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Jun 30 2025, 03:24 PM
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QUOTE(pkn_jet @ Jun 30 2025, 03:15 PM) Yes and No for this. On this, she knew the whole reason and story behind my divorce. Yes - she might somehow feel insecure to build a a deeper relationship with me. I'm totally aware of this. Or it could either be you turned out too needy after your divorce?
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redracer2004
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Aug 9 2025, 02:08 PM
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QUOTE(calvinteh @ Aug 8 2025, 03:32 PM) ah the classic string along. it's all because u gave her all the benefit.... doesnt matter what u want or hoped for, it's always been what she can get off you. i too have been single for 2 years and finally ready to get into the market myself. lol i tell u, it's like i landed in a new planet. last i dated someone was over 13 years ago. man the dating scene really changed quite a lot. i went on a couple of dates, none of them ever bore any fruit. i guess i'll just die single. It's like stepping into another multiverse right? Suddenly, I don't know the dating world anymore.
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