Got one woman call up 988 say her husband dieded because of cancer. Husband is a TCM practitioner, refuse to go for checkup even though cannot shitto. Until stage 4 only diagnose. Dokter remove his colon liow, then he refuse chemo. Say not ready. Pain until refuse to take morfin. Until cannot tahan then take morfin but then stop coz say will tidur like sohem. Stop morfin then pain till die 2 days later.

Actually why some people just refuse to get treated?

their life , their choice

Some want god to heal them.
When die "god has a plan for everyone"
If alive, "god is great"

Becoz got ppl who wanted euthanasia.

no wonder the husband get cancer

because have to deal with her

lol

she is on depression meds for >20 years

Some get STD and says the pain in syok and do it all over again

cancer didn't kill her husband. Stubbornness kill her husband.

How he endure the pain...

yes. refuse to see dokter, refuse to take chemo, refuse to take morphin. Everything is a few steps late. Such a failure of a human.

Cancer 4th stage, if do chemo, life will be very sanfu, and normally savings will get depleted. If I got diagnosed with stage 4, I'd claim insurance and take a final holiday trip.

U see a lot of sohem like that if u run a business.

They got many reason for anything. They see u for opinion, but the truth is they just want to keep asking pusing until u tell them what they want to hear. They already got idea what they want to do, which is nothing that will inconvenience them, at no cost. They want u to cast "all heal" magic and make their problem disappear then they only need to put rm5 into donation box.

Rm5 because rm2 very mafan need pull out two keping note.

The se sohai type that will micromanage the fuck out of u then complain end result not up to their standard. Example is they order char kuey tiau. Then say dont want put pork lard, no tauge, no siham. Then say dont put too much kicap cos bad for health. Then give u 1/5 star in review, cos tak sedap.

Many cases like this. They lose the sense of malu and very brave to appear max sohai like that.

their life their choice

he die after taking medical doctor treatment?

sometimes over religion. they believe that their god will save them or to meet them. my grandma was like that. got diarrhea dont take medication. she said is the natural response by your body. got any sickness also dont take meds but surprisingly can survive until 80+

yes these type always think they are the smartest and want to 1 up u in everything to squeeze u and still give u a bad review at the end

The fear of being diagnosed with death, and also the price to pay, there is no guaranteed of your survival and the cost is between 100k to a quarter of a million.

If you are not rich and you survive, you have to start all over again, which might also means hard time till death, if you don't survive your spouse have to start all over again with hard times.

Sooo ..... this are very personal thoughts depend on how you try to navigate the meaning of life. Some people prioritize survival above all else even if it means burning everything he own just to survive, while some just embrace death and let things flow as it is.

There is no real dumb decision to be honest, its either you maximize benefiting others or yourself.

I have 5 relative that kena cancer from stage 3 to 4, spine, whole body spread, prostate, lungs , nose ........ and I have seen the process, from the ones who is willing to spend whatever they have to stay alive, and others that don't spend , while having some that spend from doctor's advice but not going beyond for a miricle trail ... In the end all pass away except for the nose cancer one.

The cure for stubbornness is death.

now he can say: told you TCM>western meds

if go for treatment, need to spend a lot of money for treatment, suffer and no guarantee for cure.

Got many reason.

- Self is too proud
- Gave up fighting for his life
- His health business contradicts another health business
- Other not known mental issues

pay so much money for treatment but if no cure will still die and family will suffer from poverty.

just like after buy medical card insurance, paying premiums, just to get claims declined when really need the money for treatment.