So, why wanna hold grudges, anger, frustration, hate, rage etc?
So, what can u do to make this world a better place?
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Jun 12 2025, 05:56 PM, updated 7 months ago
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With all the things happening around us, it shows that our time on earth is limited. Eventually, we'll say bye bye.
So, why wanna hold grudges, anger, frustration, hate, rage etc? So, what can u do to make this world a better place? |
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Jun 12 2025, 06:04 PM
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Cheer up lah, dude. Good day bad day also a day. IamAHuman liked this post
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Jun 12 2025, 06:08 PM
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no i will stay angry
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Jun 12 2025, 06:10 PM
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Jun 12 2025, 06:13 PM
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Einstein's theory of relativity, particularly the general theory, suggests that time is not absolute but rather a dimension of spacetime, similar to space. This has led to the "block universe" concept, where all moments of time, including past, present, and future, are considered to exist simultaneously.
https://www.discovermagazine.com/the-scienc...llusion-of-time |
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Jun 12 2025, 06:17 PM
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Jun 12 2025, 06:20 PM
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Because it makes us feel better. Time remaining is irrelevant. Pleasure gained from expressing ourselves is immeasurable.
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Jun 12 2025, 06:22 PM
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life as an average male is meaningless. no one care about you new in IT liked this post
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Jun 12 2025, 06:29 PM
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Jun 12 2025, 06:53 PM
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That's a deep and important reflection — and you're absolutely right.
Life is short. It's unpredictable. And in the grand scheme of things, most of what we hold onto — grudges, anger, hate — ends up weighing us down far more than it ever punishes anyone else. Letting go of those emotions isn't about pretending things never happened; it's about choosing peace over poison. So, what can we do to make this world a better place? Be Kind, Even When It's Hard One small act of kindness can change someone’s entire day — or even their life. Kindness doesn't mean being passive. It means choosing compassion when you could choose cruelty. Forgive More, Hold Less Forgiveness isn't about them — it's for you. Letting go doesn’t mean you forget. It means you choose to move forward without carrying the weight. Educate Yourself and Others Ignorance fuels hate. Learning opens minds. Promote empathy, understanding, and truth — not fear or division. Love Generously Tell people how you feel. Show appreciation. Give hugs (if they're into that). Life’s too short to hold back love. Be the Peace You Want to See In a world so full of noise, being a calm presence is revolutionary. Lead by example. Your energy affects more than you know. You don’t have to fix the whole world. Start with your corner. Your kindness, your voice, your healing — it all matters. What kind of difference do you want to make? |
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Jun 12 2025, 06:54 PM
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Because AMDK play nasty, so must be nasty back. gemusw liked this post
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Jun 12 2025, 07:19 PM
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Trying to find peace within myself 🙏
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Jun 12 2025, 07:22 PM
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Jun 12 2025, 07:26 PM
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The struggle for existence is a symptom of the entire material kingdom. Deswai religions teach us about the spiritual kingdom.
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Jun 12 2025, 07:37 PM
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Because you rather be the one who fck ppl than kena fck by others.
Today you are good, but living thru the cruel reality, eventually you will live enough to be the villain. Like we are gonna die anyway, why would you need to eat lobster or whatever good food, just eat any shit, keluar pun sama jer. But being able to die after enjoy or die after suffering is better? The world is unfair, the world is full of shit. You will not turn into a bad guy? you just haven't experienced enough shit yet, or you just didn't get the chance to do it. Like the elephant being torture since young, 1 stick on the ground it dare not move away, but torture enough it will one day explode and pijak the owner till flat. Not every elephant kena tortured, and not every yang kena torture can realise it can kill, or some just kena torture until too weak and die. If you have a death note today, who will you write on it? You may think hey i will be the good guy and write the bad guy name, but in their family eyes you are just a killer. Why nasty, why grudges? The fckin god scripted it in his actors and actress brain, and we can't do a fcking thing about that. The conclusion is malam jumaat liao lol |
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Jun 12 2025, 08:00 PM
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Enjoy before Skynet protocol initiated.
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Jun 12 2025, 08:02 PM
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QUOTE(wagie @ Jun 12 2025, 06:22 PM) You are what you think. If you think that you are great then, eventually you are great!QUOTE(nuvi @ Jun 12 2025, 06:53 PM) That's a deep and important reflection — and you're absolutely right. That’s deep bro. But do you practice what you speech? No offense ya. Just wondering coz I’m having a hard time to do the goodness in everything.Life is short. It's unpredictable. And in the grand scheme of things, most of what we hold onto — grudges, anger, hate — ends up weighing us down far more than it ever punishes anyone else. Letting go of those emotions isn't about pretending things never happened; it's about choosing peace over poison. So, what can we do to make this world a better place? Be Kind, Even When It's Hard One small act of kindness can change someone’s entire day — or even their life. Kindness doesn't mean being passive. It means choosing compassion when you could choose cruelty. Forgive More, Hold Less Forgiveness isn't about them — it's for you. Letting go doesn’t mean you forget. It means you choose to move forward without carrying the weight. Educate Yourself and Others Ignorance fuels hate. Learning opens minds. Promote empathy, understanding, and truth — not fear or division. Love Generously Tell people how you feel. Show appreciation. Give hugs (if they're into that). Life’s too short to hold back love. Be the Peace You Want to See In a world so full of noise, being a calm presence is revolutionary. Lead by example. Your energy affects more than you know. You don’t have to fix the whole world. Start with your corner. Your kindness, your voice, your healing — it all matters. What kind of difference do you want to make? QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Jun 12 2025, 07:19 PM) You need God! QUOTE(pandah @ Jun 12 2025, 07:37 PM) Because you rather be the one who fck ppl than kena fck by others. Nobody like to be treated like trash. Sometimes we do it to our love ones without us realizing it. Hence, we need to refocus our goals in life once in a while, ie. What is important? Relationship or power? Today you are good, but living thru the cruel reality, eventually you will live enough to be the villain. Like we are gonna die anyway, why would you need to eat lobster or whatever good food, just eat any shit, keluar pun sama jer. But being able to die after enjoy or die after suffering is better? The world is unfair, the world is full of shit. You will not turn into a bad guy? you just haven't experienced enough shit yet, or you just didn't get the chance to do it. Like the elephant being torture since young, 1 stick on the ground it dare not move away, but torture enough it will one day explode and pijak the owner till flat. Not every elephant kena tortured, and not every yang kena torture can realise it can kill, or some just kena torture until too weak and die. If you have a death note today, who will you write on it? You may think hey i will be the good guy and write the bad guy name, but in their family eyes you are just a killer. Why nasty, why grudges? The fckin god scripted it in his actors and actress brain, and we can't do a fcking thing about that. The conclusion is malam jumaat liao lol |
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Jun 12 2025, 08:03 PM
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Jun 12 2025, 08:23 PM
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QUOTE(IamAHuman @ Jun 12 2025, 08:02 PM) Nobody like to be treated like trash. Sometimes we do it to our love ones without us realizing it. Hence, we need to refocus our goals in life once in a while, ie. What is important? Relationship or power? It is all beautiful when we have plenty of cushions, plenty of chances, we can uturn and restart. If all those are taken away, is there still a point to consider? Like the palestine kid whose family already becomes ashes, the condition is so shitty, what focus can he have? To kill whoever that shit on him. Is he a trash because he believes in hamas and go bomb himself along with other civilians? No body like to be treated like trash, but he is already the trash that ppl more powerful is stepping on. It is not only war, look at the family who torture their kids. Some kids grows up with zero love for family, if you give him power, he may not even be hesitant to annihilate the fckin mental scums who he has to call father. Yeah there are many heart warming story, be the better man etc, in the end the scums in the beginning won't change to be a better person, and the one kena from him doesn't have a duty to be a better man. The scums doesn't need a reason to be scums sometimes. |
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Jun 12 2025, 08:58 PM
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"Why want to be nasty, hold grudges etc?"
wats d story actually? EGO - root cause for most issues nobody starts off the day wanting to be nasty....maybe got? it just so happens when ppl talk and discuss, opinions matter whether it's our own or others, and when it differs, that's when the music starts life, as it stands, gets tougher by the day, just have to face it's ups n downs as it comes - with a strong open forgiving heart - easier said |
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