What SMJK Jit Sin student doing
What SMJK Jit Sin student doing
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Jun 6 2025, 03:23 PM, updated 7 months ago
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Jun 6 2025, 03:25 PM
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no dead yet please dont kneel and bow
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Jun 6 2025, 03:31 PM
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Average jitsin behavior *fk you guys i hate you all* ruffy_z liked this post
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Jun 6 2025, 03:32 PM
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Wow cult behaviour. ruffy_z liked this post
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Jun 6 2025, 03:33 PM
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Is that even necessary? respect is earned not forced.
btw the green skirt milf maciam not comfortable |
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Jun 6 2025, 03:34 PM
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Kow tow
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Jun 6 2025, 03:35 PM
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should also have a ceremony of washing parent's feet JimbeamofNRT liked this post
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Jun 6 2025, 03:37 PM
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should show my son, see which class this kid is from lol looks like both children study in the same school
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Jun 6 2025, 03:38 PM
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a lot of chinese school, religion association like buddhist and those clan association doing it now :X
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Jun 6 2025, 03:40 PM
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Whats the criteria?
Top student, worst student or badly behaved students do this? |
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Jun 6 2025, 03:40 PM
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but why
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Jun 6 2025, 03:41 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 03:43 PM
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QUOTE(Jasonist @ Jun 6 2025, 03:40 PM) they forgot alot of parents are char siewnot worth this kind of respect ruffy_z liked this post
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Jun 6 2025, 03:45 PM
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parent and child.
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Jun 6 2025, 03:56 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 03:59 PM
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Fast fast die, fast fast die.
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Jun 6 2025, 04:00 PM
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Cringe
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the fuxk is this
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Jun 6 2025, 04:11 PM
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GISBH ruffy_z liked this post
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Jun 6 2025, 04:13 PM
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chi lan sin
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Jun 6 2025, 04:14 PM
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wtf is this
learn from CCP ke? |
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Jun 6 2025, 04:16 PM
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QUOTE(Chrix @ Jun 6 2025, 04:07 PM) Filial piety, or xiao in Chinese, is a deeply ingrained concept emphasizing respect, obedience, and care for one's parents and ancestors. It's considered a fundamental virtue in Confucian thought, shaping family dynamics, social relations, and even legal frameworks in many East Asian societies. |
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Jun 6 2025, 04:19 PM
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QUOTE(NataM @ Jun 6 2025, 04:11 PM) The person revered here has blood tiesAnd the person revered is of good background Unlike Gisbh is stupid give own flesh and blood away to be tortured Turn blind eye to the wrong doings |
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Jun 6 2025, 04:21 PM
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QUOTE(DarkNite @ Jun 6 2025, 04:16 PM) Filial piety, or xiao in Chinese, is a deeply ingrained concept emphasizing respect, obedience, and care for one's parents and ancestors. Yeah manIt's considered a fundamental virtue in Confucian thought, shaping family dynamics, social relations, and even legal frameworks in many East Asian societies. In this thread can see a lot have some twisted familial issue And in their own twisted way try to put down others with their own twisted upbringing Damn man Like what the hell happen to the society nowadays? |
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Jun 6 2025, 04:23 PM
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QUOTE(mcchin @ Jun 6 2025, 03:56 PM) Parent charsiew won't able to send to jit sin lar tiger moms?Those that goes to these kind of school is the top of the cream one So the kid also kwai chai Not kwai lan one forcing kids to goes thru dreadful childhood just to save face and impress relatives that you dont like...? |
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kesian
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Jun 6 2025, 04:27 PM
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QUOTE(mcchin @ Jun 6 2025, 04:21 PM) Yeah man yea that is eastern upbringing culture, must obedient, respect elderlyIn this thread can see a lot have some twisted familial issue And in their own twisted way try to put down others with their own twisted upbringing Damn man Like what the hell happen to the society nowadays? but in modern education, we dont do that. I did not knee before my parents but i do love them every bit, i help them to cleanup if they are sick. To be honest this is outdated education |
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Jun 6 2025, 04:27 PM
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QUOTE(damonlbs @ Jun 6 2025, 04:23 PM) tiger moms? So all of them is tiger mom's?forcing kids to goes thru dreadful childhood just to save face and impress relatives that you dont like...? This is the school action If this is so bad I wonder why so many still goes there? For me It's like weeds out the broken kids from broken family As these kind of things won't jive well with them |
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Jun 6 2025, 04:31 PM
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QUOTE(mcchin @ Jun 6 2025, 04:27 PM) So all of them is tiger mom's? for face loh what elseThis is the school action If this is so bad I wonder why so many still goes there? For me It's like weeds out the broken kids from broken family As these kind of things won't jive well with them show off to relative see anak saya baik your anak baik or not like mine |
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Jun 6 2025, 04:33 PM
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QUOTE(mcchin @ Jun 6 2025, 04:21 PM) Yeah man So no kowtow culture means the kids not filial, and the family is twisted you mean?In this thread can see a lot have some twisted familial issue And in their own twisted way try to put down others with their own twisted upbringing Damn man Like what the hell happen to the society nowadays? I have see a lot of cases that all this so-call tradition means nothing if the communication is one-way within the family. |
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Jun 6 2025, 04:35 PM
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QUOTE(damonlbs @ Jun 6 2025, 04:31 PM) My guess is more of a school thingsMarketing to parents on how they can teach your kids to be filial to the parents Plus I see this as a one of ceremony A tradition since from the start of the school, I guess |
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Jun 6 2025, 04:37 PM
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QUOTE(KevProp @ Jun 6 2025, 04:33 PM) So no kowtow culture means the kids not filial, and the family is twisted you mean? The school want to do itI have see a lot of cases that all this so-call tradition means nothing if the communication is one-way within the family. Not me who judge it All I am saying For me, I see, I have no exceptional feeling one way or the other I understand it, but I am not championing it But on the other side Screams of blood, murder As if this ceremony is affront to all that they stand for Kek DarkNite liked this post
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QUOTE(mcchin @ Jun 6 2025, 04:35 PM) My guess is more of a school things Filial Piety is gas lightingMarketing to parents on how they can teach your kids to be filial to the parents Plus I see this as a one of ceremony A tradition since from the start of the school, I guess Emotional Ransom/Exploitation |
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Jun 6 2025, 04:38 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 04:38 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 04:39 PM
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QUOTE(mcchin @ Jun 6 2025, 04:21 PM) Yeah man we taught them to kowtow nothing except to moneyIn this thread can see a lot have some twisted familial issue And in their own twisted way try to put down others with their own twisted upbringing Damn man Like what the hell happen to the society nowadays? so yes, sarahan father mother society who keep emphasized that money is everything otheriwise you are a big loser in life |
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Jun 6 2025, 04:39 PM
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SMK JitSin produce a lot of good/smart students.
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Jun 6 2025, 04:40 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 04:41 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 04:41 PM
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Walao u guy never know chinese culture have filial piety thing ? And to the point of toxic filial piety 15cm liked this post
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Jun 6 2025, 04:55 PM
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It's a practice/culture from ancient china, but I don't think we still need this in modern time anymore, not even happen in china nowadays.
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Jun 6 2025, 05:01 PM
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Wah lan eh, type c high school so call sekolah cermelang turn to this ...
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Jun 6 2025, 05:08 PM
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QUOTE(mcchin @ Jun 6 2025, 04:37 PM) The school want to do it Ok, i might misunderstand your viewNot me who judge it All I am saying For me, I see, I have no exceptional feeling one way or the other I understand it, but I am not championing it But on the other side Screams of blood, murder As if this ceremony is affront to all that they stand for Kek To each and their own, but for me his particular kowtow act is not necessary, the school can teach them the values and whether the parents want them to do that at home is none of my concern. I've seen a family that prioritize this kinda 'filial' values went south due to lack of 2-way communications. Long story short, parent deem the child filial only when the child follows whatever shiat the parent said although there is no logic in it. |
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Jun 6 2025, 05:09 PM
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Wow GISB is still alive and kicking in.
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Jun 6 2025, 05:10 PM
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QUOTE(DarkNite @ Jun 6 2025, 04:16 PM) Filial piety, or xiao in Chinese, is a deeply ingrained concept emphasizing respect, obedience, and care for one's parents and ancestors. My kids grad event also at most they bow on stage together thanking parents. More of a general act of respect and only bow once.It's considered a fundamental virtue in Confucian thought, shaping family dynamics, social relations, and even legal frameworks in many East Asian societies. But what was on video is absolutely medival. |
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mama papa, i love you , now i kneel to you, pls don't wack me again ~
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Jun 6 2025, 05:13 PM
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Gila
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Jun 6 2025, 05:18 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 05:20 PM
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Penang not human live one
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Jun 6 2025, 05:32 PM
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This ritual of kneeling in front of parents and bowing to show gratitude. Where la got parents want to see their kids kneeling in front of them. This too much.
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Jun 6 2025, 05:33 PM
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unker dunno what the fark is that...
bila sekolah jadi cult???? |
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Jun 6 2025, 05:39 PM
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In Thailand during song kran, they wash the feet of their elders called Rod Nam Dam Hua.
Here you guys kbkb saying it's a cult, when thais do it all say it's a good culture |
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Weird I thought in chinese tradition you only kneel to your parents if they're dead?
Or they did them wrong in a big way and have to kneel and serve tea as apology? |
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Jun 6 2025, 05:49 PM
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why no wear mini skirt?
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What kind of ajaran sesat is this ?
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end up go Myanmar
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Jun 6 2025, 09:36 PM
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Silly profession. A person's success relies mostly on own efforts and support of families and friends.
Not this bunch of people who earns a salary, they're going to be replaced by AI soon anyways. |
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no one going to mention that mum is hnnnng? just me? ok lol
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Jun 6 2025, 09:57 PM
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QUOTE(DarkNite @ Jun 6 2025, 04:16 PM) Filial piety, or xiao in Chinese, is a deeply ingrained concept emphasizing respect, obedience, and care for one's parents and ancestors. Own parents or ancestors is fineIt's considered a fundamental virtue in Confucian thought, shaping family dynamics, social relations, and even legal frameworks in many East Asian societies. To teachers??? Over sgt |
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Jun 6 2025, 09:59 PM
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QUOTE(mcchin @ Jun 6 2025, 04:35 PM) My guess is more of a school things Yes, I think it does appear to be a form of marketing targeted at parents.Marketing to parents on how they can teach your kids to be filial to the parents Plus I see this as a one of ceremony A tradition since from the start of the school, I guess Many families wish to instill traditional Confucian values (philosophical, not religious) in their children’s upbringing, but they often don’t know where to start—since the previous generation mostly received such teachings through informal means. |
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Ktards all so guarded their feeling.. Wan to take up my challenge to u? Kow tow and bow to your mom and tell her heartfeltfully that u love her and appreciates her efforts to raise u all these while. - see what feelings or emotions that comes up to u? Then see your mom's reaction. Most probably she almost wan to shed tears too. Try la. No harm done if there is nothing but if it does u good, it will be 1000x do good for your relationship with your parents. lolzcalvin and nihility liked this post
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Jun 6 2025, 10:03 PM
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Ktard kan Semua char siew ultra max!
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Jun 6 2025, 10:03 PM
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QUOTE(Balanced @ Jun 6 2025, 10:00 PM) Ktards all so guarded their feeling.. Hats off to you — you understand the feeling and have been there before.Wan to take up my challenge to u? Kow tow and bow to your mom and tell her heartfeltfully that u love her and appreciates her efforts to raise u all these while. - see what feelings or emotions that comes up to u? Then see your mom's reaction. Most probably she almost wan to shed tears too. Try la. No harm done if there is nothing but if it does u good, it will be 1000x do good for your relationship with your parents. |
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WHY CINA BRAINWASH MACAM NI. LICK HUNG DULU MACAM NI JUGAK KE HAH pepegaman
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I can see so many char siew here. gemusw liked this post
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Jun 6 2025, 10:08 PM
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This is so disturbing, even more disturbing when no teachers object, and even more disturbing still when no parents object at all.
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Jun 6 2025, 10:14 PM
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QUOTE(KevProp @ Jun 6 2025, 04:33 PM) So no kowtow culture means the kids not filial, and the family is twisted you mean? It is more like the triggered reactions from seeing the kowtow video... Quite obvious who has deep rooted familial issues.I have see a lot of cases that all this so-call tradition means nothing if the communication is one-way within the family. |
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QUOTE(nihility @ Jun 6 2025, 10:03 PM) I was exactly like ktards 2 years ago. Dont believe in this thing, thinks its lame, etc.Then i did it. Washed my dad's feet and tell him i love him. I cry i tell u. Even my dad wan cry d but he very very traditional so just looked away. |
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Jun 6 2025, 10:24 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 10:25 PM
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my grand father told me this is how his generation of people did but then we modernise and stop doing this ericcheng2021 liked this post
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Jun 6 2025, 10:26 PM
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QUOTE(Balanced @ Jun 6 2025, 10:18 PM) I was exactly like ktards 2 years ago. Dont believe in this thing, thinks its lame, etc. At least you expressed yourself & told him you love him while he is still around. Good example 🙏.Then i did it. Washed my dad's feet and tell him i love him. I cry i tell u. Even my dad wan cry d but he very very traditional so just looked away. May I ask — what prompted you to make such a sudden decision? It couldn’t have been easy, especially with the psychological resistance involved. |
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Jun 6 2025, 10:28 PM
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green skirt milf mcm hnggghhhh gemusw liked this post
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They are bowing to the mother, not father.
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QUOTE(15cm @ Jun 6 2025, 10:25 PM) my grand father told me this is how his generation of people did modernise —>> westernisedbut then we modernise and stop doing this gemusw liked this post
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QUOTE(nihility @ Jun 6 2025, 10:26 PM) At least you expressed yourself & told him you love him while he is still around. Good example 🙏. I felt stuck in my life, so i went to a training course which i paid myself. Ppl say its a cult and whatnot, but im thinking even if its a cult, so be it. As long as it improve my life. And one of the actions needed in the course was to show appreciation like this to your parents. May I ask — what prompted you to make such a sudden decision? It couldn’t have been easy, especially with the psychological resistance involved. Heck it turns around my relationship with my dad and bro leaps and bounds. From not wanting to meet my bro at all and always fighting when meet, to now able to talk n sharing things and talking about what we wanted in the future. N my dad from i couldnt even say i love u to him, to now being able to say it and show it. Same as to him too, now he always says it too. |
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Other cultures in Malay or India should have similar things? no?
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Jun 6 2025, 10:38 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 10:40 PM
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QUOTE(Balanced @ Jun 6 2025, 10:36 PM) I felt stuck in my life, so i went to a training course which i paid myself. Ppl say its a cult and whatnot, but im thinking even if its a cult, so be it. As long as it improve my life. And one of the actions needed in the course was to show appreciation like this to your parents. Heaven bless your soul — thank you for sharing.Heck it turns around my relationship with my dad and bro leaps and bounds. From not wanting to meet my bro at all and always fighting when meet, to now able to talk n sharing things and talking about what we wanted in the future. N my dad from i couldnt even say i love u to him, to now being able to say it and show it. Same as to him too, now he always says it too. Balanced liked this post
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Jun 6 2025, 10:45 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 10:46 PM
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Toxic culture
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Jun 6 2025, 10:47 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 11:06 PM
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QUOTE(Balanced @ Jun 6 2025, 10:36 PM) I felt stuck in my life, so i went to a training course which i paid myself. Ppl say its a cult and whatnot, but im thinking even if its a cult, so be it. As long as it improve my life. And one of the actions needed in the course was to show appreciation like this to your parents. You can still achieve all those things without specific actions, what is important is the intent and purpose behind the actions. All these actions without the right intention will also be meaningless. Many parents abuse this sort of arrangement also.Heck it turns around my relationship with my dad and bro leaps and bounds. From not wanting to meet my bro at all and always fighting when meet, to now able to talk n sharing things and talking about what we wanted in the future. N my dad from i couldnt even say i love u to him, to now being able to say it and show it. Same as to him too, now he always says it too. |
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Jun 6 2025, 11:17 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jun 6 2025, 11:06 PM) You can still achieve all those things without specific actions, what is important is the intent and purpose behind the actions. All these actions without the right intention will also be meaningless. Many parents abuse this sort of arrangement also. no need that specific la. Them kow tow is just one of the ways. No need bow or kow tow specifically. U can do other actions like hug them and look them in the eye and say i love u to your parents and say u appreciate them. |
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Jun 6 2025, 11:54 PM
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Jun 6 2025, 11:56 PM
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QUOTE(hotdayum @ Jun 6 2025, 05:32 PM) This ritual of kneeling in front of parents and bowing to show gratitude. Where la got parents want to see their kids kneeling in front of them. This too much. ericcheng2021 liked this post
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Jun 7 2025, 12:12 AM
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Jun 7 2025, 12:21 AM
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Wats these? Aym dun agreed wif these. Is true is ancient china culture. But we're living in modern times. Not every cultural practices is suitable for the times.
Tak kan these cina wan go bak live in caves kot like the puak puah or taliban. |
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Jun 7 2025, 12:29 AM
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Jun 7 2025, 12:34 AM
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I saw this in China kungfu drama.
But that is when the kid did something super wrong. Or when the parent is dead and the kid reached home too late already. |
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Jun 7 2025, 12:47 AM
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this is so funny.
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Jun 7 2025, 01:03 AM
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kek
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Jun 7 2025, 08:40 AM
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Jun 7 2025, 08:50 AM
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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Jun 6 2025, 10:47 PM) Kissing the back of hand is what? gemusw liked this post
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Jun 7 2025, 08:55 AM
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Need do this mehh? What era already now, need to kneel to parents to show respect? Banyak pattern lo this school
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Jun 7 2025, 08:56 AM
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Jun 7 2025, 09:05 AM
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I thought Thailand mother day do this as well?
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Jun 7 2025, 09:17 AM
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Lol this is why westerners look down on asians, over there they teach their kids to be outspoken, confident and independent but over here we teach our kids to act like slaves
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Jun 7 2025, 09:24 AM
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Jun 7 2025, 10:09 AM
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Parents day thingy la
Alot of bananas here lol U will understand what is happening if u read the text |
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Jun 7 2025, 10:15 AM
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Jun 7 2025, 10:19 AM
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Jun 7 2025, 02:49 PM
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My family every CNY sure got tea ceremony where my siblings and my wife I kneel and wish parents happy new year. Now my kids follow the tradition......the feelzz....cannot describe.
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Jun 7 2025, 03:03 PM
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QUOTE(sakaic @ Jun 7 2025, 03:49 PM) My family every CNY sure got tea ceremony where my siblings and my wife I kneel and wish parents happy new year. Now my kids follow the tradition......the feelzz....cannot describe. wow. i didnt kneel but do give the tea for my parents during CNY. Its a good respect and also practised by malays during hari raya - maaf- maafan. but now with Genz gone all the respect and cultures. |
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Jun 7 2025, 03:26 PM
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Chi Sin
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Jun 7 2025, 03:36 PM
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Wt..
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Jun 7 2025, 03:42 PM
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Power not even my tiong ling do this
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Jun 7 2025, 04:24 PM
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why to this extent?
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Jun 7 2025, 05:35 PM
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Jun 7 2025, 05:52 PM
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Jun 7 2025, 05:53 PM
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QUOTE(ruffy_z @ Jun 7 2025, 09:17 AM) Lol this is why westerners look down on asians, over there they teach their kids to be outspoken, confident and independent but over here we teach our kids to act like slaves Western encouraged complain while asian is more obedient Just check the esport in league between Eu and korea china one |
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